That would be a difficult subject. . .Did you ever told your son about the selection process? I told my girl teachers will pick those students whom they think "suitable" for the school. I conciously aviod the term Clever or 乖 or 叻. You can show your disappointment, and probably your son will too, but it would be a good time to let him know that as long as we try our best, that's no regret and that's life. You two may work on a plan for the 2nd phase. Show a positive attitude and your son will learn from you.
Maybe we have been talking TSL too many times at home. After the 1st in and 2nd in, we have been looking forward to getting the good result.
I have told my son the TSL result. He looks peaceful than I expected (He is watching his favorite Cartoon movie).
原帖由 Laputa 於 09-11-23 17:26 發表
That would be a difficult subject. . .Did you ever told your son about the selection process? I told my girl teachers will pick those students whom they think "suitable" for the school. I conciously ...
No, I didn't explain very clear about the selection process. I told my son the we visit the primary school and just have fun and play during the interview. After that, I ask whether he likes the school or not. That's it!!!
I have just told me son the TSL result. He was calm and didn't show any disappointment indeed. Maybe I pick the good moment to tell him that..(He is watching his favorite cartoon). Hehee
原帖由 Laputa 於 09-11-23 17:26 發表
That would be a difficult subject. . .Did you ever told your son about the selection process? I told my girl teachers will pick those students whom they think "suitable" for the school. I conciously ...
Right after the 2nd inteview, I've acknowledged that he has already done very well and celebrated with him. I told him that since many children have done very well, the teacher will pick the most suitable ones. And after that day I didn't mention much about the school to him. Therefore he is now quite blissfully ignorant.
That's no right answer, only right school for your kid. But for me, I will not choose St. F. because I am very hate their procedure and arrangement. They are very old style.
The world is changing so FAST. My point of veiw is parents have ability to feed the foundation and academic to our kids. I hope school provides a relaxed and friendly enviroment for kids learn and develope. Help them develope their creative skill, social skill, communication skill, not only academic. Let them interest in learning.
If you have time, go to walk around brand school. At the lunch time, the kids and parents have lunch with worksheets and homework.
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發表於 09-11-23 16:52
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