5歲或10歲的媽咪請進!

HPChingchingma

hellomummy>>
亞大而家對女仔無興趣
不過，如有就順其自然，最緊要有每日匯報我知就 O.K.
呢個仔跟我好好，很多野會跟我講，但發覺佢無也心事，轉頭睇超人 VCD 就唔記得唔 happy 的事了
你亞大是女仔？

亞二也駁咀好叻，時時想買超人，又話家中超人玩具是亞大，不是他的。

Bluestar

THRY,

Why don't you buy the VCDs on sex-education for kids which is produced, I think, by the Family Planning Association.

http://www.famplan.org.hk/sexedu/b5/index.asp

I think some books / VCDs on this topic are available from bookshops, e.g. 天地。

My son had similar behaviour when he was about 3 - 4, we told him that nobody else does it - asked him to look around.  And he stopped after a while.
Don't worry, they are just curious about their body.

THRY

Dear Bluestar,

Thank you for your kind recommendation and information.

I will go ahead to search such books and VCB.

Thank you very much.

Hellomummy

我係仔大女細, 兩個暫時都好痴我, 日子有功吧!

我就sense到少少佢有心儀女孩(在班中), 但因佢唔開口承認, 我暫時會俾d空間佢, 我兩母子都算無所不談, 有時佢仲充當左伴侶角色, 迫我吐心事俾佢聽, 表現好緊張我, 親子關係, 都算係自己最滿意的一環! 佢似爸爸的大男人性格 (現在已經浮現, 例如妹妹食飯時無禮貌, 佢會敦起個款.收起妹妹對筷子話"唔准食") ,

BTW, 想問有無媽咪個小朋友5歲晚上仍有撒尿?

程程媽 寫道:
hellomummy>>
亞大而家對女仔無興趣
不過，如有就順其自然，最緊要有每日匯報我知就 O.K.
呢個仔跟我好好，很多野會跟我講，但發覺佢無也心事，轉頭睇超人 VCD 就唔記得唔 happy 的事了
你亞大是女仔？

亞二也駁咀好叻，時時想買超人，又話家中超人玩具是亞大，不是他的。

Bluestar

Hellomummy,

My son still needs to put on diapers through the night, although we take him to wee-wee twice every night already.  He sleeps too soundly.  Sometimes, but quite rarely, he gets up and says he wants to wee-wee.

I don't want to restrict his liquid intake at night before sleep.

I will wait and see until he is around 7y, if no improvement (still need to rely on diapers, cannot go wee-wee by waking himself up at night), then I think I'll have to take him to some clinic / centre.  There is one such centre run by Faculty of Medicine, The Chinese University of HK called Children Continence Care Centre, which is located somewhere in Li Ka Shing Specila Centre in PWH.  But I'll wait a bit before taking him.

HPChingchingma

Helomummy>>

我 hb 而家至有大男人的初型，又是這樣對的細路。可能怕日後老二有樣學樣，難教好多。

以親子來說，我覺得差不多啦，亞大P.5，己對我說想入那所中學，升中學又話喜歡中國歷史，但又喜歡 maths,唔知點揀，立法會選舉，他亦心中有數 ( 不過唔夠資格 )。

Him-ma

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Hellomummy

him-ma,

你講既類似情形都試過出現在我5歲的細女上, 我想部份原因是"年齡特徵"而已, 不用太担心, 但若常常如是, 則可能你在孩子心目中的威信出了問題喎? 我有無估錯呢?  

Hellomummy

程媽媽:

我個仔就自細都好 consistent 地鍾意動物科學, 相信都係會選science, 但佢語文能力較弱, 因為有讀寫障礙, 所以少d心機都唔掂, 我quit份工部份都係因為咁.  :cry:

Hellomummy

Bluestar,

My daughter is of similar situation with your child, but I no longer use diaper, only "undersheet" the bed, because I don't want her to rely on the diaper, nearly one out of three nights wets the bed, hope to improve later~~

Hellomummy

Hellomummy

THRY,

What's about your son?

Have you try the ways on him?

Hellomummy

Hi, All,

I'm thinking shall we organize a Native English learning group for age 5 at home? Say, to employ a teacher together and have the lesson at the nearby home.

I'm living in Tung Chung...my available time is Sat nights or Sunday afternoon.

Any interested mummy?? any ideas?? any teachers introduce?

Bluestar

THRY,

Take a loot at this on sex education (from ETV) :

http://www.sexedonline.tv/

THRY

Bluestar / Hellomummy,

I just ordered the book from Family planning.  Actually I also started to teach him as Bluestar recommendation that penis is for urination and it is dirty to play.

On the other hand, I will try to visit ETV web site tonight in order to teach him at a natural air.

Anyway, it is the first time I saw such action by him, so I don't think that the situation is bad.  Of course, I must start the sex education.

Thank you for all supports and recommendations.

Rebecca

Bluestar

THRY,

Tell him the fact that penis is for urination = 100 marks.  Don't say "dirty", otherwise he might associate sex = dirty.  Or you can tell him the other way round - e.g. if your fingers are dirty then playing will bring germs to penis area and germs will attach and will cause inflammation / fever and we don't want that.  I also tell him that wee-wee is dirty because it brings the refuse and germs away from our body so we have to wash our hands after going to the toilet.
Just tell him in a quite matter-of-fact manner that nobody else is doing that.  They cannot understand the details yet, just want some half-true explanations.  Like my son knows that he was in mummy's tummy before he was born, and that the Doc opened up mummu's tummy and saw him.
And I found a Chinese book on "What my belly-button is for", which he quite enjoyed.

THRY

Bluestar, Thanks for your kind advice.

靚靚媽媽

我仔仔快5歲啦！可以入黎一齊傾嗎？

Hellomummy

當然可以啦! 你是否全職媽媽呢? 還是自己湊番小朋友?

fannyyeung

我個女6歲剛入小一, 平時無時停, 講野都ok , 但教佢做工課一齊讀吓課文(英文就更加)呢, 就晒無反應,要我發皮四佢先細細聲(唔開口咁), 唉! 真唔知點做好!!!

Hellomummy

hi, fannyyeung,

fannyyeung 寫道:
我個女6歲剛入小一, 平時無時停, 講野都ok , 但教佢做工課一齊讀吓課文(英文就更加)呢, 就晒無反應,要我發皮四佢先細細聲(唔開口咁), 唉! 真唔知點做好!!!

其實你發脾氣只會令佢更抗拒英文, 因為佢未能對呢樣野產生一個好印象(或說聯想, 即係每想起英文就想起媽咪發脾氣個樣), 試問咁佢又點會鍾意英文呢?