迦南(藍田) 傾計會.

CheaChea

SandyWu,

其實詳細我都不是太清楚，以前有朋友講過K1下學期所有地址都已記錄作將來分校網之用，當然需要提供有關証明。我想要知道更多資料，要請教其他媽媽。

Carrie

CheaChea

SandyWu,

I understand your feeling. You hope arrange the trip for your family members on release but your husband gives more ojection for you. In my view, his concern is very good and he is careful character. You try to comprehend his thinking. If you have good prevention before the trip, you can decrease his worry.

I accompanied with my son on trip at three times and he was 14 months at first trip in Bangkok. I remember that we need prepare his things as double as ours including clothes, milkpower and others. Although we took heavy thing to Bangkok, we enjoyed that trip.

CheaChea

Meisuen

CheaChea 寫道:
Meisuen,

Your son is only 21 months. You need not worry about his language problem because they will improve their speaking ability after 2 years. They like a computor and they store many words in their memory for use later. We always talk with them and can stimulate their thinking.

CheaChea

咁我放心好多啦! tks!

Meisuen

早晨各位,

想問係咪每個學期每個小朋友都有獎攞架?

Meisuen

hello!

點解冇人既?))))

SandyWu

Meisuen,

I just opened the topic and saw your message!

I am now very busy in the office and just use a little time for internet.  I am so excited because I will go to Pukket for 5 days with my husband and daughter.  So I think I need to work late in order to clear today's job.

I have taken Ivy's advice for overseas trip.

Let us chat after my holidays.

Take good care (all bk moms)!

Ivy.CL

SandyWu ,

帶小朋友去放行, 事事小心D就ok架, 不用太擔心佢會病呀......玩得開心D. 難得一家人去玩 ma  

我搬公司, very busy of this week. 所以無上bk.
等你返來再傾下  

Meisuen

SandyWu,

Wish you have a happy trip.  I also will go to China this month end for 2 days relex with my mom, Dad  together with BB and my maid.

Meisuen

hello!

CheaChea

Meisuen,

我想每個小朋友在學期尾都會收到獎狀以作鼓勵。

Meisuen

CheaChea 寫道:
Meisuen,

我想每個小朋友在學期尾都會收到獎狀以作鼓勵。

咁真係幾好喎, 細路仔要多d鼓勵架!

Ivy.CL

SandyWu,
講開工人, 我頭一個係菲菲(佢有病, 返左屋企) 而家係印印, 印印比較pure, 但做野慢D. 佢係台灣做過3年, 識國語, 廣東話學緊, 一般對答ok.
我同工人相處用"心" , 會慢慢教, 會俾一份每日清潔工作表佢, 一一同佢講, 再叫佢用自已語言寫好, 貼係雪櫃面, 大家都睇到, 佢又唔會忘記無做.
我大女返學, 畫班.....時間表都會係份大日 曆表注明, 大家都睇到. 每次教佢做野我都會試一次, 再叫佢做一次俾我睇.
如果做錯D野, 我唔會當住仔女面前閙佢, 會入房傾.
我想我仔女專重工人, 工人都要付責教小朋友架.
工人有セ唔好, 唔開心...... 我會即日 or 盡快解决, 同佢傾, 叫佢改下 or 佢有セ另外問題......唔好忍, 忍住其實對大家都唔好, 唔好諗住怕佢 or 驚佢對仔女唔好........
大家互相合作對個家 & 小朋友先有好處.
當然要細心留意小朋友同工人関係, 如果小朋友鍾意同工人玩, 即代表工人對小朋友相處無問題.
要留意小朋友皮膚有冇乾, 俾蚊kiss, 太熱會有點點....等,
工人一般對尼D唔太care, 因為佢地覺得係小事, but mama當然要注意下, 叫工人搽D野 la.

SandyWu

Iv.CL

I just came back from Phuket yesterday afternoon.  I enjoyed the these 5 days trip very much.  It was a surprise that my daughter felt very happy and she could manage herse;f well (that was out of my expectation).  She did not cry for Siti (her maid) and forgot her completely during the journey!

I have taken all of your advice.  It was so helpful that she brought her toy dog and story book.  I think I can take her for another trip in Christmas without any pressure!

Thanks for your opinion about the Maid.  After my journey, I felt some disappointment about my maid.  She seems to have no improvement after my holidays.  For example, she forgot to call me today after my daughter back to home for summer school.  Perhaps I need to talk to her again regarding her careless mistakes.  Do you agree?

How about your daughter?  Does she enjoy the summer school and Coby Dance?  

I will arrange to put the photos on the computer.  But I don't know how to do.  Could you please teach me?

Let us chat later.

Cheers.

** Sorry for my typo errors.  I now amend it again and send the message once more!

Ivy.CL

SandyWu,

最緊要一家玩得開心, 平安返屋企  

sorry 呀, 我唔識轉貼D相架, 你要問下其他人 la  
跟住教下我wor  

如果工人做到不合你意, 最好同佢面對面講清楚, 唔好忍呀.
但ヌ不要太動火發皮氣鬧佢, 同佢講道理好D.如果無改善,
再作驚告如下再錯, 會叫她"返家"
工人對我地在職mama來講, 係左右手, 佢要take care 整個家 & 小朋友. 如果工人做得好, 我會專重佢 & 當佢係家中一份子.
同你工人傾下, 如果覺得佢唔好, 換個新的.
甘新工人又要時間去適應, 都會煩一段時間      

  

SandyWu

Ivy.CL

Read your message with thanks.  I will try to ask other BK's mum how to put the photos on line.

Yesterday morning, my maid had conflicts with me and she told me that she can leave if I insist.  So, I went to my agent last night.  I met a Philippine maid who is 40 and just finished her contract.  I had talked with her previous employer with good comments.  BTW, both my husband and me want to take her for a trial period.  However, when I came back home and talked with my maid, she told me that she was not aimed to look for another new job.  Shen still wanted to work with me.  However, if I really want her to leave, she will do so.   It was so surprise for me that my daughter seemed to know that something happens.  

After discussion with my husband, both of us agreed to give her the last chance (at least complete the contract which will expire on May next year).   The Philippine maid called me this morning and I told her that I will make decision before 24 August 2005 which her working visa will expire thereafter.  Can you please give me your advice?  

Cheers.

Ivy.CL

SandyWu,

小明友 under 2歲易適應新工人, 越大有自已思想, 感情....就難適應D, 就算係大人都要時間適應 la.
三歲已經識好多野, ユ人陪bb時間比你長, 要換工人, 要同小朋友傾下, 如果佢強力返對, 你要再諗下.

新工人到左, 你要請假(may be 1-2weeks)教工人 & 幫小朋友認識新工人, 都幾麻煩 wor.


新工人40歲大左D,我怕唔夠精神, 佢要take care BB, home & 陪BB玩 wor    

如果原有工人願改 & 傾下, 再試下用好D.
佢做左mama未呀, 如果做左, 你以一個mama為出發點同佢講, 例如話 "亞囡放左學你要call 我, 等我知道安全返家, if not, 我會擔心bb & 你 ma " 記得加 "你"字, 等佢feel到你care佢.
其實ヱ人都要別人 care 架, 你對佢好D, 睇下關係會否改善.

Ivy.CL

SandyWu,

新工人唔用, 早D話佢知, 費時佢抱希望等你ma.
等佢有時間再 find other job.

我以前ヱ人差不多36歲, 氣力/体力真係差D.
好彩換左, 而家尼個28歲, 有氣有力, take care 兩個 bb都ok. 我個細仔2個半月大.

SandyWu

Ivy.CL,

Thanks for your 2 messages.  In fact, I told the new maid this morning over the phone that she can try to find another new employer because I promised to give one more chance to my old maid.  My Indonesian maid is now 33 and has a boy (10 years old).  She is now with me for 3 years already.  I can tell that my daughter likes her very much.  That is the most important factor that I still keep her even sometimes she makes careless mistakes.  Perhaps, as my hushand said, I give too much expectation for my old maid.  I will follow your method that give her a new timetable for all the job duties.  In the old time, I just let her to do what she planned.  Sometimes, her own arrangement made me feel very unhappy.

Anyway, I decide to keep her until she finishes the 2nd Contract.  My mother-in-law has talked with her this morning.  The feed back was quite positive. I hope both of us will have a new beginning.

How about your daughter?  Does she like the summer school and Coby Dance?  My daughter loves very much because she can try to learn how to do some simple cooking such as sandwiches or noodle.  It is better for her to have some programme outside!

Ivy.CL

SandyWu ,

一個家庭其實最清楚點安排係你, 你要睇全面.
工人睇一定俾你少, 要求同你一定唔同.
有時未必係佢做錯, 只係方法唔同, 甘先有不和 ma.
講 & 寫清楚你要求, 等佢有個 guideline 做野.
你個女喜歡工人, 甘你可以放心俾佢take care.
佢不喜歡工人, 甘你重煩呀.

我個囡好鍾意返學呀, 學校叫帶一個食物box返去, 昨日佢帶左西蘭花 & 腸仔返來, 佢話係佢 cook wor  
cody dance 我未見佢跳過舞 wor, 今晚問下佢先  

charlene

請問你地近來有無見到"葉主任"?