24/08 蒙特梭利家長班

sin_928

hello every mami,

im a new mami,i have a 4 and half months old bb girl, i know nothing about kids, thats why i want to learn more then i can nicely bought up my bb(but i still need to work) may i ask where to take this class and is it ok for me to attend the class now as my bb is 4 and half months old?

pls give me some information about this class,then i can find out some more (where to take this class?)
THANK YOU VERY MUCH

bakusensei

原文章由 Tata1668 於 07-8-31 13:46 硐表

modele,
我非常同意你既講法! 我覺得有時唔可以咁極端... 又唔係叫你日日去飲3個小時茶... 閒時去做下又無妨.  我都會帶d玩具、餅餅比bb食同玩 (佢得8個月大), 佢雖然只係去過3數次, 但表現都ok.  至於1個月去1、2 ...

Tata1668,

Your baby is so stable to cope w/ the restaurant. Grandma and grandpa also like bringing baby to yum cha. It's actually one of the terrific moments. Because baby finishes the cereal v. quickly, then he becomes impatient and refuses to play the toy we brought. in addition, the restaurant's light and noise make him unable to sleep even grandpa is carrying him. so, everytime we brought baby to the restaurant, i ve to eat w/in "9.9 sec" otherwise, my dad (i.e. grandpa) can't eat.

:(

yuengooluk

sin_928

visit this webpage http://infinitychildren.com/default.aspx.

there's one-hour class, free of charge, and 8-hour programme, charged of course.  even your baby is still so small, you for sure can join.  in fact, i think the earlier you go, the better it is.

sin_928

THANK YOU SO MUCH  yuengooluk !

koala小寶寶

我10月先至會上家長班,早幾日o係popular買左本關於蒙o既書睇緊...
我都覺得冇可能唔帶bb去酒樓,始終老人家係好like去呢o的地方
我個女一wk點都會去1-2次,不過佢去到都冇乜野,食粥+玩一陣玩具,之後就會訓,不過我地通常都唔會去太耐,一定唔會多過1.5hr
so far佢都未有試過表現唔耐煩
其實我都唔知道應該幾時將蒙應用o係囡囡身上...
佢o黎緊先8個月...依家開始會唔會太早??

我想問你地,你地會點樣教你地o既小朋友??watch vcd??flash card???or 其他??
我都唔係好清楚應該俾咩佢先o岩...

bakusensei

wanna share our past mistake w/ u mums.

we bought a wooden kid's table n chair from IKxx recently. we didn't bring the baby to the shop and we bought the set as the size is smaller, better suit our small home.

however, when we brought the set home and assembled, we found that the height of the back of the chair may be dangerous to the baby.

eventually, as we ve assembled the set, we could not return it to the shop for exchanging the plastic set. A sister in the church is so kind to exchange her set with us as her boy will be 3 soon and finds our set suitable for her.

So, it may be better to bring the baby along for shopping.

btw, we called the shop explaining that the set may be potentially harmful for young babies and suggested them putting notice of recommended age beside the set but the shop refused.

bakusensei

wanna share our past mistake w/ u mums.

we bought a wooden kid's table n chair from IKxx recently. we didn't bring the baby to the shop and we bought the set as the size is smaller, better suit our small home.

however, when we brought the set home and assembled, we found that the height of the back of the chair may be dangerous to the baby.

eventually, as we ve assembled the set, we could not return it to the shop for exchanging the plastic set. A sister in the church is so kind to exchange her set with us as her boy will be 3 soon and finds our set suitable for her.

So, it may be better to bring the baby along for shopping.

btw, we called the shop explaining that the set may be potentially harmful for young babies and suggested them putting notice of recommended age beside the set but the shop refused.

bb@wonderland

Hi Bakusensei,

Thanks for sharing.

We are also thinking either buying the wooden one or the pastic one.

We think the wooden one will suit our home better due to its size (which is smaller). And wooden table and chair fits with Montessori concept better.

But we also think of whether it will cause any potential harm to the BB, as he likes crawling and even walking around with some supports.

So now after your sharing, we can forget about the wooden one, although the plastic table is very large for us.

原文章由 bakusensei 於 07-9-3 09:37 硐表
wanna share our past mistake w/ u mums.

we bought a wooden kid's table n chair from IKxx recently. we didn't bring the baby to the shop and we bought the set as the size is smaller, better suit our s ...

gloria.glory

hihi all~

岩岩過左既weekend我又做多左d野.

1. 又去beach: 今次發覺仔仔玩沙既方法唔同左, 亦會好安靜咁自己玩, 相信佢又發現左d野.

2. 去圖書館: 第一次去, 所以仔仔好有新鮮感, 只係睇左幾本書就坐唔定要周圍explore, 因為中央圖書館好大, 所以仔仔周圍跑, 結果怕佢太嘈就帶左佢出去, 會慢慢解釋去圖館係睇書的, 要靜靜地, 試下每次拉長時間等佢適應下.

babymok

Just finished Sept 3 class.  I think the concept and theory is very good.  .  Although I think some of the teacher's ideas is too extreme and it may not totally fit into our daily lives, I still think the course is very good for all parents. But you have to decide what suggestions that you would like to follow.

The most I can get from the course is:

(1) Understand the "Sensitive Period" of children.  I won't stop him to do something I can't understand anymore as long as it's not too dangerous.

(2) Think more ways to play with him by using our daily tools.  

Yesterday night, I got my baby a bucket of water and some water plants and asked him to put the water and water plants inside a bottle with me.  He really enjoyed the water and the plant (squeeze it to feel the texture).  I think we have played around 30 minutes with these simple tools.  After this, I gave him a towel to clean the floor with me (since the floor's all wet).  And he's so happy at the cleaning job.  Really NICE !!!  Better than playing toys with him.

BTW, although I have prepared to start Flash Card with my baby before, I plan to stop it now.

sin_928

may i know why the Montessori concept not suggest to play flash card with bb PLEASE, cos i just buy a set of baby u can read tim ...

wongvick

Your kid may not be able to assemble a puzzle anymore!

原文章由 sin_928 於 07-9-5 03:46 硐表
may i know why the Montessori concept not suggest to play flash card with bb PLEASE, cos i just buy a set of baby u can read tim ...

happysin

hi ar.. i bought the wooden table (rectangular in shape) and chairs for my daughter.  We struggled to buy the plastic one (which is red) but  we finally chose the wooden one as i remember daisy said that red is too sensitive to kids.

原文章由 bb@wonderland 於 07-9-3 17:04 硐表
Hi Bakusensei,

Thanks for sharing.

We are also thinking either buying the wooden one or the pastic one.

We think the wooden one will suit our home better due to its size (which is smaller). And woo ...

babymok

sin_928

I also made a couple hundreds of cards to my baby.  But I still plan to quit the idea of flash cards.  I am not a blind mother and just listen to everything what the other said.  There are something that the teacher said we (my husband and me because we attend the class together) are not totally agree with.  But what she said about flash card is very logical.

She said flash card is just giving something to a baby that she/he cannot understand and meaningless.  You may able to let your baby read lots of words in an early stage ( a thousand words at 3 yrs old???).  But it doesn't mean that your baby is smarter than others.  Your baby just memorizes all those wordings "passively".  Montessori suggests "active" learning and thats why the teacher disagrees the idea of flash cards.

But the teacher insists that we should bring the baby to see real things before showing him the picture or books of the things.  For example, you should bring your baby to see a real elephant before showing him the picture of it.  I think it's quite unrealistic.  So I am still showing some picture cards to my baby.  But of course I will explain to him on each cards instead of "Flashing" them in front of him.

babymok

besides IKEA, anyone knows where to buy wooden table and  chairs???

I think the IKEA one is too small.  I would hope to try to sit with him to have meal together (like in that movie).  IKEA's wooden table is not big enough for mom mom, pa pa and baby together.

elmostoney

i was in 9/3 class.  some of the things i have been doing already, so will reinforce (like going to country side/park, beach, etc.) - used to be twice a week, now will try to increase to 3 to 4 times a week.

I also have kitchen gate,  but from an early time, i didn't lock it and just let my baby roam around freely except during  cooking time as I was afraid the oil and fire might hurt her.  most other times, the gate was not locked.  so far i think it is pretty good.

i did flash cards before, but will discontinue. will save them for use as word cards.

i used to let my baby watch max. 1/2 hr tv at a stretch.  will not shorten it to 15 minutes a stretch.

decided not to take baby to disney.  went to ocean park instead.

i let her play for a long time in the tub.

let her eat/play with her food freely.

let her do at least one household chore a day.

[ 本文章最後由 elmostoney 於 07-9-5 11:53 編輯 ]

Babyeddie

Babymok

are u in the same class with me?

I am at the CUHK Class?

I

原文章由 babymok 於 07-9-4 12:47 硐表
Just finished Sept 3 class.  I think the concept and theory is very good.  .  Although I think some of the teacher's ideas is too extreme and it may not totally fit into our daily lives, I still think ...

NewSnoopy

請問點先可以報到CUHK校外課程開果個course呢?我見佢一出"秋季課程"就已經mark住"滿額"，會唔會要"內部認購

原文章由 Babyeddie 於 07-9-6 12:47 硐表
Babymok

are u in the same class with me?

I am at the CUHK Class?

I

GUB

想不到有關飲茶的部份 會引起那麼多回應.

其實我都是想share我在堂上get到的, 每個人也有不同的價值觀和生活態度, 我想montessori甚或其他教學法都只是理論, 至於點去實行, 每個人每個家庭也有不同做法, 而且每個BB也是獨一無二的, 所以就算同一個theory, 教不同BB都有不同方法和效果. 我想沒有對與錯, 只是各取所需.

我選擇用montessori的方法去教我的BB, 是由我初懷孕開始, 接觸不同的教學法, 最後覺得mont的方法最接近我的理念, 所以決定去深入研究和在家中實行. 我不知我是不是一個盲目的媽媽, 但我也知道什麼叫 critical mind. 不過我想我只是一個初學者, 如果有經驗的人提出意見, 我會去聽, 如果我覺得對的, 我會去做.

我認同daisy所說的, 不再帶BB去飲茶, 是因為我覺得飲茶並非一定要做的事, 而且我認同太嘈吵環境會破壞BB感官的理論.

對我個人來說, 我都不太喜歡茶樓的環境, 之前只是因為婆婆習慣去, 所以就帶同我的囡囡去. 但我覺得, 一來我囡囡對聲音好敏感, 平時訓覺隔離屋開門她都會醒, 所以我唔想再去茶樓, 怕太嘈吵的環境對她不好, 會破壞她的感官, 二來我覺得, 其實想去街, 茶樓並非唯一的選擇, 所以我和婆婆就不再帶BB去飲茶, 改去行公園和去靜一點的地方吃飯. 這是我覺得可以做得到而我和家人都願意去做的. 正如之前我有家人習慣將電視開到很大聲, 但其實這根本是一個不好的習慣, 只是之前沒有人提出要改善, 不過由於BB在, 那些電視的聲浪對她不好, 我們就叫他改啦, 開電視聽到就可以啦, 不用太大聲呀.

我想每個家庭都有自己的習慣, 有些重要有些不重要, 有些好有些不好, BB來到我們的家庭, 說真我們的生活一定會出現轉變, 例如我以前每晚3點才睡, 但有了BB到BB出世後, 我就變成了一個早睡早起的人, 這是因為BB到來, 我必須作出的改變.

我都認同不是凡事都要遷就BB, 她都要適應這個社會, 不過如果那件事我認為是對BB不好的, 我就不做啦, 對我來說, 太過遷就是明知沒問題, 只是因為BB喜好而去做才叫遷就.  例如我明知垃圾食物無益, 我就不會買給我的小朋友食. 而蔬菜有益, 也不會因為她不喜歡吃而由她去.   

不知不覺間打了很長的留言, 謝謝大家聽我的分享 :loveliness:
我想大家也是一心為自己的仔女好, 所以才會在這裡看別人的分享和留這分享自己的經驗. 願大家互勉!

[ 本文章最後由 GUB 於 07-9-8 10:35 編輯 ]