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dell-bk

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冇人可以保證生幾多個就一定好，生完仲要教，教又唔一定聽。將來成為咩人有好多因素…
不過站在你老公阿哥立場，佢仲有個細佬可以幫到佢...

如果大家諗緊生唔生多個時覺得會有一個成為負累，咁就真係唔好生比較好...
就算生一個都有可能成為你自己負累啊﹗

Chickee

我有兩個小朋友, 我都掙扎好耐先決定要第二個。我考慮既係, 將來我地兩公婆百年歸老, 大仔係呢個世界就唔會再有一個同佢血肉相連既親人, 我覺得佢會好可憐, 好孤單。

生兩個, 老實講, 照顧佢地, 我係超超超辛苦, 完全無自己私人時間, 但見到佢地咁close, 又好跟好愛我, 我一放工兩個小朋友就爭住衝黎同我開門, 果種開心, 我又覺得我辛苦得好值得。

sppchocho

同你一樣 其實唔特別鐘意小朋友 一係唔生 一係生兩個 湊兩個一定辛苦過湊一個 不過值得嘅

sppchocho

原帖由 sbux 於 12-10-30 發表
就算我係黃百萬，一個就有一百萬用，兩個就每人得五十萬，呢個係事實無得講。但建立家庭根本唔可以用錢去衡 ...

同意 本身係獨生子女嘅朋友 從來冇聽過佢地話萬千寵愛在一身好開心 只係話細個得一個好悶

maggiemai77

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i have the exact thoughts as you..... to have one more kid so that he will not be alone after we are not here..... that might be the only reason i will have the second kid.... but think from another aspect, if i have more time and resources for him, he might have better opportunity to be a "good" person (financial and personality wise), he will have lots of friends and his own family like wife and kids... he will not be lonely (although possible to be alone)..... additionally, who does not come alone and leave alone in our lives..  .. i think this is a sentimental topic, but the decision is toooooo big..... i truly hope everyone should consider it thoroughly before they make the decision......

Patpatmom

各人對生幾多個都會有唔同睇法，但若以經濟，時間，心思等等而論，絕對唔係需要 x 2 的。

hksunshine

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yeah i agree it is case by case and needs to see the actual situation.  Everyone has his/her choice.

But my view is from the kids perspective it would be better if they could have a companion in their grow up journey so that they can share, talk and love each other.  

breadbb

聽完你地咁講我都有dd心思思想生多個~

vinik

生兩個或以上當然會分薄資源, 但佢地可以一齊成長, 一齊學習, 呢點係獨生子女所缺乏既。生兩個係為o左小孩既將來, 我而家有兩個女雖然係好辛苦, 但係都好開心, 每日放工返屋企見到佢地嘻嘻哈哈乜野煩惱都暫時忘記了! 我有朋友生o左4個(全部相隔唔超過兩年), 就真係勁佩服喇!!!!