開學喇!2006九龍塘宣道幼稚園K2家長請進

VincentKenneth

I think it is really out of our control on whether the baby should be boy or girl, just let it be. For me, I would love to have a daughter but still got 2 boys.... Good thing is they can share a lot of things (i.e. clothes, toys...etc) and live in the same room.  However, boys always fight with each other and sometmes they can give us quite a headache...

I think 2 is really enough for me (in fact, over met my quota)....

Yin Tung mum, I understand the pressure you would have as 99 always want to have a grandson but  rasing an additional kid is not an easy task.     

VincentKenneth

芝娃娃

Re your question "男仔愛o錫媽咪, 是不是會藏在心底和不形於色?" I think most of them would be especially when they grow older, that is the difference between boy and girl. I have not had that experience yet as Vincent is still young and he would just say in words "媽咪, I love you". However, he would also say it to everyone especially to our maid and his grandmum.   

94075702

芝娃娃,

可能天軍仲細，他還未至於隱藏他好掛住我都唔講出來，不過大d就唔知了！所以我現在還可以攬攬錫錫他，便好享受這階段！

芝娃娃

對呀! 要好好享受這階段至上中學, 到時再沒有"媽咪呀, 媽咪呀!"呢d聲喇. :cry:

94075702 寫道:
芝娃娃,

可能天軍仲細，他還未至於隱藏他好掛住我都唔講出來，不過大d就唔知了！所以我現在還可以攬攬錫錫他，便好享受這階段！

芝娃娃

:  :
多謝你的祝福.

Dominicleung 寫道:
Hi Chiwawa,

My father-in-law is very opened on this matter, maybe because Dominic is a boy.  Your husband may change his mind sometimes later.  And we are looking forward to hearing good news from you.     :

芝娃娃

其實我倆的壓力不大, 我們有一定的自由度. 反而很佩服你有兩個寶寶; 我只有一個, 不能想像有兩個時的情況, 所以沒有膽量再生. 有兩個寶寶的媽咪, 生唔生好呢!?

VincentKenneth 寫道:
I think it is really out of our control on whether the baby should be boy or girl, just let it be. For me, I would love to have a daughter but still got 2 boys.... Good thing is they can share a lot of things (i.e. clothes, toys...etc) and live in the same room.  However, boys always fight with each other and sometmes they can give us quite a headache...

I think 2 is really enough for me (in fact, over met my quota)....

Yin Tung mum, I understand the pressure you would have as 99 always want to have a grandson but  rasing an additional kid is not an easy task.     

VincentKenneth

芝娃娃,

Personally speaking, I would prefer 2 kids because they can grow up together and learn how to share things togehter. Also when they grow older, they can look after each other (hopefully) and as each other's companion. But as Dominic mum said if you only have 1 kid, you can pay all the attention to him/her and the resources can be focussed just on him/her.  

If you want to have another kid, better to have it  earlier as your body can handle it better. I could tell the difference when I carried my second son Kenneth who is 18 months younger than Vincent.

    

heiyanhei

芝娃娃:生與不生真是一個很難的決家,決定生比決定不生又是更難,家裏的老人家人雖沒有給我很大壓力,給我最多說話聽就是浠浠了,又話悶死佢,又話邊個有妹妹,邊個有弟弟....都真係比佢激死.但自己到時到候,總會左思右想,尤其年紀一天天過的時候,我也想了很多時間,現在有了三個月了,但今次比上次有浠浠時實在辛苦很多,年紀大了真體力有點不應,又要顧女兒功課,又很需要休息.但又是一個新盼望呢.在此祝福每一個很難作決定的媽媽啊,加油!

CPY

芝娃娃
等我又搭下訕先!

生第一個時,我講過唔會再生,因為生產過程帶給我太大的陰影.但到賢賢一路長大,見到佢好多時都自己一個人玩.雖然佢冇同我講過悶,但覺得如果我自己只係諗唔想自己由頭再辛苦過時,就覺得自己好自私.愛佢應該乜都以佢為出發點.結果,我決定生多個比佢.我真的希望第時我地2老唔係度時,佢地可以互相照顧.

可能已經有過第一胎既經驗,揍第二個比起第一個輕鬆得多.當然,同一時間handle 2個真係要好大的能耐.但我相信天生母愛犯濫既我地一定可以做到   

到佢地大d,佢地真係可以自己玩.好似而家咁,雖然賢賢成日攪妹妹,but佢地真係玩得好開心,我只係坐係度望住佢地.哈,對於一個唔識同小朋友玩既我就好happy啦   

CPY

heiyanhei
hehe....恭喜你喎...我陀第二胎都辛苦好多.除左身體上的變化外,仲要花心機精神係個大度,係辛苦d.你多d休息呀.take care!!

JuliaCheng

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JuliaCheng

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ChunYinMa

芝娃娃

其實生唔生多一個唔係為咗99, 都係為了自己的寶貝仔/女.  

我老公最初都好似你老公咁, 怕經濟同教養壓力. 但最後我同佢講依家唔生我就收工喇, 再過幾年我老喇, 無能力揍, 更唔想佢地年紀相差太多. 浚彥細個時每次同佢表哥表姐或小朋友玩完分手回家時就好失落咁, 佢見到咁,想個仔有伴先決定生多個. 現在細佬成日都會部住佢, 佢再無失落感.

我好認同VincentKenneth的講法. 對媽咪來講有一仔一女梗係最好. 我生細佬時都好很生女,女仔第日大個都可以部下媽咪行街shopping. 仔就一定唔會.  好似浚彥依家咁細叫佢去街, 去玩具反斗城幾個鍾都話少, 去買衫就一入間铺就話點解仲唔走. 但同性別的話佢地可能更滆合. 所以不要比壓力自己要生仔定女. 其實各有各好.

不過經濟上真的有點吃力, 好似以前諗住比浚彥讀私立小學, 但依家會諗都係先抽津小, 兩個又要讀書又要課外活動,真的好重負擔.

heiyanhei

恭喜哂!! 馱第二胎真係辛苦好多, 記緊多多休息!!

ChunYinMa

hi all mom

你地小朋友有無話要交錢回校呢? 浚彥話今日有小朋友已經交了錢比老師, 但問佢係咩錢又唔知, 你地知唔知呢?

芝娃娃

chunyinma,

彥彤收唔到風呀. (佢話可能係校褸錢, 但校褸錢應該一早已付清了).

ChunYinMa 寫道:
hi all mom

你地小朋友有無話要交錢回校呢? 浚彥話今日有小朋友已經交了錢比老師, 但問佢係咩錢又唔知, 你地知唔知呢?

芝娃娃

有兩個寶寶的媽咪呀, 你們很偉大, 我一直都是為了自己舒服點便沒有顧及女兒的感受, 現在是時候想一想了.

heiyanhei
興唔興奮, 第二胎的感覺應該同第一胎唔同, 是嗎? 至少唔會亂買野.

ACWL

我估可能是星期日家長班時奉獻,佢地一樣當上堂返學論,所以便說要帶錢,你試下問佢。

ChunYinMa 寫道:
hi all mom

你地小朋友有無話要交錢回校呢? 浚彥話今日有小朋友已經交了錢比老師, 但問佢係咩錢又唔知, 你地知唔知呢?

ACWL

heiyanhei,
恭喜!恭喜!

我不知你是否自接的欣浠,如是就是一件太好的事,因她好像一個怕醜的小女孩但她又很熱情,(因每天去到樓梯位)她必同我的囝say goodbye.我深信她必能做一個好姐姐

ACWL

浚彥媽媽,

我非常認同你所講,有兩個小朋友在經濟上的壓力是大啲,我也和你的思想一樣因有兩個小朋友而放棄讀私校,但如果找到一間好小學就無所謂啦!因為小學只是六年,兄弟才是一世,所以是直得的。

JuliaCheng

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ChunYinMa
交錢回校．．．唔知喎

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