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Re: 好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~
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hinhinmummy 寫道:
好明白你果種感受, 話就話我有個正常我大女, 但佢呢排真係玩情緒, 好似尋晚甘, 今日考試, 都不肯溫書, 我都算啦, 既然佢話識, 我就有得佢, 因為我要嘗試比佢自己去承擔自己不溫書的後果, 甘到9點, 夠鐘執野上床訓覺, 叫佢check下有無帶齊文具/書(其中一科考書法), 佢話執左, 我叫佢check多一次, 跟住佢就發脾氣, 好大力甘推開度房門, 佢的力度係好大好大力, 度門係反彈.
跟住佢daddy就發火, 打佢啦, 佢就係度喊, 話個個都不錫佢, 個個都打佢.
跟住就自己呢埋係curtain後邊, 還要用張被, 遮埋對腳.
果一刻, 我個心好痛, 點解一個7歲的小朋友會有甘的行為? 一有不開心, 就將自己成個人呢埋係度喊? 會覺得全部人都不錫佢?
我同老公講, 叫佢不好打佢, 佢用發脾氣的方式黎表達佢的不滿, 甘你又用發脾氣的方式黎對佢, 有用咩? 呢d不係叫做以暴亦暴?
但老公實受左99太多苦, 細個比人打大, 完全係覺得應該體罻, 說教無用, 我就話, 就係因為99打得你們多, 打到你們個個自私自利.............無d父愛
hinhinmummy,
I fully understand that "打" is not the right solution to solve the problem. However, it usually works on most of the kids when they ignore our verbal warning. You know, I feel that I was even deeply hurt inside my heart after beating him. Anyway, raising a kid is the greatest mission from God.
Is your son 3.5 years old? Probably he is the same age as my monkey boy. My boy had the first visit to Dr. Tim Trodd 2 weeks ago. Tim Trodd is a GP who is using the DAN Protocol. DAN stands for "defeat autism now". He gave me a guide book entitled "Autism Management". I can give you a soft copy if you want.
PM me if anyone want a copy.
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