好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

HelenMrs.Lau

多謝大家關心！但醫生講既

Hei媽

隊長

明架,明架,我地好明白.不過,記住,小朋友腦袋變化好大,大家俾心機INPUT啦.

支持妳!!!!

HelenMrs.Lau

HEI媽：
希望喇 :-|

hinhinmummy

HELEN

其實我覺得醫生講的野不可以全信, 因為如果醫生講左佢可以追得返, 到時追不到(touch wood), 佢要'咩飛', 我覺得佢地講的野會保守d, 同埋會protect自己law.

好似軒軒以前做評估甘, 佢究同我講, 軒軒會比四面牆包圍住佢, 不識同外界溝通, 依家軒軒咪又識鍚人, 識得同我們溝通?

尋日還好笑, 家姐仔同軒軒一齊上st, 有一個環節係st話要乜野, 軒軒就拿比st, 軒軒一直都做得好好, 跟住之後st忽然間講'我要.....xx軒', 軒軒即刻撲埋個st度, st叫佢鍚鍚, 佢又即刻鍚姑娘............姑娘都讚佢叻仔左好多........

大家比心機d, 我們一定得架, 比d信心自己&仔仔

janet7903

HELEN
明白你的感受，我地都好明白的，仔仔有得追既，唔好咁唔傷心啦，可能要加到超大馬力去input。努力呀HELEN，大家一齊努力 一定會進步的。 :

HelenMrs.Lau

Thanks Janet
Thanks HinHinMummy
個醫生叫我揀定特殊小學呀

hinhinmummy

HELEN

吾係卦? 佢點可以甘快下甘的定斷呀? 無記錯你仔仔都係4歲, 還有兩年追架wor.

正如當初軒軒去做評估時, 佢叫我陪佢行呢條好難行的路一樣law...........

kawai

Dear HelenMrs.Lau,

Don't be upset and never give up.  Doctor made wrong diagnoses of autism sometimes if the kid didn't cooperate during the assessment.

Try your best and add more .....oil.   

陸美爸

helen,

唔好因為醫生一句順口的說話, 打擊倒你的信心,   喊完後再鞭策自己加培努力....   

"不問別人評價, 但求無愧於心"

陸美媽

稚言治語

HelenMrs.Lau 寫道:
個醫生叫我揀定特殊小學呀

個醫生咁武斷嘅？佢只係見咗小朋友個幾鐘就咁講，真係唔係幾啱喎﹗好多小朋友評估時都會因為環境陌生、怕羞等原因表現較平時差，所以通常醫生都會問埋家長小朋友喺屋企嘅表現。

呢個醫生真係... :-x  :evil:

mamee

Helen

我都覺得仲有2年(如果repeat多一年N4, 即係仲有3年), 變化/進步可以好大. 依家咁快下定案, 果個乜醫生好似武斷啲喎.

至於追唔追得番"正常人", 我自己對呀仔都未敢有呢個期望. 只係望到時人大左, 相差一兩年/智商差少少唔會太顯眼啩. 唔好望太遠, 我都係每兩三個月望一望/作個打算, 兩三年後既事就到時先算.

mamee

678

Helen
亂答，亂做，唔PAY ATTENTION    佢平時唔係家嗎.... 都係岩岩係見dr.時段係架者. 唔使upset 既. 醫生做評估, 話明都係靠[size=large] 估 架啦. 我都唔係好信d專家架咋. 個個醫生or 專家都"估"既野都唔同架.
加油!   

678

mamee
[quote]至於追唔追得番"正常人", 我自己對呀仔都未敢有呢個期望. 只係望到時人大左, 相差一兩年/智商差少少唔會太顯眼?. 唔好望太遠, 我都係每兩三個月望一望/作個打算, 兩三年後既事就到時先算.
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追唔追得番"正常人", 我期望係得架, 唔好嚇我,   你個仔都已經追得咁快. 我周不時都有問個d 訓師, 佢地個個都唔肯"正面"答我, 真係好似d 賣野既salesman咁, 唔答d 負面野.   

HelenMrs.Lau

我衣家既感覺........好似行行下，差錯腳，跌左落個深淵甘！覺得條路變得好遠，好難行 :-| 我無晒力再行喇 :-|

mamee

Helen
唔開心就一定有架喇, 不過幾日好喇喎.
清醒左之後, 你就應該諗下呀仔係因為唔識所以亂答, 定因為怕陌生人, 又或者係蝦人唔肯答問題?
如果係第一樣, 唯有努力慢慢教; 如果似係第兩或第三個原因, 你就應該星期六/日帶佢去上其他機構(第二間協康/明愛/基督教服務處等)既playgroup, 等呀仔有機會學聽其他人既指令~呢樣野我依家都努力做緊.

678
我個仔係咪進步得好快..呢個我都唔敢認.
始終佢地(喜好)都係怪怪地, 好似今朝坐車出面落緊大雨, 呀仔會話: 個安全島俾啲雨淋濕晒呀.
佢留意個安全島多過人/狗. 唉..點會唔怪先得架, 所以都係隨遇而安吧.

mamee

Hei媽

helen

好想送首歌俾妳!

(hee, hee....講明先,首歌係係我好...細個時聽番黎,不過唔知好記得, 希望妳識唱啦,不過我覺得

kmwun

HelenMrs.Lau

我地都係人行得耐都會攰，坐吓抖吓再嚟過，加油，有我地一齊行嗎！

我仔仔第一次做評估已經過咗四歲，五歲幾再去評估中心見醫生，先至建議讀咩小學，如果四歲已經可以知道應該讀咩小學，都唔會有五歲幾個評估。而家唔係理個醫生講咩嘅時候，做好要做嘅嘢就夠！

678

Hei媽
呢隻歌....好鬼n年前囉. 程可為,高妙思.....
莊文清都出家了.

HelenMrs.Lau

[img align=left]http://www.anybodyhere.net/xoops/uploads/smil3f99369191262.gif[/img]THANKS ALL! 我好感動呀！ :cry:
正話同HAYBMUM傾完計，當堂醒番D     

sjmama

Dear Helen,

I totally understand your feeling!

When my son was diagnosed as moderate autism and limited IQ or even MR early this year, I had exactly the same feeling like you. We brought him to the private Edu Psy to do assessment because we wanted to know if he was progressing (and we had to pay lots of money for that). However, the result made us even frustrated than before. The Edu Psy also suggested that we should send our son to the special school.

Nonetheless, we talked to all teachers, therapists of our son and asked for their opinions. None of them agreed with the Edu Psy's report. But all of them said the same things: our son is not suitable to do the "formal assessment." We know his abilities and  his limitations. His attention is poor (he is easily sidetracted by sound) and his language delay is significant. Both will affect his performance when he participates in any assessment.

Maybe you can talk to your kid's teachers/ therapists to see how they assess your son's abilities. After all, do you agree with the doctor's diagnosis? If not, no need to worry then.
Even if yes, your son is young. He can still catch up.