DBSPD 家長召集 (大家入來傾吓)

cottontail

唉, 我真係好唔想俾個仔去寄宿, 都唔明掂解要個F.1仔去寄宿, 如果真係要去, 我覺得F.2,3 去好D, 起碼佢地都熟識D中學模式, 佢地當時岩岩開始青春期, 跟住就話要離開屋企, 唉,過左一年佢地返番屋企肯定唔慣, 到時又要適應過, 真係煩..  :tongue:

星期六到中學取中一報名單,擔心的事終發生,06-07年學費$2800,寄宿$4400, 共$7200.所有中一生定要寄宿一年.窮學生著數,有助學金,不論成績.

easy

Hi didima,

Take it easy. You may arrange some snacks for your son and advise him to give it to his classmates. You also can talk to his classteacher and ask her anything can help him.

Let us to have a tea in school fete day.
My son and me will avail after finish rehearsal.

Call you. OK!

Gordon_No_4

Dear all DBSPD parents,

From your experience or observation, are 'big' boys preferred? I mean those born at the beginning of the year.

My boy is a small boy. He was born in late Dec. What is the chance?

Please help.

    

civic

Dear cottontail,

Ypu don't need to worry him. I think there is not much difference between F. 2 or F.3, your only concern is you will never want to leave him.

I sent my son to his first day camp last Easter. He was almost 6. This is his first time to go out without us to have lunch and this is really a long time for him, from 9:00a.m. to 4:00p.m.. On his first day, when I picked him up, he told me that he was very hungry and there was no lunch. I felt surprise and call the organization. They checked for me and told me they did arrange lunch for him but he didn't eat a lot. So, I back to my son and he said because most are fried food so he didn't eat. I told him that if you didn't eat, you must be hungry.

So, at that night, he prepared snack box himself and he took the biggest one and fill full with snacks. I thought he was afraid he didn't have food.

Next day, he told me that when he completed his dish, he refill more. This is what I want him to learn.

This summer, I sent him to an overnight camp. He learned to take a bath himself, go to toilet, eat his meal and re-fill if he feel hungry, tidy his bed, sleep alone (Without us), when I picked him up, he told me that he want to join another overnight camp.

So, I trust they can manage themself without us. He was only 6 1/2 so therefore, I will not worry a 13 years old boy. The experinece is valuable for them.

However, I also understand worry is alwasy mother's job.

civic

Gordan_No_4,

My son has classmate who was born in late December. So, don't worry !

bbk

Dear all mum

囝囝對school fete感到很興奮，並且不斷提醒我要帶coupon。

dear civic

囝囝很鍾意返學，仲做左班長，成績也跟得上，很開心。他表示wide range reader深左d，但亦很積極學習，我已經是老懷安慰﹗囝囝每逢小息都會走左去圖書館，因為他很喜歡那裡，亦會去電腦室做每日一篇...我相信他很enjoy小一生活。

civic

bbk,

Congratulation. I think the most important is he enjoy the life there and have good habbit !

cottontail

civic,
Thanks for your sharing. I let my son try the daycamp last year but he didn't enjoy it. He said the activities were not good. Maybe he is a quiet boy. I will let him try the overnight camp next time and hope he will have a good experience like your son.

didima

hi bbk:
你就好啦,我個囝小煩d都好了,佢就唔鐘意返學,成績就無問題,學習都ok,初初我仲擔心靈糧上一定跟得好辛苦,宜家反而係要跟進佢同同學仔相處問題,我都唔知點佢要曳
好煩
didima

bbk

dear didima

我個囝囝是一個十分十分talkive的小孩子，故此，我相信他人緣會ok。我有時候會為他預備茶點時加多一些份量，他便可以與同學仔一起吃，那感覺是十分好的，而孩子也十分高興。

另外，若你收到囝囝同學仔的惡意email，我認為要改善的是他，而非你的囝囝。

lochan

Didima,

First of all, congradulations of your second one. He will be a lot easier to raise and more adaptable than the first one in order to survive.

Back to your concern, for those who send mailicious email to your son should be counselled and disciplined. You need to tell your son that there is a limit and he has to stand firm to his ground and face it man to man. If the kid does not stop, tell the teacher.

civic

Cottontail,

You are welcome. YMCA has very good organized camp in every summer, maybe he will have happy experience.

didima

hi bbk:
唉.....我帶過幾次額外食物比佢,不過結果係比人搶晒
最早是在中秋節,我就預備了每人一個winnie the pooh月餅送比d同學仔
所以好似帶食物無Й用
didima

didima

hi lochan:
thanks
就d同學仔send mail問題,我同班主任傾過了,佢會跟進下
希望佢遲d會同我講鍾意返學啦
didima

Gordon_No_4

Dear civic,

Thanks for your kindness and encouragement.

civic 寫道:
bbk,

Congratulation. I think the most important is he enjoy the life there and have good habbit !

Elmomo

Hi   easy & didima

I also would attend the school fete and would like to have a talk with you, if interested please pm me


        

bravo

civic

didima,

Does your class have telephone contact list of all parents ? If so, maybe you can ask your son who is with his group and you can call his parents to have general talk about homework first. After you develop friendship with her, you can mention her son's name to your son and ask him to make friend with him.

I always receive call from my son's parents. I found they usually feel lonely because their sons come from different kinder and no friends in class. When they ask their son who is your best friends and once she knows the name, she will check the phone list and call me. I found this is very helpful when both your son and you to face a new environment. You can know more.

Like at the very beginning, do you remember we had their first dictation with 4 pages content. 原來好多小朋友都manage唔到, 但大家都唔知其他小朋友係点, 個個都好緊張, 放假都唔敢去街, 後來同部份媽咪contact過後, 大家己經鬆曬. 如果唔係, 係咁谷個仔就大件事.

有時有媽咪打比我問下功課之餘, 都會傾下佢個仔响班係点, 後來我至發覺原來我個仔有好多小朋友鐘意同佢做朋友.

又知道原來有個小朋友响班極不受歡迎, 我問亞仔, 原來佢話果個小朋友試過一次蝦其他小朋友, 之後其他人就唔同佢玩啦. 我個仔見咁咪同佢玩law, 佢話佢只是果次唔乖, 之後都冇野, 所以唔應該嬲佢喎. 好老積.

不過你又有冇留意你個仔會唔會在你有左之後性格有變呢 ? 留意下喎, 可能佢jealous都唔奇, 所以想你多啲關心佢. 不過只是我多口一提姐.

didima

Elmomo:
yes, , interest

didima

Bravo:
thanks your information, i think i need to cal her
didima