Hello, Dr.T speaking...

Dr.T

我想從老師的角度看,她是有心無力...因為相信她是沒有接受過特殊教育訓練,所以面對小朋友有異於其他學生的行為亦只會用她懂得的方法處理.

長遠來說對孩子亦並非好事,因為學校日後的重點會更加放重在避免她再搗蛋,但對她真正學了多少課堂的內容反而是其次.

由於我從未見過小朋友,只有憑經驗估計可行方法...我會覺得退一步海闊天空,待她重整好遵守規則的習慣後再回歸主流可能較好.但當然如果有人能作校訪,真正了解情況意見會更中肯.

gigi2 寫道:
...The teacher said that my girl should be in small group and that’s why she believed that her performance was better in Heep Hong or at home because of the tutor ratio was higher...

Dr.T

我小時候也飲/食很多魚肝油,但我的原因是我從小體弱多病,我媽說如果不是谷到我那麼肥c大隻,可能已經無左.

pamam 寫道:
...I have started feeding my son cod liver oil today, since it would not be harmful to him, it's worth trying.

gigi2

Roy&Shiny,

Thank you for your sharing and I totally understand what you meant.   In fact, I start to consider to take care of them but at the moment there're a lot of factors and burden which make me to give up this idea at the moment - at least these 2 years.  

I have 2 kids to bring up plus other heavy burdens which I cannot give up my 'good paid' jobs right now.  However, I always feel guilty and struggle about this especially whenever I heard some bad news from my little girl.  

I love them so much and most likely I will quit my job years after as I am not an aggressive woman at all and am willing to give up my good career for family.  

I envy you as you can look after your children.  

  

Babytweety

Dear Dr. T (秦博士) your picture ,

Could you please send Omega 3 info to me, I hve pm my email address to you. Pls check

Thanks

TwinsMother

Dr. T,

你覺得這款魚Fish Oil (Coromega) 點樣呢?

Dr.T

小弟不是醫生,只是教育心理學家而已,只是見不少家長似乎都有為小朋友購置這類營養輔助物,所以當見到有相關的資料時便轉告大家而已.

根據現有的研究顯示,Omega3是對大腦發展有著一定的功用,至於在較年長的人身上(嬰孩以上)使用是否有相同的功效呢,就要看往後的研究了.

在Special Children內那一篇文章是一個例子,雖然美中不足的是似乎和某牌子的魚油有所聯繫...但作者是英國某教育分區的總教育心理學家,應該不會弄虛作假罷.

TwinsMother 寫道:
你覺得這款魚Fish Oil (Coromega) 點樣呢?

Dr.T

在職母親要同時兼顧兩名小朋友是十分吃力的事情,更不要說是有特殊學習需要的孩子.

很多時候家長問我(十成都是母親問,父親通常...唉...男人真不爭氣 )應否辭職去照顧小朋友,我都會請她們想清楚,因為她們全時間留在孩子身邊,不一定代表會有正面的結果,不一定會是"等價交換("鋼之煉金術師"的名句)"的...反而長時間與小朋友困獸鬥,可能更會影響雙方的生/心理發展平衡,因為對不少媽媽來說,返公司反而是令她們獲得寧靜的地方.

gigi2 寫道:
... I cannot give up my 'good paid' jobs right now.  

conniedodo

請問ＤＨＡ和omega3一樣有效嗎？

sjmama

Dr.T 寫道:
在職母親要同時兼顧兩名小朋友是十分吃力的事情,更不要說是有特殊學習需要的孩子.

....因為對不少媽媽來說,返公司反而是令她們獲得寧靜的地方.

That's exactly my problem. However, I feel even quilty when I have such feeling.

Dr.T

conniedodo 寫道:
請問ＤＨＡ和omega3一樣有效嗎？

基本上是同一樣野...見下文...(source:http://www.wholehealthmd.com/refshelf/substances_view/1,1525,992,00.html)

Different types of omega-3s: Key omega-3 fatty acids include eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexanoic acid (DHA), both found primarily in oily cold-water fish such as tuna, salmon, and mackerel. Aside from fresh seaweed, a staple of many cultures, plant foods rarely contain EPA or DHA.

pamam

sjmama,

I am a full-time mom but this does not mean I'll devote 100% of my time to my children. We all need a break sometimes.

I don't like long school holidays(I don't feel guilty at all, ha ha), because I will be so busy with my kids that I don't even have time to reply emails or watch TV in peace. The TV will always be on children's DVD. Also, my asperger son is a non-stop talker, he will ask me 10 questions(similar questions) in 5 minutes. At times like this, I wish I were a working mom again!

Pamam

sjmama 寫道:
[quote]
Dr.T 寫道:
在職母親要同時兼顧兩名小朋友是十分吃力的事情,更不要說是有特殊學習需要的孩子.

....因為對不少媽媽來說,返公司反而是令她們獲得寧靜的地方.

That's exactly my problem. However, I feel even quilty when I have such feeling.[/quote]

gigi2

Stellacl,

You've said what I want to say! Perhaps I am working mum to share financial burden and my husband is very willing to train and take care of my little daughter.  However, I still will take serious consideration when both of my kids have entered into primary levels and stepping into teenager zone as this stage is very critical for children’s growth.

A 'good paid' job is attractive especially this is a meaningful reward and recognition to me from my continuous self enhancement and numerous efforts given to the career.  Anyway, I still value my children more important than the career.  Perhaps this is the basic instinct of being a mother can sacrifice herself for children.  Currently I cannot be a full time mom but I will dream for it in order to balance myself.
:-|  :-|

Oop.. Sorry Dr. T, we’ve used your room to chat other issues….

dleelm

Dr.T,

原來係咁樣, 我都無咁擔心, 為有繼續觀察啦, 好多謝你.

Dr.T 寫道:
1. 只有2歲多,專注力是不會太長久的
2. 可能只是吸引注意而學習得來的反應,要多觀察一段時間才能決定是否異常的行為
3&4 自信心是與身體各部肌能發展相輔相成的,可能她自覺口頭表達不如人,便會出現你描述的情況
5. 這便是她表現主見的機會...外國人話齋-terrible two嘛!

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dleelm 寫道:
1. 女女好像對事物的專注力不太長久...
2. 好細膽, 對聲音極敏感, 顯得十分害怕, 有時不太大聲都會話好嘈.
3. 做任何事不太主動(包括說話),一般要有鼓勵才做.
4. ...就算去公園亦不主動興其他小朋友玩,...
5. 對藍色又十分執著...有時會因為無藍色而哭鬧...

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TwinsMother

唔該你, 我只係想多找一些意見!

Dr.T 寫道:
小弟不是醫生,只是教育心理學家而已,只是見不少家長似乎都有為小朋友購置這類營養輔助物,所以當見到有相關的資料時便轉告大家而已.

根據現有的研究顯示,Omega3是對大腦發展有著一定的功用,至於在較年長的人身上(嬰孩以上)使用是否有相同的功效呢,就要看往後的研究了.

在Special Children內那一篇文章是一個例子,雖然美中不足的是似乎和某牌子的魚油有所聯繫...但作者是英國某教育分區的總教育心理學家,應該不會弄虛作假罷.

AGNESNG

Dr. T,

你聽日o向邊個電台開咪呀? 搵返之前o個頁搵唔到, 請再報料, urgent!

AGNESNG

conniedodo

多謝解答．
咁即係食魚肝油和食ＤＨＡ丸是一樣效用了？有冇話那種較好？
因家中仔女都有食開ＤＨＡ丸的．

Dr.T 寫道:
基本上是同一樣野...見下文...(source:http://www.wholehealthmd.com/refshelf/substances_view/1,1525,992,00.html)

Different types of omega-3s: Key omega-3 fatty acids include eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexanoic acid (DHA), both found primarily in oily cold-water fish such as tuna, salmon, and mackerel. Aside from fresh seaweed, a staple of many cultures, plant foods rarely contain EPA or DHA.

Dr.T

有時我想搵返之前講過d野都好難搵到...

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AGNESNG 寫道:
你聽日o向邊個電台開咪呀? 搵返之前o個頁搵唔到, 請再報料, urgent!