好擔心。。。資優？自閉？亞氏？幫幫我！感激！

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ivyivy3000 發表於 13-6-14 10:08
回復 appleyma 的帖子

你好，樓主，我個仔(k1 now)同你講個d有d似：1. 以前2歲時健康院轉介我評估，我無去 ...

佢最大問題係情緒: 成日發脾氣、一定要就佢先，好固執，會發顛大叫，出街見到人好怕醜、唔肯打招呼，無眼神接觸，唔答人地，仲要成日扮白痴樣 (反眼、講bb話或唔之咩話)…

我可以點教……

我答你呢樣：

佢固執，係因為怕“變”。咁你逐少逐少去變；同埋預多少少時間去“預告”，就算食咩，我都會預先講。日常生活盡可能俾佢參與；如果佢地知道流程，就會多一份完全感。

發脾氣，就搵個安全地由得佢發，同佢講發完，冷靜左黎搵你。平時飲食要介口。可樂，高甜都要介。如果你個小朋友經常身體好熱（但無發燒果隻），就可以試下涼茶佢飲，中醫話小朋友易心火盛，精力用唔晒就入肝，夜晚訓得唔好。你睇下阿仔有無呢d症狀。

阿仔自細我去邊都會同佢去，街市係一個訓練好地方，佢唔叫人，唔打招呼，我會叫人唔好賣野俾佢（因為阿仔好喜歡食水果），唔叫人真係買唔到最愛。同埋我會叫佢試下去問，同人地話要買咩（唔好多人既時候去喔）。就算去餐廳，我會要佢點餐。盡可能生活上，要佢同人接觸，咁就自然得多！

逐樣黎，羅馬不是一天建成。

ivyivy3000

thank you so much!!!

ckf

回復 ellen_lo 的帖子

Could be 資優 and also 亞氏, my kid is like that. You won't notice as Asperger look pretty normal, except they're not talk a lot or only talk the topic that they are interested with the person they like.  Not much eye contact, not initiative themselves... The only thing to find out you kid is gifted or an Aspie is evaluation.  No need to worry, special needs kids always has difference abilities...e.g. very good memory, very good hearing (can memories music and play it by ear)

llam1210

剛看到呢個post,才發現原來你們的子女的行為很像我女兒。你們說慢慢會變？是真的嗎？我現在很擔心。cac說他社交弱。又係唔多見到人唔多望人。我都唔知點幫佢。剛入了i位。我好擔心。