大家要keep住聯絡呀!一齊努力一齊進步!

mcdull888

多謝brenda 同irene搞gathering,

irene, 其實你已經搞得好好, 又即刻訂外賣又book場, 真係麻煩晒!

我亞仔果日玩得好開心, 見倒佢都肯圍埋d小朋友一齊玩, 都算有進步,

yymm2007

原文章由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-23 02:18 硐表
May,
我忘記你是否已付$20,當日實在太混亂LA,如未付,又要麻煩你入我bank account,唔該晒!

IRENE :

今早09:29已入數到你ACCOUNT , REF NO.5057, PLEASE CHECK ! THANKS !!!!!!!!!

MAY

yymm2007

IRENE :

親親孩子天 家長講座 ← 日期 : 2007年11月7日 (星期三)
地點 : 下葵涌兒童體能智力測驗中心
費用 : HKD60.-
時間: 上午9:00 - 下午4:30 (全日)

上午內容 :自閉症傾向特質
　　　　　孩子溝通問題
　　　　　家長心聲分享
－－－午膳－－－－－
下午內容：處理孩子行為技巧
　　　　　社區資源介紹

其中有個講者係"言語治療師"(張姑娘), 我曾經聽過佢講解如何同小朋友做"言語治療"(家居訓練), 當中我有很大收獲 ! 而且我向她問AMY的問題 , 佢都解答得很詳盡 & 有POINT的 ! 佢真係幫到我, 所以我都好想去聽 , 但老公請吾到假, 無辦法 !:cry:

講就講話...要經自己個"醫務社工"報名, 但我個"超級社工"係無比過任何資料我, 提都無提過 ! 我係自己打電話去搵"下葵個社工"問的, 佢當時答我"來者不拒"的 ! 有需要可電 : 3651-5600 搵社工問下 !

有無姊妹會去聽呀 ? 如有, 可否COPY份HANDOUT比我呀 ? 十萬個唔該 !

MAY

yymm2007

BRENDA, IRENE , VERON, SAMANTHA & 各位姊妹 !

多謝晒你地呀 ! 要各位擔心, 真係唔好意思呀 !

你地既鼓勵 & 安慰, 我真係無言感激 !

都係果句 : 大家加油努力 ! 各位媽咪 , 爹地...為左我地D仔仔女女,  努力呀))))))))!
MAY

[ 本文章最後由 yymm2007 於 07-10-23 14:38 編輯 ]

samanthat38

原文章由 yymm2007 於 07-10-23 14:17 硐表
IRENE :

親親孩子天 家長講座 ← 日期 : 2007年11月7日 (星期三)
地點 : 下葵涌兒童體能智力測驗中心
費用 : HKD60.-
時間: 上午9:00 - 下午4:30 (全日)

上午內容 :自閉症傾向特質
　　　　　孩子溝通問題
　　 ...

Hi every mami,

   I also want to have a handout due to I have meeting that day, My son go to doctor, I also cant take him to.

   If the 講座可以錄音?  Please dont forget me!!!!

ccfj

各位姊妹：

首先多謝晒Brenda’s snack & Irene’s cheese cake及各樣安排，真係辛苦晒﹗

May，今次係我第一次見你及Amy，我覺得Amy跟一般活潑可愛的小女孩無異，
社交、語言及自理能力等各方面都冇問題，放心啦﹗

唔知大家平時同仔仔出街麻唔麻煩呢？同囝囝出街好大壓力，佢剩係要我抱，又唔要爸爸抱，好鬼激氣，唔要你抱重大劑，自己行〈其實係跑，好快〉，行去佢鍾意去嘅地方，要追住佢，捉住佢又fing開，開始唔夠力捉實佢，好驚發生意外，真係好攰，唔知幾時可以乖乖拖住手行街，好期待。

星期日下週仔仔好專心地睇緊心愛嘅Thomas VCD，我特登叫爸爸遮住部電視，佢更係發脾氣啦，係呢個時候我叫佢同爸爸講”唔該借借”，佢照講，跟住都試過幾次”案件重演”，好搞笑 ，敢樣就學識咗，雖然敢樣教好辛苦，不過我會繼續努力!!大家努力加油呀!!

ccfj

Hi DMJ103,

你已經成功地走了第一步，多點上來分享及分憂吧！

原文章由 DMJ103 於 07-10-22 15:19 硐表
Dear Brenda and everyone,

Hi! I am new in this topic. I have been following your stories since July. But I am quite "passive" and "shy", I never left any message nor tried to join your gathering.op ...

samanthat38

Hi Amon,

I review some message form BK topic as the following is quite good for you which is some suggestion from the ST to the 語言 dealyed especailly for some is no wording for the child.   

Furthermore, 承承mama's sharing is also very good and touch.  I want to share for everymami of here.  

  

親子王國 » 特殊教育 » 言語治療服務資料

samanthat38

Hi Everybody,

I have 2 sons, the elder son is normal and Yau Yau is my 2nd son who with AT.  

These 2 days, I am not so busy in Office, so I review some BK topic for Langage delayed due to I need to searcing ST for my elder son due to he is 長期聲沙(At least 2-3 yrs.),I havnt take care for that due to I think he is only shooting all the days and speaking so much and so loudly.  But
when he is almost 6, Yau Yau go to 靈實綜合治療, 姑娘told me 哥哥should be dont know how to use the voice.  It will caused some problem in future.  But they cant help me due to their service until 6 and he will be 6 after 1 month.  And he mus go to see the 耳,鼻,喉 doctor first to check if 聲帶有損. I have already do it and he is OK.  So, I hant sercing St for him until these 2 days I really want to 正視 his problem.  But I find so many centre dont offer the service for this cases and his age.  Heephong need to waiting almost 6 months.  Anyway, I will (but not yet) apply due to it is also experence.

庭思 : I apply it but they told me that waiting at least 2-3 months.  Now they suggest me to phone to HONGKONG U tomorrow to try if it will be short waiting list or not? And they consult the ST and told me that this cased need quite a long time for tainning.

保良局 : Not offer the service for this cases.
Step : I hant try it but it looks quite experence and the waiting list quite long.

If anyone have suggestion. And if anyone already try the service of HK U?  Please share.

bigheadgirl

姊妹們:
尋晚寫咗好多但一send就無晒,激死!

Gathering果日比較混亂,無咩同新mummy傾計,先update自己的近況:
1.  11月會參加家長小組,係社署攪,for新i位家長的,逢星期四下午,有冇姊妹參加咗呀?
2.  報咗名參加浸大攪的幼兒教育課程(之前post出嚟的link),關於自閉症/亞氏保家,11月start,又係星期四,晚上,但now仍未知能否成辦.
3.  報咗名參加小童群益會+協康的talk(Ivy之前post的link),報咗幾個,有D係12月,有D係1月&2月.
4.  自己的心情已好轉,我已經唔再執著於亞朗的"label",自閉傾向/亞氏保家/資優,咩都好啦,而家邊樣弱就train邊樣,希望佢有進步就得LA.
5.  至於亞朗,我仍然係每日同佢鬥智鬥力;尋日放學老師話佢好唔合作(so far老師第一次咁講),叫佢飲水又唔飲,叫佢唔好做佢又做,我出咗學校問佢:
我:"今日乖唔乖呀?"
朗:"唔乖!"(衰仔,夠坦白 )
我:"点解唔乖呀?"
朗: (指住自己塊面)"有小朋友tuk你塊面!"(其實係tuk我塊面!)
我:"小朋支tuk你就話比老師聽,但係唔可以因為咁就唔聽老師話噃,知冇?聽日返學要聽老師話呀."
朗:"下次先聽LA."(跟住走咗去玩滑梯)
隔黎有個小學生呆左,点解條'豆丁'咁寸嘅?

到今日放學.....老師話佢都係唔合作,又係唔肯飲水,老師叫佢三次都唔肯,跟住仲特登倒咗杯水落地下,老師話佢,佢又話尿急又話屎急,又話整濕件衫要換,真係激死!過其實我都預左,反而太乖都唔似佢;以前教書果陣成日同D家長講佢地D細路,而家風水輪流轉,補應囉.:cry:

下次gathering幾時呀?BBQ or outing都好喎.

[ 本文章最後由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-23 23:56 編輯 ]

bigheadgirl

May,
個talk好吸引喎,不過最衰星期三亞朗要返協康,如果唔係我都去呀,如有姊妹去,我都想要handout呀,唔該唔該!

原文章由 yymm2007 於 07-10-23 14:17 硐表
IRENE :

親親孩子天 家長講座 ← 日期 : 2007年11月7日 (星期三)
地點 : 下葵涌兒童體能智力測驗中心
費用 : HKD60.-
時間: 上午9:00 - 下午4:30 (全日)

上午內容 :自閉症傾向特質
　　　　　孩子溝通問題
　　 ...

bigheadgirl

定期攪生日會都好提議喎,不如先list out小朋友嘅birthday先LA

媽咪名               小朋友名            Birthday
Irene                  朗朗                  27 Jan

CCnam

媽咪名               小朋友名            Birthday
Irene                  朗朗                  27 Jan
Ivy(媽)& 銓(爸)   楠楠                  19 Oct (剛過去,等下年)

veronchan

媽咪名               小朋友名            Birthday
Irene                  朗朗                  27 Jan
Ivy(媽)& 銓(爸)   楠楠                  19 Oct (剛過去,等下年)
Veron                 浚禧 (Adrian)     11 May

DMJ103

Hi ccfj

Thank you for encouraging me! Hope to see you soon. One reason I didn't say much in BK in that I don't know how to type Chinese. So moms, please forgive me for typing in English.

I have a question, does anyone of you have any experience in assessing your child in private clinic for autism? Which is a good one?

My son is now 3. He had speech delay since 2, has been seeing ST since then. He did improve but still legs behind his counterparts. In Sept, he also started training in EETC. Recently, we discovered some autistic features like poor eye contact, weak communication skills and so on. We are really worried.

Last night, I took him to Tom Lee's music wonderland for the first time, my heart broke as I saw how "behind" he is. All other kids can follow the teacher's instructions closely except him. I had a hard time keeping him inside the classroom while other kids and moms were having a great time. Back home, I cried, cried, cried, cried.......

Sorry, the message is a bit long la....Anyway, it is good to have a place to chat with you all.

原文章由 ccfj 於 07-10-23 16:56 硐表
Hi DMJ103,

你已經成功地走了第一步，多點上來分享及分憂吧！

cltm

已看你們的分享很久了，見到你們咁努力同小朋友做訓練，而他們又有進步真叫人高興。

仔仔被評為自閉傾向也有1個多月(快2個月)了。在這些日子也未能與老公達到什麼共識，做什麼實際行動 / 申請什麼訓練，只是在浪費仔仔的寶貴時間，真令人沮喪。因老公認為仔仔無事，叫我不要label他，如我不斷同老公傾仔仔的問題只會令他更嚴厲、更無耐性對個仔。我要返工，個仔最跟他，如有什麼訓練、你們的聚會，一定要他贊成及參與才能參加。就像原本可以有位參加你們9月的聚會最後也因他的反對而無奈放棄了。他的態度很強硬，我不知可以做些什麼來幫個仔。希望大家可以提供一些在家也可以進行的訓練方法給我，好讓我可以放工回家與仔仔訓練。

podi

cltm,
sorry我收到你PM已有一段時間但我實在無時間回覆.
你的問題我都了解因為我囝囝同你囝囝既評估結果一樣, 令我兩公婆好down, unexpected.
我就比較無主見, 只懂哭….幸好老公好冷靜, 幫我分析成件事: 個仔有無問題都好, 只要發現需要改善既地方就會盡全力去做.
我自己當時就好衝動咁想即刻quit左份工教個仔, 但想深一層要用好多$去support各類型training(協康早期訓練 $400/50min, 言語治療$700/50mins), 我又唔想因為收入少左而cut個仔既training, 最後都打消念頭, 但就好快就報training(協康, 基督教服務處&私人), 但都要等成2個幾3個月先有位比我個仔上協康早期訓練.

你最好快d交表去協康或其他機構, 因為真係要等好耐, 唔好浪費時間.
我老公都話個仔仲細, 唔好label佢, 同埋佢最後係無事, 只係發展遲綬所致(我仔早產3個月). 但發展遲綬都要正視, 我都唔可以唔開心, 個仔係會知道.
其實我好多謝我老公佢諗野咁積極, 平時佢就懶懶閒, 但一有事時就好冷靜, 我就死哂火.
我其實未知問題前, 成日都覺得個仔唔識講野定點都因為早產仲未發展到某個階段, 同埋我仲係讀緊個part-time master, 成日都要傾功課, 上堂, ignore左個仔.
但知道問題後, 我地放左好多心機落去個仔度, esp時間, 一放工就即返屋企(15mins內).
我老公知道要improve個仔既eye contact, 就買左個小口琴(我仔好鍾意音樂), 我地一吹個口琴, 佢就會望實我地, 所以佢既eye contact係好左好多!
I will share my experience to you tonight because I’m in office right now and cannot online for so long.

cltm

唔知為何, 重覆出 post

[ 本文章最後由 cltm 於 07-10-24 15:58 編輯 ]

cltm

podi,

明白大家都很忙，多謝你長長的回覆。你比我好彩，有個開明&積極的老公。

如要帶個仔去做訓練就一定要老公幫手，因亞仔實唔跟我。現我打算自己交表去協康先，到排到先再同老公講。同希望從各位身上得到一些在家訓練的方法，可以在家訓練個仔先。

另多謝你小口琴的建議。

podi

試講出你仔仔的weak point, 睇下幫唔幫到手?

原文章由 cltm 於 07-10-24 15:57 硐表
podi,

明白大家都很忙，多謝你長長的回覆。你比我好彩，有個開明&積極的老公。

如要帶個仔去做訓練就一定要老公幫手，因亞仔實唔跟我。現我打算自己交表去協康先，到排到先再同老公講。同希望從各位身上得到一些在家訓練 ...