很灰心....

gwan

I have a friend whose son has been admitted to a 名校 through  'connection', the child just can't handle the school work and started to hate school and himself, but the mom insists not changing school for him.
My point is same as other moms, we have to choose a school which suit our kid's ability and personality, I rather have a happy son studying in a non   名校 than have a sad son struggling in a super 名校. Of course the ideal situation is my son is accepted by a GOOD 名校(not all 名校 are good) and he is happy there.........ha ha. Let's all be positive!!

原文章由 rdc888 於 07-11-3 09:57 硐表



Totally agreed with you norika.  Our kids are the best!!!
入唔倒名校係唔會死架，開心D向前看!!!

Yau_Cheung

原文章由 Mcmug_1999 於 07-11-3 00:32 硐表
不要俾太大壓力自己及子女。
老實講，第一，除了傳統名校，其他較新開的直資及私校，他們的教學是否成功？暫時未知，因為只不過十年左右的事。而且，也要看他們的方法是否真的適合自己的子女。此外，還要看家長是否計劃子女將來在香 ...

"教育界有一個理論，叫"小池大魚"。你的子女可能能力不俗，但他或她的身邊全是更勁的人，可能令子女不必要地自卑。其實好多名校生都有此經驗。相反，其他同學普普通通，自己的子女反而可以有機會表現自己，得到成功感。" - Agree.

iberia

Hi;

I have the same experience in K1. As my son was only accepted by HKICS and Kowloon Baptish Church as my son can only speak in English. His cantonese was not good. He was rejected by 培正. But he was accept by 培正 after 3 years for primary school. He was not a smart student in K3. His classmate was more smart than him, but he was under waiting list.

Right now he is in P3, every test or examination, we have to sticked with him to review all kind of work-papers to ensure he can understood well.

My point is acting as parents, also has to do a lot of survey and study on your child and each school. After F4 or F5, he will return to states for colleage education. The reason is I would like him to have a good Chinese eduation and discipline education. You can't find it in states.

In my experience, most of the parents are looking for 名校 and English school. I do agreed with you the most important is my child like to go to school and can learn whatever he has to learn. For English, he can speak fluently after 2 years in states.

purplehouse

原文章由 nickjr07 於 07-11-1 13:57 硐表
我一直對自己的孩子有信心. 但考了三間私校,直資,so far,全部reject.... 我開始懷疑自己孩子的能力..... :cry: 她的non-verbal 能力很高,但說話就真的不好..... 還有最後一間在下個禮拜,我現在真的要考慮要不要她(或 ...

我現在的心情和你一樣，報了４間，已有２間reject咗！剩下嘅2間成功機會率可以話係0，因有成千幾人見，而我個仔又不是叻過人，而且比較怕羞！所以.......依家好擔心，都唔知點，等派位又驚派到一間唔好嘅學校

pris_cheng

原文章由 purplehouse 於 07-11-4 23:30 硐表


我現在的心情和你一樣，報了４間，已有２間reject咗！剩下嘅2間成功機會率可以話係0，因有成千幾人見，而我個仔又不是叻過人，而且比較怕羞！所以.......依家好擔心，都唔知點，等派位又驚派到一間唔好嘅學校 ...

我都同你哋一樣,同個女報左3間直資,2間reject,1間waiting,都係冇機會,雖然IN嗰時都知冇咩機會,因為我個女係超級怕羞而且係細囡,但係收到Result都係好唔開心,眼見佢的同學都有着落,就仲唔開心,依家唯有希望自行派到,如果唔係又要有排担心.

YongXin

自行派位同統一派位方法, 雖然有好多人咎病, 但係確實可以幫到我地呢0的怕羞/細仔/細女小朋友, 响盡量公平原則下都有機會讀到好學校.

我舊年15分自行階段入到心儀學校, 想話比大家知, 只要沉著應戰, 審慎樂觀, 最終結果會係美好既, 統一派位之後既叩門階段, 一樣有人成功, 努力! 加油! 條戰線好長架!

原文章由 pris_cheng 於 07-11-5 16:50 硐表


我都同你哋一樣,同個女報左3間直資,2間reject,1間waiting,都係冇機會,雖然IN嗰時都知冇咩機會,因為我個女係超級怕羞而且係細囡,但係收到Result都係好唔開心,眼見佢的同學都有着落,就仲唔開心,依家唯有希望自行派到 ...

5183

大家不要灰心, 希望在明天?

肥皂泡

唔好唔開心,努力面對,可能自行派位會好呢,
其實我同你哋一樣,都同女女報左直資,上學校網址見到自己女女個名, 開心到好似中咗六合彩,點知過咗幾日 收到學校封reject letter,即刻打電話問學校 ,學校回復只是同名同姓 ,我當時的心情應該比你們即時知道reject更加唔開心,點會幾千人Interview,有兩個同名同姓的小朋友出現,仲要Ref no.(6個字)只是一個號碼不同,請問有冇BK Mummy試過,現在只希望自行派位成功,

pris_cheng

我只係好想講,雖然面試失敗,但我哋的小朋友係我哋心目中永遠係最好最好的,希望大家月尾會有好消息.

bobo-mama

無論結果是怎樣, 我們的孩子已經做得很好, 而最後也會在一間最適合的他 / 她的學校唸書. Don't worry! Cheer up for our kids!

acoggo

原文章由 肥皂泡 於 07-11-5 19:50 硐表
唔好唔開心,努力面對,可能自行派位會好呢,
其實我同你哋一樣,都同女女報左直資,上學校網址見到自己女女個名, 開心到好似中咗六合彩,點知過咗幾日 收到學校封reject letter,即刻打電話問學校  ...

So, it's really a difficult GAME for us..................

KaWo

不要灰心

[ 本文章最後由 KaWo 於 07-11-6 14:44 編輯 ]

leesasa

Yau_Cheung d Mcmug_1999:
Agree
"小池大魚"我信！  
So,我不會target 超名校for my kid. Good名校 or even  happy good school o岩佢多d。經過interviews,我更confirm這點，good 名校比佢2nd in. Good. Schools自會選到match school 的kids.！My kid 不是superkid, so not for superbrand school！
在選校過程中，比小朋友試多幾間，無可厚非，但點會間間得？(除非superkids),so,不如當INT.是了解孩子的機會之一啦！但結果不是"成績表"，他們仲有排試，有排學ga,不用失望ga.
Add Oil.

[ 本文章最後由 leesasa 於 07-11-18 15:06 編輯 ]