大家要keep住聯絡呀!一齊努力一齊進步!

samanthat38

Dear everybody,

  I am the new memeber.  I am very happy   to join to chart.  I have read your messages almost everyday if i have time.  And want to join chart together but i am failed due to I am the "computer idiot".  I try it over 20 times for reg.  But still failed.

   This time, I ask my husband to help me. What are shy!!      Anyway, Sucess!!!!  HA HA   

   I want to join your gathering, sharing and evrything if I have time.  I also have a son 3YR 2 month who is A.T. I know that 1 yr ago.  The first 3-4 months is the difficult for me.  I will share w/you later due to it is quite long story.   Sorry, I dont know how to type chinese and my eng is not good.  Please keep patiently to hearing for me.  Thanks advance.

    I live in TKO and my son just study in "I" Kindergarten.  I read your message and feel very warm. I know everyone here with their difficulties and story, maybe difficulties but full in lover. "Add oil everyone."

    I want to share your/my feeling not only for reading and keep slience.  What are shy!!!    This is the 1st time for me to join a chat except another BK chart of Primary due to I have 2 sons.  The elder son is P.2 normal child.  I need to work and feel very busy after back to home.  I need to follow up the elder son homework and need to keep home tainning for my younger son if I dont be escpad
that day.   

     My feeling is very contriction due to I want to tainning my younger son very much and want him to  improve and know that time is very important for him.  And sometimes, I pay more attension for the elder boy due to the homework and behavior.  Elder boy want to engage all my time.  And sometimes, I want to escaped to tainning my younger boy, maybe I feel tired, maybe only the mood, maybe i afraid the failed feeling,etc.

      My husband cant help me!!!  Maybe only not up my standard although elder boy and younger boy.  sometimes I feel

       Thanks for all can hear me.  Some cased I read your message and feel the same.  Some messages i read and want to share something, etc.

         Hope I can join with you - Friends.

P.s. : Sorry for I am "long air" lady.

yymm2007

原文章由 amon28 於 07-10-12 15:30 硐表
各姊妹唔好意思,借小少地方比我發洩吓
近日我好唔開心,心情好差,煩緊工人同仔仔的事, 工人愈來愈差,教咗佢點樣同仔仔做手指訓練,做腰部運動………..點知佢聽完就算,做就做反自己個套, 話極佢都係咁,一係話唔記得做, ...

AMON :

睇完都體諒到你為何心情差....

以下係個人意見, 請吾好介意!

學校方面 : 一間無愛心又吾包容既學校, 真係吾讀都無損失 ! 對嗎 ?!

社工方面 : 支持你 ! 一定要追究到底 ! 佢既錯失令你囝囝失去左寶貴的訓練時間 , 如果有補救方法就最好喇 ! 否則未來既日子, 你囝囝個FILE仲要佢跟進, 起碼吾可以比佢亂黎 !

工人方面 : 我無呢方面既經驗 ! 但我覺得人既"本性難移" , 佢無個"心"去做 ,  縱使佢係你面前做比你睇 , 但你番工果時...佢係你背後又做另一套.... 真係無意義 , 你又辛苦 ! 佢又交吾足功課 ! 或跟家人商量下...會否考慮換另一個 ?

MAY

[ 本文章最後由 yymm2007 於 07-10-12 22:27 編輯 ]

yymm2007

原文章由 samanthat38 於 07-10-12 21:48 硐表
Dear everybody,

  I am the new memeber.  I am very happy   to join to chart.  I have read your messages almost everyday if i have time.  And want to join chart together but i am fail ...

SAMANTHAT38 :

你好呀 ! 我湊一個都索晒氣 ! 你照顧2個小朋友真不容易 ! 以後請多多指教呀 !

[ 本文章最後由 yymm2007 於 07-10-12 22:28 編輯 ]

podi

amon,
相信你都慢慢由早產個topic慢慢shift來呢度, 事關我見你好少係果度留言.

見到你既問題我都有唔開心.  你囝囝見果間n1好popular架?  我試過同囝囝去啟思幼兒園見校長, 佢都無一口拒絕, 只係話我囝囝早產唔駛咁早讀書, 咁咪下學期先開始囉.  其實名唔名校都唔緊要, 最重要係老師有愛心照顧我囝囝, 我囝囝早產比人細粒, 大肌肉唔夠人地好, 跑得慢, 細粒得好緊要, 仲細粒過你囝囝, 坐chair自已坐唔到, 下下要老師抱; 食茶點要老師cut開d食物, 唔識用杯飲水, 好彩老師都可以幫我囝囝, 有時會用spoon餵飲品比我囝囝; 我囝囝仲未迫同人講去toilet, 又唔識除褲去toilet.....好多野都要人幫, 好彩老師都好鍾意囝囝, 同埋面試時我有提過囝囝早產要有多d照顧, 暫時OK.

至於工人, 我都有煩惱, 就係我工人偷野.....我仲未炒佢, 係因為佢好鍚囝囝, 算照顧我囝囝幾好咁, 我都幾放心, 但始終都要炒........你工人唔聽你講, 你有無同佢講, 每樣training都係為你囝囝好, 係醫生吩咐既, 如果佢係鍚你囝囝佢應該識做.

你得閒call我我有時係公司無咩野做可以傾下電話!

原文章由 amon28 於 07-10-12 15:30 硐表
各姊妹唔好意思,借小少地方比我發洩吓
近日我好唔開心,心情好差,煩緊工人同仔仔的事, 工人愈來愈差,教咗佢點樣同仔仔做手指訓練,做腰部運動………..點知佢聽完就算,做就做反自己個套, 話極佢都係咁,一係話唔記得做, ...

podi

我見有媽咪withdraw來緊個gathering, 唔知道我可唔可以join呢 (2大人同1個小朋友)?

[ 本文章最後由 podi 於 07-10-13 01:38 編輯 ]

bigheadgirl

姊妹們:
真係好好好....對唔住 ,這兩天真的很忙&心情極低落,所以今天晚上才fax去訂食物,佢話48hour內會覆番我,所以once confirmed,才email account no.給你們,咁遲希望你地唔好介意,sorry.

Brenda,
明天亞朗返playgroup,我替你攞報名表先,再問吓可否11月join,再call你.
而家May唔嚟,是否只有9個家庭呢?會否再叫多D人join?我諗clubhouse嘅function room可以容納多D人.
亞朗有一排都鈡意大叫,引人注意,(因為係公園見到人叫)我同佢講(用玩嘅語氣):你咁大聲嘅,不如我哋試吓細聲丫,再用細聲同佢講一D佢鈡意嘅嘢,如:有糖食,叫佢細聲講一次,講到比佢食,又work喎,不妨試吓.

Amon,
好明白你嘅心情,有兩個問題想問:
1. 個社工係咪評估中心嘅陳姑娘?如果係嘅話,我建議直接揾佢個主任劉姑娘講,因為我覺得呢個陳姑娘係幾"廢"嘅,拾吓拾吓咁,好似樣樣都唔知,完全幫唔到手.
2. 個i位學校係咪亞朗讀緊果間?如果係嘅,我真係好唔明同好失望,校長比我嘅感覺係好友善同好有愛心,而i位老師亦都好好,至於未識講嘢,我見亞朗同班的有幾個都唔係好識講嘢咋喎,有一兩個到而家返學仲喊緊嘅,我相信華豐嘅情況唔係咁差架喎.

另外,我識一個媽咪,佢BB係天生有心漏症,一出世已經做手術,兩歲前又做多次,而家兩歲八個月,五歲前又要做多次,佢BB出世時医院就同佢排早期,差唔多歲幾就開始訓練,其實佢除咗體能差D外(有時跑跑吓個嘴會紫色,要立刻休息),各樣都OK架,所以而家集中做物理治療,佢媽咪去揾學校,亦都有好差嘅經驗,果間學校竟然同佢講:"你唔好揾我哋呢間勒,一陣你個仔係學校有事,我地都唔識点做架喎."唉,点解D人會咁架?好失望!

唔見咗覆診紙應可打去医院問番時間&攞過張新嘅.

May,
同你傾完真係舒服咗,好可惜你今次黎唔到,但我得閒會揾你再傾架,同你傾計同Brenda傾計都係好舒服,多謝哂.另,有份handout要比你的,睇吓有咩方法比你?

亞朗嘅問題,其實有時都幾困擾我架,佢每次大喊都幾乎係因為呢D事,有時我唔識處理就唯有唔理佢,等佢喊到累收聲,但其實我自己都好想喊 ;前兩日去聽一個講座--兼收位知多少?係社署臨床心理學家講,我向佢問吓亞朗呢個問題,佢都覺得咁樣比較少有,佢都想見吓亞朗先,咁啱佢負責觀塘&將軍澳區,佢話會同學校聯絡,希望可以幫到亞朗啦!

[ 本文章最後由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-13 02:49 編輯 ]

bigheadgirl

llcathy2004,
我係第二個topic見到你仔仔有便祕問題,而家好番D未呀?我亞朗都有相同問題呀,我見有位mummy話有隻叫Juice Plus嘅糖啱食,你有冇試呀?我上網揾到电話打去問,佢講到隻糖好勁,除咗便祕,連自閉症同過度活躍都掂喎,我心郁郁想試吓,不過其實我覺得只要對便祕有改善就夠,因為我唔想見到亞朗次次"開大"都咁辛苦.

原文章由 llcathy2004 於 07-10-12 19:08 硐表
amon,明白你嘅唔開心,而家真係要極力爭取番個優先i位！（不過爭取到後就唔好再諗番轉頭嘞）至於見學校，我都有過同樣經驗，唯有安慰自己，一來就算唔講，有經驗的老師會睇得出小朋友嘅問題，二來真係讀到呢間都未必好過下一間，塞翁失 ...

yymm2007

原文章由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-13 02:29 硐表
May,
同你傾完真係舒服咗,好可惜你今次黎唔到,但我得閒會揾你再傾架,同你傾計同Brenda傾計都係好舒服,多謝哂.另,有份handout要比你的,睇吓有咩方法比你?
..

IRENE :

我麻煩晒你就真 ! 有時間可找我 ! 我都好鐘意同你地傾計 ! 大家都好似識左好耐既朋友 , 可以暢所欲言.......
因今個月AMY會開始"早期訓練" , 而我要求中心吾好安排早上 & 盡量吾好同AMY既課外活動撞期, (加上AMY係最新果個 )所以都排得好散 & 亂 ! 中心話要下年7-8月, 有小朋友畢業 , 先致有機會安排得好D比我地喎 ! 由於我會陪同AMY一起做訓練 (因我都要學埋一份 , 以便回家後幫AMY做 !) , 所以有時開吾到電話 !

另, 份HANDOUT ← 真係要麻煩你寄比我了 ! 我已把地址PM了給你 , 真係吾該晒 !

頭先3點起身餵藥比AMY食, 佢個身仔好興, 所以同佢浸暖水降溫 , 跟住我就瞓吾番(十足D老人家咁 ! ), 依家喉嚨都痛埋 , 睇黎我都打敗仗 ! 聽朝一早都要睇醫生 !

yymm2007

原文章由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-13 02:29 硐表
前兩日去聽一個講座--兼收位知多少?係社署臨床心理學家講,我向佢問吓亞朗呢個問題,佢都覺得咁樣比較少有,佢都想見吓亞朗先,咁啱佢負責觀塘&將軍澳區,佢話會同學校聯絡,希望可以幫到亞朗啦!

IRENE :

有社署臨床心理學家跟進 , 咁未好囉 ! 因佢地吾係咁易肯接架 ! 原本AMY打人好勁果陣...我都爭取過呢個服務 , 可惜失敗 !

佢係咪以"外展"形式咁做 ? 又或者係咪亞朗無係"醫管局"排期睇呢 ? 因一般情況下 , 如係"醫管局"有排期, 佢地吾接架 ! 除非係"外展"去D幼稚園度做LA !

我都好希望亞朗得到呢個服務之後有進步 , 加油呀 !

MAY

samanthat38

原文章由 yymm2007 於 07-10-12 22:21 硐表


SAMANTHAT38 :

你好呀 ! 我湊一個都索晒氣 ! 你照顧2個小朋友真不容易 ! 以後請多多指教呀 !

Hi yymm,

  Thank you.

samanthat38

原文章由 amon28 於 07-10-12 15:30 硐表
各姊妹唔好意思,借小少地方比我發洩吓
近日我好唔開心,心情好差,煩緊工人同仔仔的事, 工人愈來愈差,教咗佢點樣同仔仔做手指訓練,做腰部運動………..點知佢聽完就算,做就做反自己個套, 話極佢都係咁,一係話唔記得做, ...

Hi Amon,

  很明白你心情. 我什麽都不懂,只想表示一点支持--- 努力!!!加油!!!我會為你祈禱.

其次想表達小小的愚見,不知時否有用 :
1. 社工方面 :讚成跟其上級投訴,at least 以後跟你的cases 會上心點和着緊點.
但我關心的是要選一間好的i位比隨意一間更好.因你現已有早訓(不知是否自費?)如不是自費,據我所知,eetc and i 位各選其一.
因我小朋友於早前6月還未派討i位時,我曾經問及一位現職ip老師部份區內i位學校的優劣.(但知道不太多), 知道部份i位學校的跟進不太好.請小心還擇,不要浪費機會.  最後我選了跨區,7月可以派到i位. (我是06年６月排)

2. 學校方面 : 絕對認明有耐心的老師比學校的名氣更重要(無論什麽學校)------> 不知你apply哪一間n1學校?  Anyway, 不用可惜,及早知道此學校的態度比較你兒子入了後才知,不是更好嗎?
N1 : 小兒於上年入讀樂緻幼兒国園(唐明苑),入讀前已知小兒自閉傾向,校內上下細心,老師常常致電我跟進小兒情況,或夾紙仔畧述小兒在校情況,用傭人湊放學.環境很好,但沒有校車.i位很多人排,所以排位渺芒.  但可check N1 是否有位. (當時我很遲寸報N1,也有位.)

另 : 跨區的官塘基督教服务處 (觀塘幼兒學校) 口啤很好,老師細心,無論是否i位小朋友,也有朋友子女在讀.你於其他bk留言也見此校老師細心,有關Tainning姑娘也讚此校口啤不俗.有褓母車.
此校也很熱鬥.

可惜我太遲知,社工(陳姑娘)沒有說清楚遊戲規則 ,且當時剛開始有網上check排位日期,故此抆派了2006/7後之申請,我才轉區,錯遏了機會.

不過相信上帝的安排. 塞翁失馬!!,你都是呀....加由!!!

p.s. : longweek 不太忙,人少可以用手寫扳,暢所欲言!1

samanthat38

原文章由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-13 02:29 硐表
姊妹們:
真係好好好....對唔住 ,這兩天真的很忙&心情極低落,所以今天晚上才fax去訂食物,佢話48hour內會覆番我,所以once confirmed,才email account no.給你們,咁遲希望你地唔好介意, ...

Hi Amon,

Missing the point of 傭人 : I use Eng again due to it should be more quick.  I have on line so long.  Anyway, Agree no heart 傭人cant help you even if the baby is normal or not.

Change 傭人!! But 要部署.
Make sure all the following :
1st : maybe N1 can help you to share the time of your baby in home time.
2nd : If you go to EETC with your baby everytime?  If your 傭人is local.  If she dont understand the tainning how to do it or no heart?
3Rd : Anyone 家人can help you?
If local people can help you more?

Claim down Dont let your angry to close your eye!!!

homingm

Hi! samanthat38,

加油！努力呀  

原文章由 samanthat38 於 07-10-12 21:48 硐表
Dear everybody,

  I am the new memeber.  I am very happy   to join to chart.  I have read your messages almost everyday if i have time.  And want to join chart together but i am fail ...

llcathy2004

irene,我係出面搵唔到呀,你可以比佢地個電話我嗎?我會買黎試下!唔該晒~~

原文章由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-13 02:42 硐表
llcathy2004,
我係第二個topic見到你仔仔有便祕問題,而家好番D未呀?我亞朗都有相同問題呀,我見有位mummy話有隻叫Juice Plus嘅糖啱食,你有冇試呀?我上網揾到电話打去問,佢講到隻糖好勁,除咗便祕,連自閉症同過度活躍都 ...

amon28

終於有結果,冇得排優先i 位,但可以申請傷殘津貼,不需要入息審查每個月可以令取$1120,為期一年,作為仔仔私人找訓練費用,同埋唔可以有其它服務,但i位可以照排(暫時未知佢所指其它服務係咩,星期一要再問清楚)
你吔點睇,有冇聽過有人攞過津貼作補賞,我覺得政府無咁好死,而且攞津貼好似要報稅 ,有冇人知呀?如果攞咗千零蚊冇咗依家物理同職業治療,我真係冇咁笨,我唔係想要佢哋津貼,我只想要個優先i位等仔仔出年讀K1有個i位老師睇住
你哋點睇,請比些意見我

bigheadgirl

姊妹們:
已confirmed食物,但我想知道是否只有9個family,我見有兩位媽咪(samanthat38 & podi)有興趣join in.

剛係另一個topic見到有講座:
自閉症,廣泛發展障礙的生物療法
21/10 10:15am - 1pm
灣仔小童群益會
我Mon會打去問吓

Brenda,
已取application form,Mon/Tue再电你

May,
已收到PM,handout會寄比你.
果日去聽個talk,其實係for今年新入讀i位小朋友嘅家長,根椐心理學家講,所有i位小朋友如有需要,可經i位老師約見心理學家,當然要排好耐啦(最憎D政府service,每樣嘢都排咁耐,除咗收錢),不過如i位老師認為小朋友情況很好,有机會唔使見心理學家(所以佢話要對i位老師好D,可以易'話為'D),另外心理學家都會去"巡校"觀課,睇吓小朋友嘅情況.
其實我都算好彩,果日佢講完talk,有好多家長發問,我到最後等佢執好嘢走去講亞朗嘅情況,佢好好人,話都想見吓小朋友先,會联絡i位老師,就係咁勒.
你都要保重身體呀!

Samanthat38,
我亞朗都係讀樂緻架,而家N班,張老師做班主任,你個仔而家係咪K1呀?係咪i位黎架?咁你話誇區轉校,轉去邊呀?如果而家讀緊i位,可以轉去另一i位學校嗎?另,你話你個社工陳姑娘,係咪容鳳書嘅醫務社工呀,我都係呀!不過我對佢印象就唔多好嘞.
我住將軍澳中心架,你呢?
Sorry, so many questions.

llcathy,
Pls check PM for the telephone no.

amon28

podi

你工人偷野一定要即炒,你唔炒,佢以為你可以容忍,佢有咁行為一定會有第二次,雖然佢鍚你個仔,但你現在放個賊係屋企後果你自己都會想到
我見個間係位好普通的學校,我見佢哋有位咪拿拿林同仔仔見,點知.....
我依家會揾一些有宗教信仰學校,此終佢哋會有多些愛心

bigheadgirl

Amon,
我唔係好明喎,而家係佢地錯,佢地應該係華豐出世後申請eetc,咁而家係咪叫做用錢嚟"補穫"?
仲有唔可以有其它服務,咁而家嘅eetc呢?會唔會無咗?
我覺得佢地好離譜,太過份!

原文章由 amon28 於 07-10-13 23:47 硐表
終於有結果,冇得排優先i 位,但可以申請傷殘津貼,不需要入息審查每個月可以令取$1120,為期一年,作為仔仔私人找訓練費用,同埋唔可以有其它服務,但i位可以照排(暫時未知佢所指其它服務係咩,星期一要再問清楚)
你吔點睇, ...

bigheadgirl

Amon,
我唔係好明,而家係佢地做錯嘢,令華豐遲咗接受訓練,咁係咪叫做用錢補償過失呢?
又話唔可以有其它服務,咁而家嘅早期係咪要cancel呢?
不如直接揾佢上司傾

奇怪,頭先又唔見咗先頭個post,而家打咗新嘅又走番出嚟

原文章由 amon28 於 07-10-13 23:47 硐表
終於有結果,冇得排優先i 位,但可以申請傷殘津貼,不需要入息審查每個月可以令取$1120,為期一年,作為仔仔私人找訓練費用,同埋唔可以有其它服務,但i位可以照排(暫時未知佢所指其它服務係咩,星期一要再問清楚)
你吔點睇, ...

[ 本文章最後由 bigheadgirl 於 07-10-14 00:23 編輯 ]

amon28

Irene

你係直接上去找劉姑娘,還是用電話傾,成日都揾唔到,留電又唔覆
我見個間係樂緻,我都估唔到佢哋會咁,個校長打比我說得好好聽的,佢話仔仔第一輪未被選中,要有小朋友退學先有位,以我仔仔係waiting list 排好後,咁即係你自己心裏有數啦