好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

four44

janet7903

咪 :cry:  ~~  我要明日先知d書拎得未~~ 知道有得拎會通知大家喇!  

janet7903

four44 寫道:
janet7903

咪 :cry:  ~~  我要明日先知d書拎得未~~ 知道有得拎會通知大家喇!  

OK~~明白了，慢慢啦，我唔係好急既。   

承承媽媽

各位,
我今日忙到甩碌呀!
早上湊仔返學,放學之後同佢去尖咀上專注力訓練,然後立即趕去葵興,因為我有個師兄結婚行禮去影相留念(因為婚禮兩點開始,阿仔上專注力課要上到兩點十五分,點知今日第一堂,所以有d簡介,要成兩點四十左右才走得......    所以只可以趕去拍照.......)跟住又趕去太子,因為約咗阿仔同班d同學今日出嚟玩,要集合......不過慶幸阿仔同d同學仔一齊出嚟玩,佢o既表現好乖,甚至可以話好過同我教會d細路一齊時d表現添......     
不過都發生咗少少唔開心o既事,皆因我去咗太子黃氣俱樂部,d細路玩緊時居然遇到一個同校高班o既學生,原來佢阿媽今日跟埋d朋友入去玩,不過我地去到玩時佢個朋友又走咗.到後來我阿仔有兩個同學家庭到了,因為他們都有兄長讀高班,所以識得o個個男仔,所以個男仔就玩得好開心唔想走,o個個阿媽就話阿仔因為有同學嚮樹,所以唔想走,而個男仔o既家姐又想走,因為想睇阿拉丁(個阿媽話佢無錄到喎~~),咁我就話你睇吓你想點啦!如果你地想留低,我地多兩三個人都無所謂o既~~!不過我真係唔明佢想點,講到好似好難決定咁,我就梗係唔會幫佢決定留唔留低啦!咁我原本訂了二十人份,預有十六個家庭,不過今日臨時都有兩個小朋友o既家庭嚟唔到,所以佢地唔使買o野食我地都夠食(仲要包走添!)但佢又無寧兩可,我又要睇仔,於是都唔理得佢咁多,跟番大隊睇仔去......
點知後來有人話我知,呢個阿太話我d食物唔夠,又去撩佢個仔,令佢想留低,帶唔到佢走.......阿仔有同學o既媽咪都話呢個阿太話我d說話好刻薄同難聽,不過我就話無所謂啦!因為我都聽唔到,使乜勞氣呢!況且佢個仔又唔係阿仔d同學,佢個仔返多兩個禮拜就離開呢間學校啦!我使乜理佢講乜喎~~!     

12312

囝囝放了2星期假期,  跟婆婆玩多了, 呢2日說了好多字 & 話語. 佢現在會經常自己說, 爸爸, 婆婆, 哥哥,姐姐, 弟弟, 叔叔, 伯伯, 花花, 也明了其中的分別.
話說, 昨天去學校跟"i位"老師溝通下囝囝的情況, 跟手一起回家了解家裡的狀況, "i位"老師只是說要買一張高度適合的台 & 椅, 遲d去"吉知島買返一張. "i位"老師話我地d玩具好似開"玩具樂園" 各種都有d, 其張一樣"i位"老師都話幾好. 因我"99" 都會玩, 我在"玩具反斗城"用了13x 元買了一個"會轉的壽司玩具" 呢個玩具可以訓練"手眼協調, 練手腕零活" 但仔仔還未完全跟得上, 但會 "偷雞"咁玩.    :tongue: (i位老師話我地比囝囝額外的訓練都有, 話囝囝的專註力最差, 教我地用一d家居 & 簡單的方法訓練囝囝, 但要持之以恆>)
昨天, 約了朋友下午到大埔火車博物館比囝囝見識真正的火車, 我要佢說:火車. 但囝囝死都要說: 地鐵.     佢玩得好開心. 特別對2部會動的小火車, 不停咁開掣. 回來途經"大埔火車站的美心快餐", 上去食小小野, 比囝囝發現餐廳有一大塊落地玻璃, 可看到火車經過, 囝囝幫我地選擇了一張看到火車經過的台, 看到吾想走.
其中我朋友買了一包"維他檸檬茶 , 蒸餾水" 我問佢:要吾要檸檬茶, 囝囝說 : '呢度啦."  我當然是即時比啦. (好開心, 3個字的詞出現啦), 晚上, 返到家囝囝見到"美素高奶粉"送來的奶粉 & 鼓開心到不得了, 成晚都按了"auto" 係到跳舞.

今日帶囝囝第一次去戲院看"多啦a夢" (奶粉送的, 可以節省$100.00)   佢可以看完成套戲. 成1.5小時, 當然我地供應了瀑谷 & 檸檬平果茶, (第一次飲, 以前飲的是蜜糖咪) , 返到屋企見到姑奶, 我姑奶2--3星期黎一次探我99, 姑奶問佢 : 呢支邊個買架? 囝囝答佢 : (用手指指爸爸, 再指指綠茶 & 指住樽上的平果標誌說: 果果, 姑奶即時讚佢, (意思是爸爸買了綠茶是平果味的) 我估. 晚上到藥房買野, 老闆一見囝囝就比山渣餅, 囝囝打開了紙, 慣性張包裝紙掉到櫃台內, :tongue: , 食了2片, 吾食, 我問佢: 系吾系吾要啦. 佢答: 吾食, 跟手老闆比西梅佢, 我問老闆有沒有核架, 老闆說沒有, 我個囝囝已說 : 我食 (平時佢死都吾肯說 : 我) 我叫囝囝同人說聲多謝：多謝伯伯，　囝囝說 : 多多哥哥. (老闆有6x歲. (囝囝係到刷鞋)   

hinhinmummy

承承媽媽

吾駛為左d麻煩的人而吾開心或者罷係心, 學係話齋, 反正都吾讀啦, 吾會再見面.............

12312

仔仔有好大的進步, 繼續努力!

44

我想問我究竟訂左幾多本書同埋乜野書, 你比左幾多本我, 同埋你係吾係借左本孩子, 你開竅了比我?

點解我屋企忽然之間多左甘多本書?



all

星期六, 日都係冒險樂園渡過, 事關星期六去的時侯, 軒軒想玩過山車(平地的車, 吾知叫乜好, 就叫過山車啦), 家姐吾想玩, 我第一次比佢自己去玩, 果時好多位, 佢居然搵卡車有小朋友坐的, 住係個小朋友隔離, 初時我以為係因為卡車係綠色, 而佢又特別鍾意綠色的關係.

返到屋企, 係度諗, 會吾會佢依家對其他小朋友無甘抗拒, 肯一齊玩? 於是星期日, 一條友(老公要返工), 帶住兩隻小魔怪去過, 搵答案........點知遇著美的開party, 吾比入, 兩隻小魔怪, 企係門口望住入邊好失望甘..............點知有個工作人員好好人, 佢問我係吾係一個帶兩個黎? 我話係, 跟住佢就話比我入, but美的之友免費玩果d我就要比coins玩, 當然啦, 當然啦..............

入到去, 玩過山車, 軒軒又係搵已經有小朋友坐的卡車去坐, 又係要搵女仔...............嘻嘻, 甘細個已經..........

呢d吾知叫吾叫做肯同小朋友玩呢?

mamee

見到各位都幾好, 真好.
我自己就麻麻~我星期五發病(發燒+咳), 跟手呀仔星期日發病, 之後今日到老公, 真係一屋病人.
好在呀仔係輕燒, 個人超精神. 尋日困左佢一日係屋, 可能精神無訂消耗, 今朝4:30已經起身, 同我講: 出廳睇電視咯. 我梗係唔同佢癲, 同佢講: 天都未光, 睇乜野電視, 你係床道自己玩下. 麼到6:00真要起身, 佢就好精神, 我就半 半醒. 佢一日到黑都問我: 媽咪, 我地玩咩野好呢? 我心諗: 我唔玩喇, 唔該你快啲退燒返學啦.

mamee

janet7903

昨日去上水假日農場玩，聿早上玩到下午我就好想四呀，好鬼四累呀，又晒又要追住卓卓  ，但真係幾好玩的，卓卓玩得好開心，餵下牛牛、睇下羊羊、免仔、玩下拾波及掉波、玩下稻草馬仔、滑梯、細細個沙池、坐下人力車及要 媽媽踏"腳踏水車"累四呀，水車一停又要我繼續踏，真是想囉我條命呀(好彩遇到"chr336",一齊踏，我無咁吃力)。 玩到三點九上車，卓卓一上車就訓著了。

gigi2

I feel so happy about my girl too!  Last Sunday we went to the beach for swimming.  While on the way back home, she kept on describing her encounters and feelings about swimming.  I could see that some passengers looked at her amusingly with her talkative.  My next hope is that she is able to communicate with us more effectively in bit more complicated sentence structure.  Currently she has acquired comparatively better skills in self expression than two-ways communication. :-|  

mickeyma

Dear All,
congratulation to all of you on the progress your kids made!

Gigi 2, remember those dark days... now sun is shinning again..

However, Yu is still having the habit of talking his own language from time to time, especially when he sees the long English writing or overhears Madarine talking, he will make up that kind of accent and start nonsense talking... and enjoy a lot. I will stop him and ask him what he is talking about. He will normally tell me:
I am speaking English or I am speaking Madarine..

This habit will somehow affect his normal study...
not knowing what to do    :cry:
And singing is another bad habit he has... he likes singing and makes up songs while doing another tasks...

four44

sorry 大家 岩岩先check到 朋友書局果度訂唔到其他果d書喇，我明日番到公司先整番個list出黎啦! 睇下大家想點啦! 再訂by mail 定取消!!

同埋大家已經拎左咩書!!

hinhinmummy

係 我借比你架! 至於買左咩書 明日比list大家啦!!

今日我帶隻仔番學 想死~~ 又熱佢又唔行~~又扭~~  

gigi2

Thanks mickeyma but I have the terrible experience previously that when I gained a hope then shot down again… I hope it will not be the same…

You say Yu is talking his own language.  Do you meant he speaks some languages other than Cantonese/English/Mandarine that you cannot understand?  I think he is doing something just for fun or relaxing himself by an activity.  If this is not affect normal life seriously and he is able to retort/respond you at the right moment when you query him about this, this might be a sort of his game only.  Of course, overwhelming will lose balance indeed or you may intervene & attract him to do another more interesting thing.  In addition, you can join together with him but use the proper language to step into his world.

Regarding the singing, sometimes when my girl gets angry she will sing songs at fast speed.  I think it is because of her thought is quicker than her tongue, that's why she will try to sing songs for purpose of controlling her temper or comforting herself instead of expressing in accurate sentences.  While coming into this situation, I will keep on describing her moods, guessing the reasons of her anger then guide her to have some ways out in order to solve the problems.  Do not know whether it does work to Yu but you may try.

mickeyma

Thank you for your good advise, gigi2.
Actually he is doing this for fun as I understand. eg. when he takes ferry with me to central, he will stand in front of the door and read the English words on it.
He will read: Warning! Do xxxxxxxx  He only knows word "warning" and the others, he will speak with English accent but meaningless pronounciation. What I tried to do is to teach him word by word : Do not step on the gangplank when the vessel is swinging heavily..  But somehow I do not want to do that as those words are tooooo difficult for him- as a speech delayed boy who can not speak motherlanguage well... but he will follow me when I do that... is it a good way to solve it?  I think I should seek Susanna's advise on that..

When he hears someone speak Madarine, he will pronouce some words like Madarine.. He is genius in that aspect as his nonsense talking do like Madarine accent..
And this may happen quite often when he sees some long English writing... or we turn the TV to Madarine channel.

kawai

Dear mickeyma,
Yu is a good recording machine like my son.  They can repeat whatever we say but they don't know how to make use of these sentenses functionally.  You know my son can talk to himself fluently in full sentenses in front of the mirror.  Sometimes he can pretend to talk to someone over the phone like a normal kid.  However, he's not able to talk like that with us.  I think he was just recording someone's conversation and then replay it accidentally.

I remembered Yu was good at puzzels.  Isn't he?  He has really good patience to stay on the tasks.  That's the reason why he can chase back all he's been left behind.  My son hates puzzels and asks for some treats after each task.  We've to fight and need to bargain before the tasks.  

Dear gigi2,
Your girl seems doing well in all areas lately.  I have no doubt that she nearly overcomes the language barrier soon.  



  

   

hinhinmummy

44

你得閒先啦, 我都未有時間看晒我手頭上的書, 我只係看左小狗咋, 好吸引...........我叫老公看........無反應.

尋晚, tvb做完yummy yummy之後, 軒軒可能眼訓, 係咪叫熄冷氣...................我本來諗住佢訓左晏覺, 可以看一陣看下呀99點折墮, 點知看左吾夠5分鐘, 軒軒係甘叫熄電視, 還要身體力行, 行埋去電視度想熄電視.............拿拿臨帶佢返入房訓覺豬, 入到房, 都還要係甘講'熄電視'............唯有叫家姐將音量收細.  萬一真係熄左電視, 家姐肯定喊到拆天

gigi2

Mickeyma & Kawai,

My girl does not like much about puzzle but doing puzzles well with computer.  It might be easier to do puzzle by computer I think and another reason is she likes computer to learn so much.  Actually, my girl will also repeat sentences from others and read lines frequently before she is able to grasp her own skills to 'talk'.  It is the process of 'speaking' and 'communication' - Can Susanne help us in this aspect.  Gradually, she will not repeat sentences from all but instead, she targets a person  be her learning model to follow.  Recently she set her elder sister be an example to copy/learn behaviour & language etc who seems admire her sister very much.

For Yu's case of reading lines by English, in the past I would read the line to her if she started already to read out or wanted me to read for her, however, I would interprete once again in Cantonese as our major medium of communication is Cantonese.  I would spend much more time to explain the sentence to her by short, simple Chinese as I would like her to understand what's the meaning of that sentence or words that she read out.

Kawai, I hope so but I still have the dark shadow of being shot down again once the things seems go smoothier and better……
  

Anyway let us put efforts to overcome and my challenge ahead is her K2 which will be started in September.. really hope that everything will be fine….

mickeyma

Gigi2,
I think Yu is going to the stage of your daughter passed before. He likes to read out words one by one, no matter Chinese or English. And when he sees the words he does not know, he will look at me and wait for me to read it out for him to copy.

I think your idea of telling him the meaning of the long English sentense is quite good. But sometimes those sentense is too long and too complicated to demonstrate to him and explain to him, I will try to switch his attention to other things.

Yu likes computer very much as well. I am trying to teach him how to control mouse now. From yesterday, I found I could negotiate with him for many things by using playing the games in the Thomas & Friends website as an exchange, like brushing teeth, doing tasks and so on. And every time, I will let him play for 5 minutes max. so that he will not loose insterest soon.  

Kawai,
I think Yu is not good at the attention and patience as well. Only if the task is really insteresting for him, otherwise he will not sit long for one task. In the school, teacher commented he would leave his seat sometimes still. I have made a book named: 家校通訊錄 to communicate with his I teacher and 班主任。

janet7903

各位
我在協康會借了一個書，本人覺得好好的。
"自閉症教學技巧"
本書成書都是教學活動(教你用技巧改善小朋友的行及語言)：
1. 溝通能力
2. 社會互動能力
3. 改善偏異行為
4. 學習能力

我問過教協，佢地遲些有返貨，我想去買一書，原價$127.00，家長有8折，教師有75折。

稚言治語

janet7903 寫道:
"自閉症教學技巧"

群英出版
黃俊瑋、羅丯苓編著
ISBN: 986-7401-07-7

janet7903

稚言治語 寫道:
[quote]
janet7903 寫道:
"自閉症教學技巧"

群英出版
黃俊瑋、羅丯苓編著
ISBN: 986-7401-07-7

[/quote]
稚自治語
係呀，係呢本呀，只有教協才有得賣。 :cry:

Justin2002

Dear janet7903,

How do I buy this book if I am not a member of 教協?

Justin2002