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hayamama

DoReMika,
Wa ~  Soho area for sure will be very crowded wor! I think not so good to bring kids there on such a festival... ??    Stanley is better bcse the location is closed to the beach...  
Now my friends asked me to BBQ tmw nite at Deepwater Bay; I have not yet make up my mind bcse Haya still cough...   

hayamama

AmyWonglo,
Dido! Haya also cries easily for little things. :cry:  I warned her she will be blind if she continues to cry so often. Recently she cried less; but she irritated easily & always angry with us... I am also a tough mom    & sometimes cannot control well for my ownself. I could only stopped for her fm doing something wrong when I scolded her. Then, she stopped but I could see anger in her eyes.  :evil:  
Ai ~ It's really difficult to be a good mom...

AmyWonglo

Hi, Hayamama,

Simonne is very easy to cry and easily lost her control.  I can stop her from cry very quick as I know how to handle her.  But if she lost her control, then it will be more difficult for me as she will become non-sense on almost everything.  However, I know this mainly happen when she wants to sleep, so I will send her to bed instead.

You are right that it is not easy to be a good mum.  You need to be with patient, love and technic to handle your kids.    You also need to have most of your time for them and still try to give yourself some spare time to rest your body & mind.  When they growth, you need to grow up with them.  It is a life time learning to be "Good Mum".  

espirt

Hi all,

We went to the school yesterday for injection.  We saw there are many decoration for Halloween Party and their candy's bags all hang outside the classrooms.  We also saw the paper doll with their photos were displayed at G/F.  It's so cute.

Amywonglo and Hayamama,

It's really very difficult to be a "Good Mum", especially for working Mum.  My girl just like Simonne, she will lost of control when she is very tired.  Now, I know is very easy to solve "just let her sleep".  But it was happened over ten times before I know the simple answer.  We are really lack of time to understand each others.

hayamama

AmyWonglo & espirt,
Yes, many times I yelled to her & felft regret & guilty myself  :cry:  Later, I notified that she learnt from me... She treated our maid with the same attitude & used the same tone to talk with her papa!   If I sued her, she cried & said 'Mama 你都係咁嗟...!' 真係比佢激死
So recently I tried to claim down myself when fury I left her alone & told her I'm soooo frustrated with what she did; I 'begged her' not to talk with me anyone ~ This method not perfect but it sounds quite workable wor!    
Ah!!!   Also, we will join all the activities on the notice which distributed last Friday. I am very desire to go for the panic at Yuen Long 荔枝園... I wish u all mammies can go so we can meet ha la...!!!     
  

swycsit

Yes, so many activities in Nov.  We also will join.

Yes, I also dont' know how to handle just a little girl.

Everytime when I get angry, she will just said : "I love you but I don't want you to scold me!"

Face her, I become crazy.  I know I already love her so much and dont' know how to handle.  Ms. Chan said that cannot let them control us.

AmyWonglo

Hi, All,

I am not going to the 茘枝山莊because my husband may go to China during that period.  I can't handle 2 girls in a picnic all by myself.  But I will join the sport day.

My other problem with my little girl is that she is a jealous girl.  She thinks that everything her sister has is better than hers.  So, she want, no matter what it is, the same or better than her sister.  I am lucky that my elder girl is a sweet girl, she will listen to most of the orders I gave her.  If she is just like her sister, then, I am sure I will go crazy.  

I try hard not to yell at them but sometime I will need to do so or they will not notice I am not happy with their behaviour.  Afterward, I will explain to them why I yelled at them and told them that I don't want this to happen again.  Now, I don't have a maid, I will ask them to do some housework for me.  Sometime, we will do it altogether.  I think this is not bad.

WaiMa

I took Wai Wai to school yesterday and see all the children dressed pretty.  I think I saw Heiyan.  Is she dressed red?

I will join all the function on Nov and hope to see you there.

Wai Wai always cannot control herself and she doesn't know what she wants.  I am trying to learn how to handle her.  She doesn't scare me as I am nice to her.

hayamama

AmyWonglo,
Good for u! At least yr elder daughter is a reasonable kid & seldom behave bad; Otherwise, it's really a headache to control 2 girls especially they hate each other...
I believe it's really hush to take care 2 girls especially when u have no helper now. Actually, I can manage my own girl by myself  but I feel myself getting lazy & dependent once we have a maid at home! That's why I will bring the maid to 荔枝園 as well as the school 親子運動日.   Usually, my maid is more patient than me but the worst thing is Haya often driven her & ordered her...! I tried to explain my maid to be stronger & only listen to Haya when her request is reasonable. Now it just like I've 2 daughters as u do & need to teach them with different methods....!!!!  
   
            

hayamama

WaiMa,
Good morning wor!!!  
What food will u prepare for their BBQ?
Ah... AmyWonglo,
Base on yr experience last year with your elder girl, can we prepare raw food for their BBQ e.g. BBQ pork, chicken wing, beef... etc??
I will offer her sausage, fish ball but she loves chicken wings very much! She experienced BBQ before & she fried c/wing herself but 燒燶晒...
Any way, I believe she will ask for it again. I will check it out with Ms Chan today whether raw food is allowed not...  

WaiMa

hayamama

The teacher will send the notice to us what they should bring before BBQ.  How is Haya?  Any coughing now?  Did you boil that soup I told you?  

WaiMa

hayamama

WaiMa,
好好多啦! 真係多謝晒大家呀!  
唔好意C呀, I really dont know Chinese entry ka...
Yes I captured all the receipe from you guys & tried them one by one; Tonite we will enjoy a new soup formula called '海抵棷'呀!
I am very desire  to join Haya for her panic at Yuen Long 荔枝園... I wish to meet you all that day la! Last year we went to 親子運動日 & all our family were exhausted after running all around & exposed under the sun    This time I will bring umbrellas la, a sitting map la & much more water... Heheheee   大家記住呀!

DoReMiKa

I will also join all activities in Nov. Hope to see u all. Any suggestion on how we recognize each other??

Will you join the 賣旗？ We will join but have to leave earlier.

hayamama,
Helper cannot come to 親子運動日 even grand parents, it seems only parent can join this.

Thx for yr reminder, we will prepare all the stuff.

AmyWonglo

Hi, DoReMiKa,

The Flag date is the same date of Picnic, both on 11/26.  Are you sure you can go?  Please double check.

You can bring your maid to the sport day.  I brought mine last year.  I think I also saw some maids there.

Hayamama,

My 2 girls do not hate each others, they just don't Love each other enough to share everything.  The maid I just fire is also like a kid to me as I need to teach her almost everything.  That's also the reason I fire her as I don't want to have a "3rd kid" to look after.  I need someone to help me look after the girls and for me to look after all of them.

You can bring raw food to school but since the time for BBQ is not that long, I think you should arrange only 1 chicken wing.  

I also not good in Chinese typing as it takes a lot of time to type out a long message.  So, I asked my husband to buy me a 手寫板.  However, since it is new, so it needs to learn to my handwritting.  Therefore, sometimes it will be quicker to type the words in Chinese then using the 手寫板.

WaiMa,

I recalled that there is no specification on the food as the girl will bring only 1 person portion of food. That's for her own consumption, not like X'mas party that they are sharing the foods.    So, as long as your kid wants those food, then it will be OK to bring for the BBQ.  However, since this is only for their experience and consider the ratio of teachers to kids, it will be better to bring something easy to cook for BBQ, like fish balls, sausages, breads & 綿花糖etc.

WaiMa

DoReMiKa & Amywonglo

Wai Wai wants to join the Flag date but I find it's the same date as the picnic.   I told her that we cannot join the Flag date and she is unhappy.  She really wants to participate both activities.  Do you think the school will reschedule the date?

AmyWonglo

WaiMa,

I don't think so as the Flag date is fixed by 公益金 and the school picnic is only for K2.  Right?  Hence, the K1 & K3 can still join the Flag date.

Told her that she will enjoy more in the picnic and it is only once a year.  She can join the next Flag date instead.

DoReMiKa

Amy,

Oh flag date is same as picnic??? Thx for reminding, I’ve to double check.

I couldn’t join the sports days last year and the notice said only parent can join. So I didn’t arrange my helper brought her there.  Really, helper can go to???

hayamama

AmyWonglo,
Ha? Flat day crashed with panic day? In this case, We will go for panic la. My reason is bcse Haya is very shy; If we sell flats, I believe she will only stand behind me & I will have to take over the whole thing... ~ 無理由bring工人呀...!   
Oh my Godness! How come we can bring the maid as well???   I thought my husband may have to work that day so my maid can be the back up tim!
In this case, I have to check again with Haya papa whether he can have a leave or not la...  
By the way, just fyi that I can only access this website during lunch hour at office bcse my home still not set up the broadband yet ah...   
  
   

WaiMa

I and Wai Wai buy the flag every Sat.  She knows that she can help the poor people.  She is interested to participate the role of selling flag.

Amywonglo

Do you know they will arrange another flag day later?  I remembered that they only did it once last year.