番禺會所華仁小學

nancytse

Hi Raymond,

just checked from the growth chart, 2.5 years old boy with 90cm is normal in size.

don't worry, child will grow fast some day.  for my boy, he's thin in k1 & k2, but in k3 he increase 0.5 - 1 lbs every month. he's now 6 years 10 months with 122cm & 29.5kg

ms99

Hi! nancytse,

好一個健壯小朋友啊! 平時有冇邊樣特別鍾意食呢?
我個7歲10個月先得45磅，著西褲一定要戴皮帶，近日仲要陪佢先肯飲牛奶，未見佢有進展我都肥咗幾磅，都唔知係咪要豬油撈飯先會長肉，好苦惱。

nancytse

Hi ms99,

我家少爺仔查實由細到大都極度揀飲擇食, 又食得慢, 食親飯我就好勞氣。

k3老師曾經同我講, 我仔茶點從來唔會添食, 有時甚至唔食, 食親就必定包尾, 但點解佢咁大隻o既呢？ 我都唔識答, 或者佢特別吸收掛！ 又或者似佢娘親掛

飛姨

Dear Raymond,

小B仲未roll and sit, I'm not too worried as 大少 could only roll at 6months and at his 9th months, he was diagnosed having problems in motor development by 健康院 。I was very upset and went to seek advises from different doctors. They said different child has different development and I sent 大少 to try on various sports. 而家一切正常。     

至於小Ｂ，he is much bigger than 哥哥 when they are of the same age, because he likes eating a lot, he won't go to sleep if his stomach is not completely full. Whereas, 哥哥 wouldn't eat if he did not have enough sleep. 哥哥 at 3 months would sleep from 7pm to 6am. Thus I used to have a lot of free time to do my own stuff, but now 小B still drinks milk 7 times a day.

ms99, don't worry about too much the size of your boy, 大少 was 42 lbs when he finished P.2, and he is now only 75lbs at the age of 11 1/2. His swimming instructor says when it comes to puberty, they grow fast and fat. In fact, my boy started to eat more just in the past summer vacation. Yours still has a long way to go.

raymond1981 寫道:
Hi 飛姨

That's interesting.  Can little BB roll and sit yet?  My boy learns more and more alphabets recently and can spell some words.  He's learning to sing songs; jumping around the house.  My Dad gave him a remote controllable toy car.  He fancied it a lot and wanted to play all the time.

How big is little BB now?  Is he bigger than your older one when it was his age?  Mine's really tiny: only 90cm tall and he's 2 and a half.  Wonder if this is normal?

Regards
Raymond

jackjackma

剛剛同二少做完考試改正,
今日由下午2點做到夜晚9點半,
只在6點至7點吃飯休息一陣
但是還有幾份卷未改   
而家科科都要另外用紙改,
寫小一個標點都要寫整句,
佢又再一邊寫,一邊抹眼淚,
好氣餒......
見到佢好努力去溫書,
但成績卻不理想
自己唔敢提佢的分數,
只敢提醒佢已經做得好好,
佢就好唔開心話個個同學都高分過自己,
攪到自己都唔知可以點.

ms99

jackjackma ：叫二少不要氣餒，佢學長我位少爺一樣改正到依家，都成12點了，仲畀個老豆捉住唔走得，我都唔敢行過佢地方圓2米範圍，費事中地雷啦。少爺見到我一定用非常可憐眼神向我求救，所以千祈唔可以多事。低年班測驗考試就係咁，佢地根本唔知自己做梗嘜，一味都係父母緊張過佢地，所以今次考試我冇同佢溫，冇期望都冇失望，人都輕鬆了不少，咁今晚見到全部卷當然有些少起伏，但我警醒自己要 RELEASE，唔好動氣，免得佢以為自己做錯事，破壞佢讀書信心。對於少爺今次考試成績，總評係有進步，當然要進步空間更大啦。

飛姨：多謝你的回響，見大B身型都好瘦長，做名星上鏡應該唔錯。咁我隻仔都係似我唔多肉，總好過似佢老豆周身肉啦。 C火，畀隻貓睇到又話我唱佢了。

chelsea

Morning friends :)

飛姨

Morning friends,

今日P.6測中文，
大B想我陪佢番學，
一早便帶埋小B送哥哥番學。


  

chelsea

飛姨,

The best of luck to your older son, when I read the calendar, the Primary 6 test thru out the Chinese New Year until Feb 27th, it's quite long, like Uni exam.  

To motivate and also sustain the study spirit also another challenge to a young kid.  A pad on your shoulder, mate.

For us, y'day return all the exam papers and also time for a serious talk to the son, fully understand effort has been made, knowledge has applied but only if he can be more careful, I am not raising a robot kid but careful can lead to higher marks, room for improvement.  He left me a note last nite "Sorry Mom, I will "try" to be more careful, please continue to walk me to the school bus picking point."

Chelsea

nancytse

Dear Raymond,

鍾意食菜？！ 少有喎！

我仔由細到大"食"方面最難攪, BB飲奶係會出盡力不停啜, 啜倒個奶樽會發出吱吱聲, 同埋奶樽底會起哂bubble, 但呢d係唔會發生係我仔到, 佢飲枝奶起碼45mins。 我仔2.5歲果陣, 食飯至少1.5hrs先finish.

你小朋友餐與餐之間會唔會有太多零食？有就要試下減少份量先la。 另外"專家"話小朋友唔食/食得慢,  就比個時限佢, 時間到佢未食完, 就要「恨心」d, 收哂佢d食物, 跟住唔可以比點心佢食, 直至下一餐正餐先再有得食。 試得幾次咁小朋友明白唔食/食得慢就要餓到下餐先有得食, 就會乖乖食飯。

你可以一試 ~ 如果你夠「恨心」肯餓你o既小朋友........不過.........我估你實可以「恨心」試呢個方法, 因為你會咁做：

We will just lock him in the toilet or under the stairs

    

我以前都好「恨心」用過呢方法, 但我仔居然可以連餓3餐都精力充沛, 又冇要求點心/零食      , 我實在唔忍心繼續餓我個心肝寶貝, 所以行動失敗

而家我仔有進步ka la, 45 mins finish, 方法係我不停叫：食la、爬飯la、o趙la、唔好講咁說話la............ 不過食水果呢仍然係 ~~ 極......慢...... :evil:  :evil:  :evil:

飛姨

Dear Chelsea, ms99, Jackjackma,

聽到你哋D仔做改正做到咁夜，
我都好pity 佢哋。
記得大少P.1 & P.2 個時，
我同佢講 Dict, test, and Exam,
只要細心讀題，小心作答，
無錯就唔洗做改正，
即係少D功課做。
當時他年紀少，信以為真，
就係咁慢慢進步。
大家不防試吓呢個方法，
我想D細佬聽到少功課做，
心情都好D，學習能力都好D。

大少的各科測驗已出哂，
睇尼假期佢要好好安排revision timetable。

飛姨

Dear nancytse,

我大仔由細到大"食"方面都係最難攪。
佢3個月大只是一日5枝奶，
夜晚7點瞓到第二朝6點，
我當時都好擔心，
不停找醫生問，all of them that's okay。

我大仔都係在剛過去的暑假先至識得咩叫肚餓，主動要食嘢，
P.4 & P.5 個兩年晚晚游兩個鐘水，
佢都係唔食，不過佢就好鍾意飲奶，
我都試過限時食野，
佢索性唔食，
佢講過因為食野是要維持生命，
otherwise, he can live without it,
not to worry too much la,
when he wants to eat,
he will convey the message.

呀！或者試吓問佢想食D乜，
然後煮(I learnt this from a book)，
it works most of the time, although the amount taken may not be desirable, but at least they eat some. Try Try la.

  :

飛姨

raymond1981 寫道:
Dear 飛姨

Is your older boy quite tall?  I remember when I was his age, I was about 4'7.  That's like a dwarf in the class.  But short guys usually have bright ideas (but not me, I am talking about your son).

Talking about older boy, I believe that all of us wish him all the best in his academic studies and will support him spiritually.   I also like to see him becoming one of us (Wahyanites) next year in F 1.

Best wishes
Raymond

Raymond,

My older son is not tall, skinny at his age, I guess.
75lbs at 4ft6. You are right, 好多計，(係咪真係矮仔多計???)。

It is so thoughtful of you and thanks for all the support from all of you, I'll convey the message and this definite encourages him to do better. Thank you again.

chelsea

Morning friends :)

jackjackma

大家講起各位少爺的身高,體重,吃飯的問題,
又同大家分享下
論身高,體重我大少係全級至輕至矮之一,
身高135cm 體重唔過65lb
但他的體能算中上,
而二少兩歲前都未食過一餐飯,
6個月時一日只食20oz奶
成日以為佢食道有問題,
經常去見醫生,
5歲後就好似食極都唔飽,
而家成日叫佢"肥jack"
三少出生到現在都食得好好,
但佢係三位少爺最輕最矮,
出年一年級而家得35lb 109cm

唔知點解我真係唔太緊張三位少爺的身高,體重,吃飯問題
因為現時覺得教育他們比一切重要,
又可能我已經無時間去理,
但他們都能自動自覺.

大家唔想再煩,
生夠3個啦,一切都唔會再緊張.