05年入讀主流小學的障礙兒童家長~請進!!

mrsphcheung

Dear stellacl,
What a wonderful task (numerous educational web sites) you have done!!!  

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kmwun & joey媽媽,

我都明白既,只係眼見個仔响學校一個朋友都無,個仔又好努力咁融合佢地但又唔成功,見到個仔好唔開心好悶咁自己一個人坐咗角落發呆,我同老公都好心痛! ...其實我都有諗過順其自然,但係見個仔咁,真係好想快啲幫到佢.

kmwun 寫道:
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我都好同意joey媽媽的意見．我覺得俾小朋友順其自然好d，我會要仔仔知道要有基本的禮貌識得點做，但亦尊重佢會喜歡同某d人相處多d，同某d人無咁好，想像下有時我地要應酬都會想死．江山易改本性難移，唔使勉強多d提點就可以．

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stella,

今日都有同老公傾過校車問題,佢都係睇邊個平就揀邊個,或者我試吓一個月自己親自湊番學先,到時自己搞唔掂先至改撘校車囉...

我諗住自己親自做愛心飯盒俾個仔响學校食,今日我已經諗緊煮乜喇~~~!!! 費時到時諗到乾咗塘唔知煮乜嘛~~~!!

stellacl 寫道:
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我一陣pm比你, 我個手機啦, 6月25號見

訓少d啦.. 下午番屋企再訓過lor, 因為我都係甘諗   
早上送番學仲有個好處架, 如果早, 見到老師又可以傾2句...小學老師平時返學唔似幼稚園老師甘可以聽我地電話架...

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bandband 寫道:
kmwun & stella,

我仲諗住淨係俾佢撘番學嗰程校車添... 鬼咩~~~!!我同個仔都咁鐘意瞓...我怕到時全程旨意我親自湊佢番學,我會成日遲到---因為會唔知醒...同埋我都要睇番車費問題,如果校車係平過我地自己坐地鐵好多既話,我諗我都會俾佢撘校車...同埋撘校車真係唔駛同人迫嘛... 等我再研究吓先...我都怕佢到時會傻豬落咗車唔識路番課室...嚇到佢喊咪c火~~~!!!

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stella,

check pm!

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stella,
I have copied your web sites suggested in the first message : information mama provided. thanks.

gigi2

Stella,

Thank you very much!  Wow!  You got a lot of infomration webs!  Mommies here are really helpful and nice!

Mickeyma,

I just bought one VCD from Joint Publishing Bookstore (series 1) which I found that it is very suitable for kids with age from 2-4 years old.  The publisher is Sun Ya and the price is $78 with a VCD and a book in one package.   The contents includes matching, colouring, maths, English songs (2 only), shapes and stories etc.  Quality is good and impressive to small kids.   Let me go home to type the Chinese Title for you tonight or if any mum here knows please type it out.

Another set of VCDs I ordered from kindergarten which is the English version to teach phonics but the contents are linked with the school books which I think that might not be too suitable for kids to buy them separately without class enforcement.

gigi2

"pre-school power" 嘅vcd, 1-6/7集 – I have seen the series at Bookstore in Hong Kong.  By the way, I want to correct that the one from ‘Sun Ya’ is an educational CD-Rom but not VCD and the medium of language is Chinese.

ALAL

mrscheung,
Which two days you are going / will go in Ms. Chung's place?

mrsphcheung

Monday and Friday (4:45p.m.)

ALAL 寫道:
mrscheung,
Which two days you are going / will go in Ms. Chung's place?

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stella,

犀利呀!你識得整壽司架???我隻佬都有提議過,但係我又唔識整,同埋我又怕做既材料貴過我煮兩味餸俾佢...


至於我囝囝社交問題,佢只係响學校先至會出現無朋友情況咋,佢响學校以外既地方(我地同佢去公園去行街時...),佢係一個好受小朋友歡迎既小朋友,好易識到新朋友,佢又好主動同人地say hello...變咗响學校嗰邊,我地真係唔知點解變成咁...我隻佬就話係學校將個仔標chim咗,但咩原因都好,真係好怕同樣既事情再响小學發生... :cry:

stellacl 寫道:
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我都有諗過...壽司都係一個唔錯嘅選擇. (太卷/加洲卷果d)[quote]
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stella,

我諗住自己親自做愛心飯盒俾個仔响學校食,今日我已經諗緊煮乜喇~~~!!! 費時到時諗到乾咗塘唔知煮乜嘛~~~!!

gigi2

Mickeyma,

The following CD-Rom I bought is:

名种：幼兒開心學習系到(1)
出版社:教育出版社有限公司
價錢:HK$78

但我們的小朋友最好限時間玩，而且還要跟他們一起玩，這樣可以從旁互動以免單向學習嘛！

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stella,

如果整一餐小朋友份量既壽司大概要幾錢???我個仔都幾大食架噃...^^因為到時我無工開,我都係以經濟又夠營養為原則. 我諗住等到八月我唔駛番工嗰陣,帶個仔去揀飯盒同水壺~!等佢揀個自己鐘意既,到時番學都可以威吓嘛~~~!!!

我就係想講呢個point囉!我地自己教仔係當然啦,但係只係响學校發生問題,而响屋企同出面係無出現到既,我地作為家長真係教唔到啲乜,只可以講吓,始終實際情況我地又睇唔到亦知唔得清楚,我始終認為,老師既責任都大囉!我唔係旨意哂老師教哂我個仔,但係始終都要公平,當有問題發生時真係唔希望老師一味卸膊賴哂落小朋友同家長身上,自己又唔處理或者唔小心去處理,好似嗰次我個仔俾同學笑佢白痴,我個仔忍唔住打人咁,我個仔打人係唔啱,但係導火線唔係佢嘛,佢一心想同同學玩,但換嚟既係俾成班同學取笑又唔同佢玩,點解取笑人既小朋友無錯,而我個仔有呢?就算當時老師有制止班同學仔笑佢,咁同我講時係咪應該交代番,等我唔好誤會佢偏幫班小朋友而只怪責我個仔一個唔好呢????見到有嘢着緊火,係人都識得第一時間淋熄佢,然後了解個源頭係乜嘢,等第時唔會再發生啦!如果係個別事件一次半次我都無咩所謂,但係個老師一方面講埋呢啲咁既問題出嚟,另一方面又話我個仔成日自己一個人玩無同學同佢玩,我地又真係親眼見過個仔點撩同學玩(無打人喎!just to say Hi only),然後又俾我地見到個同學點樣撥開我個仔當我個仔透明,跟住我個仔好呆咁自己飄到一個無人既地方坐响度發呆...之後又俾同學屈佢打人(到時同你見面我再講得詳細少少...),我同老公又睇又聽,真係好肉痛囉!原本真係諗住俾佢讀埋個八月,但係睇見咁樣,我個仔又番學番得唔開心,所以我先至決定提早讀到七月尾就俾個仔唞吓...

希望正如你所講,我囝囝响小學唔會再有同樣既情況發生...唔係要所有同學都鐘意佢,但至少,唔好再俾全班同學排斥同屈佢...越睇個仔既case,真係越覺得佢好鬼似我細個嗰陣時,廿幾年前既小學生都識得欺負/冤枉同學,更何況依家啲小朋友個個都係叻靚醒?!如果我個仔同我細個既情況係一模一樣既話... 咁咪又係要佢等到小學六年班至有朋友??!!

stellacl 寫道:
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今日好靜喎  

我其實都係好耐以前整過一次 你去買d壽司米 (好似煮飯甘煮熟), 跟住加d壽司專用嘅醋粉撈"混"佢 (可以喺日本超級市場買到, 多少隨意, 也可以選擇唔加 ), 跟住買一塊卷壽司嘅竹卷 (可以喺日本超級市場買到, 也好似在日本城見過), 跟住放一塊大紫菜在竹卷上面, 跟住鋪一層飯 (薄d), 跟住放青瓜條+蟹柳條+日本粉紅色肉鬆 (or其他), 跟住卷埋就得喇....最好唔好太多料, 因為小朋友食太大舊要咬開一半, 跟住散晒就麻煩, 最好一口一件, 飯盒內再放半隻boiled egg, 甘就夠晒營養啦...

我覺得一間學校裡面嘅學生接唔接納我地d小朋友, 老師嘅教導都好重要, 我又暫時未聽過我認識在你小學讀p3那位小朋友有這種經歷喎...所以唔洗太擔心

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stella,

犀利呀!你識得整壽司架???我隻佬都有提議過,但係我又唔識整,同埋我又怕做既材料貴過我煮兩味餸俾佢...


至於我囝囝社交問題,佢只係响學校先至會出現無朋友情況咋,佢响學校以外既地方(我地同佢去公園去行街時...),佢係一個好受小朋友歡迎既小朋友,好易識到新朋友,佢又好主動同人地say hello...變咗响學校嗰邊,我地真係唔知點解變成咁...我隻佬就話係學校將個仔標chim咗,但咩原因都好,真係好怕同樣既事情再响小學發生... :cry:

joey媽媽

各位，

　　呢兩日我忙ｄ,所以而家先上來報喜
我個仔第一次比左間幼稚園~~ 就係[size=medium]甩[size=small]第一隻牙 ,我一直都無發覺佢有想甩牙動靜,突然係星期五放學,老師話隻牙鬆鬆地仔仔自己抆甩左,個個老師同學都好開心好興奮,話呀仔大個仔喇
不過,我都有發現呀仔甩牙之後,個人開心左,講野多左又主動多左,唔通真係
[size=x-small]會大個仔表現都好d

joey媽媽

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    我都明白你心情 因最近我同校方都有d 誤會作出了解,後來發現不是最老師最錯,而是我覺得係校長..(詳細唔講 ) ,雖然仲有一個月畢業,而我一直同校方關係都好，但我都忍不住同校長講左一番話:我知班主任好錫仔仔,但仔仔沒可能因沒有綵排機會而抽離佢離開同班同學擺去第二個課室或妹妹度,跟住我又講左好多比喻例子比佢聽(因打字好多我唔想打出來 ),最後我好直接同校長講:你d不是融合，融合不是咁嘅意思，你這樣抽離他，我真不開心亦不滿意 :evil: 校長聽後都無出聲了 而家同校方溝通後大家有共識及了解多左，個心都舒服ｄ，最重要係作為媽咪，爸爸都曾努力幫仔仔爭取佢應有的權利，不能比人作出藉口任人忽視佢地，你明唔明呢？我地同呢ｄ辦教育嘅人理論,我諗都會易d，話晒佢地都係教育者，唔敢作出歧視，何況就算不是有自閉而是一般頑皮仔，他們都要有適當的處理呢

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joey媽媽,

你講既嘢我係明白架,但初時佢啲老師真係好積極咁同我傾個仔响學校問題,咁初期入讀嗰陣,我個仔又確實成日打人(因為唔識講嘢),咁老師咁講,我咪聽囉!但到咗呢年,我個仔真係响我地呢邊(學校以外)無再打人,只係除非有小朋友追住佢嚟蝦,佢都只係推走人地/撥走人地手上啲嘢等人地停止蝦佢.但反而,老師呢期講啲嘢真係離奇得好緊要,完全同平日既情況相反,我地講,個老師又無理頭發晦氣再唔係就高八度咁話:"梗係唔係啦!" 個老師咁既反應係咪代表唔信我講佢响出面咁鬼乖呢...咁我都又無否認佢學校一定唔會咁,講真,我又唔响現場又點知佢學校係點,只係俾我同老公不斷咁見到啲同學點整佢同埋唔同佢玩,我都未發火,啲老師做乜咁有脾氣呢...係要等我老公開金口講埋一份,佢地至收聲,咁我係咪衰我係個女人而唔係男人,我唔係男人/爸爸,係咪即係代表可以俾老師咁恰法呢~~~???!!唉!不過都係讀到七月尾,我都費鬼時再同佢地嘈,惟有諗吓點同個仔間小學既老師溝通到...

joey媽媽

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   我諗你選擇早走早著都啱,一間學校如校方及老師不能用心幫我們小朋友,這間學校都不應留戀.昐望升小一有個新開始,大家努力呀 我諗到時我們都有排忙