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原帖由 yipbebe 於 11-8-24 18:06 發表
有個問題我想請教Ian,文中有提及小朋友的禮貌應該從小教育,我都十分認同。我的兒子今年K1,是一個活潑好動的孩子,但是每次要他向陌生人,又或是他的同學或同學媽媽說早晨,他都只會沈默不語。請問有什麼方法可以令小朋友變得 ...
Actually the manner is not just limited to what they express. And very likely your son is not being impolite, may be he is just shy.
I have shared similar experience with my daughters and understand they can just be going through different stages of their development. So, no need to be too anxious if they cannot repeat what you teach them to be polite and with good manner.
Two important things, be patient and also be a good role model. The kids are a reflection of us, in front of them. So, the best pre-school education are the parents. They learn a lot from us so we will need to be consistent to act the way we teach them. Another big factor is time. At the end, they are children. I know many parents would like to see quick result, but those couldn't last. We need them to do things through learning but also they must understand the reason and agree upon it.
My elder daughter and I took almost a year to pray in front of her younger sister, until she finally willing to pray with us voluntarily (and so is their mother eventually). It takes time, no need to be pushy, the same to the kids, and the adults.
My best wishes to you!
Ian |
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