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ms99

麟媽媽：老師出卷咁用心真係好, 問過亞仔佢地仍然用小明，亞仔反問我點解成日都用小明，我一時 O 型咀，口快快話小明出名。   

有事不吐不快：亞仔班有個出名百厭仔，日日都有新意思，亞仔話老師畀咗好多次機會佢都冇改，於是尋日叫全班舉手投票問好唔好將個小朋友掉走去隔離班，終於全班舉手贊成。亞仔難得好興奮全個故事講完一次又一次，我即反問亞仔點解佢都想個小朋友走，佢話個小朋友成日搗亂，咁我問佢點解唔可以包融同原諒，咁又話常識書教「有教無類」，如果佢係當事人又如何??   佢正係話老師問佢地，所以佢地答。我就覺得好有問題，點可以學生用群體力量打壓小數學生，仲要由老師帶頭，咁小朋友會學到什麼呢? 我個人就好唔贊成用呢種方法解決問題了。

chelsea

Morning friends :)

麟媽媽

ms99，

Umm.... 我覺得Raymond 講既都有道理，
不過要因應小頑皮本身性格如何。
群眾既壓力對某D 小朋友係有作用既，
首先要佢有智慧明白，承認出問題既係自己，
而因此引起大家既不滿，知衰便要改過了。
如果佢唔明白諗埋一邊，覺得別人針對，
咁樣佢可能再「發揚光大」，
更再下多幾成功力，反叛到底！

亞仔班主任都用過呢個方法，
雖則唔係指名道姓，但一人犯事，
成班受罰，無兜口兜面舉手投票指責，
但小息班仔又點會放過「罪人」呢？！
亞仔做過幾次「罪人」，而家講義氣，
成日話為同學點點點….好過我話佢幾十句。
不過，老師咁做之後，我覺得佢要同小頑皮傾下，
小朋友要明白事理，亦要大人指點吓既，
亞仔班主任幾好架，罰仔之後會講道理，
雖則不時鬧人，但班馬騮仔好鐘意佢架！

chelsea

I hold the same view as ms99, if
"於是尋日叫全班舉手投票問好唔好將個小朋友掉走去隔離班，"
This is not the way to solve it and also become a precedent to the future cases.

We cannot say the lie tell 100 times become the truth.  Who has the authority and final decision, neither the teacher nor the student but instead for those who has the power, i.e. Principal or Discipline Officer.  

Or else everyone in the class think I am the judge and we can use group power to interfere the decision, no matter the next time another student or the teacher they do not like and kick him/her away, that will not be something we want to see.

I do agree lay down options before ignore/transfer him to another class, if you think he is the burden and kick him away, he could be the nightmare of the other class; the matter has not been resolved.

My comment to use love and patience to change him, those will be from Parish father, Discipline Officer, Teacher and of course Students.   This is not an individual problem but everyone's responsibility to love and care, love your neighbor as yourself.

Chelsea

飛姨

Dear Raymond,

I guess that is a bit too much for a 2and 1/2 to spell words. My 大少 could recognise words at that stage but not spelling. I read a book called "How to raise a reader", it memtions parents should read together with the kids, u may read the same book over and over again cause children at this stage like repetition and I guess that's why he can recognise the words about Thomas the Tank Engine.

For the spelling part, I my 大少 could only master it well until he has learned phonics. If u ask him to spell at this stage, it is just duck feeding him and he is reciting rather than understanding the sound of alphabets and combining them together to make them into words.

Raymond, once kids have the interests of reading, this is the seed planting them to take initiative in learning, which is more beneficial I guess.

飛姨

raymond1981 寫道:
Dear 飛姨

I wonder if your son was like that when he was 2 and a half?  How about other mommies?  When do kids learn how to spell?

He can spell BUS and TRAIN and recognised all the characters in Thomas the Tank Engine.  Am I asking for too much from him at his age?

Regards
Raymond     

飛姨

Dear all,

Good afternoon.

The exam is over and u guys are not online, having fun with your kids???

I was so angry yesterday, 大少lose his piano bag.
He has piano lessons on Thursdays, not until he practised piano yesterday (Wednesday) that he found out the bag was lose. A week has passed and he couldn't recall where he misplaced it.

I made him call the piano teacher himself to tell her what happened. I also made him buy the set of books himself.     

飛姨

麟媽媽

飛姨,

跌左係邊都無印象？！
會唔會連埋床單包埋去洗？
唔好嬲啦！細路仔係咁架喇，
唔好鬧佢喇，叫佢自己出錢買過，
對佢黎講係大教訓架喇。

我亞仔成個月未摸過部琴，
我琴日提佢下星期一學琴喇喎，
好自動自覺，唔係琴老師鬧唔關我事。
佢竟然同我講D scales 真係有D 唔記得，
我預左啦！記得都唔係佢囉！

ms99

Hi ! Everybody, 終於等到呢一日了, 舒服哂!!!
係咪想約出

ms99

飛姨,

唔好嬲啦! 大少都唔係成日唔小心

飛姨

ms99,

今曰學完琴，今晚叫佢練琴，佢超級合作。
話時話，我老公最唔贊同鬧細佬仔，
當我話佢知琴袋事件後，
佢都話抵鬧，今次完全support me！！！   

講開鬧，大少攞成績表後，知道退步咗，
成日都好behaved, 於是我話要讚賞佢，
佢即刻鬆毛鬆翼，於是我說道：
「我讚賞你的勇氣和胆量，
在這重要關頭嘗試退步。」
大少當堂語塞，
這幾天他合作多了。
希望他keep 住咁until the final exam is over.

經過多年磨練，我D功力又深厚咗。  

飛姨

chelsea

Morning friends :)

chelsea

Boys must be happy as extra day off for the "Teacher Development Day" today.  What a coincidence that I met the foreign teacher from Chinese International School as she lived in my estate also said the same thing, guess might be a common day off for some schools.  She has no class but has to attend meeting whole day.

My boy followed me to morning Mass, then breakfast and stayed in my office for a while, what a happy day for him.  But he will have the Mandarin Oral tomorrow mean study has to continue today.

Chelsea

chelsea

Raymond,

Agreed with you, there are tons of options to be chosen and the destiny will be for the best of sake of kid no matter what has been chosen.

Sometimes the view of Man and Woman might be different due to motherhood and passionate emotion.

Hope you can understand.

Have a fabulous weekend!

Chelsea

麟媽媽

嘩！琴晚去完嘉年華，我副老骨頭散晒囉！！
我無咩玩Rides，只係亞老爹陪亞少爺玩，
但我幫佢地抽住大包細包，企都企到腰骨痛！
去到無耐亞老爹走去射籃球，
拎左隻大一大既兔仔，比我鬧鬼佢，
咁早去玩攤位咪要我成晚拎住？！
(佢實覺得我變左，
以前拍拖佢拎到公仔我好開心，
而家反而鬧鬼佢，呵呵~~   )


亞仔又嘗了「不聽老人言」啦！
跳樓機高度限制為1.2 米，
佢死Lur 要玩，死不罷休！！
我一直叫唔好，但老爹說由佢試…..
難為老爹要陪佢一齊跳樓，好偉大啊！！
好多年青人圍觀話︰「個細路好細細個喎？！」
我無份仲擔心過自己坐…3 秒後著地…..
亞仔落地，木無表情，圍觀青年人拍手，
佢碌大對眼，跑埋我身埋頭我件衫內！
一路行離開人群，行到Food court，
佢即時攬住我…喊左出黎震晒！
佢話好驚，好後悔….呢世都唔敢再玩！
不過，唔夠一陣佢又拉佢老爹排過山車，
睇黎，佢唔會成世唔玩跳樓機。  

chelsea

麟媽媽,

Sounds like you had a great time.

I am also not brave enough to try those games you have mentioned, the fear will follow the age increase I guess :)

I think 麟 Chai will gain courage and bold character after those ride.

Chelsea

ms99

   嘩! 勁呀, 兩父子都好犀利喎.
畀著我都唔會放亞仔上去玩,
因為1.2M只係剛剛好,
坐

麟媽媽

ms99,

1.2 米根本未可以坐啦！
亞仔都成1.3米有多，但一坐上去，
佢個下巴剛好枕係個shoulder harness 既凹位，
即是平日大人心口位置，
佢個肩膀上仲有大把位先到頂，
佢話衝落黎時佢成個pat pat 離晒凳，
隻手捉住扶手但個身體向上升….
離晒心，有咩辦法唔嚇死佢呀？！