好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

gigi2

Hinhinmummy,

I don't know how bad & quiet your maid will be.  I have some comments for your case:

1)        Your kid is studying half or full day session of nursery or he still does not to start yet?  The effect of changing a new maid may be minimized if your kid is attending full day nursery.

2)        You should know what is the relationship between your son & the maid.  Intimate or not?  If intimate, he will not be easy to adapt a new one but unless your maid is really bad at all.

3)        My maid is also a very quiet type but she will follow my instruction to do table tasks almost 3 times a week (not including the training at Heep Hong) for my girl.  The main drive is that my maid likes small kids and she has taken care of my girl since she's newborn.  To certain extent, she loves my girl as a second mother.  Therefore, quiet is not the major barrier.  If your maid loves your son (frankly speaking, it is very straightforward to depend what is the relationship between YOU and YOUR MAID), she must be willing to do table task or more speak up to him!  No one is perfect.

Hope these are helpful to your consideration.

Hi Justjust,

Glad to hear that the big improvement of your girl, too!  I deeply feel that a good kindergarten with care & loves from the teachers are very important to our children especially with speech delay problems or other etc.  My girl has been in a very bad nursery which made her felt insecurity.  Fortunately after she has enrolled this new kindergarten of K1, after 2 months she becomes more happier and is eager to speak more especially at home.  Right before lunch today, her teacher called me to talk about what areas of improvement of my girl made within this week.  

Same to yours, she always pretends to be a teacher.  Sometimes, she will arrange the class to have snacks and sometimes she teaches them to sing and alphabets learning. Her students mainly are her favourite dolls and animal toys.  I am also glad that she starts to quarrel with or invite her elder sister to play with her!  Yesterday, she sang some songs (solo) by playing the big piano and requested us to give her applause after performing.

All these are the dreams to us before half year ago……

hinhinmummy

gigi2

Thanks for your advice.

just discussed with my husband, we make a decision to change a maid now.  because her visa will be expired on next August.  Being a processing time, a new maid will arrived at February 2005.  Its only changed a new one early 6 months.

Because, we will not intention to make a new contract with she.

1)        hinhin now study at Po Leung Kuk, which is full day pre-nursery, but because he still eat too much at school, so the teacher suggested let he study half-day until he eat more.

Although he starts a school life, but I still want my maid speak more to hinhin.

eg. when she feed food to hinhin, I would like her to said 'UM'.
when she let hinhin milk, she will said 'hinhin, milk milk(chinese)etc.

now she is silent.  do you know, she never have a call since she start to work at my family.

my st said that she is horrible quite.

2)        my relationship to my maid, I can said not so good, but not so bad.  We have buy a cake to her when birtday, I worry she cold, buy clothes, jackets to her, I worry she hot, her pants all a long one, I buy a short one to her.... so much so much.  buty I can't feel she loves my son, but not to bad.  just a relationship like I & my boss.

I think hin hin not too intimate with her.  As hin hin request I sleep with he instead of my maid.

3)        it is a main point which i want to terminate a contract with she.  she can't follow my instruction to do table task with hinhin.  she look like have a dream during a training (the ST record a vcd to me).  

I know that no one is perfect. But I only want my maid love hin hin, play with him, not just a security guard to look after he.

gigi2

Please feel relax to go ahead with your plan as you are the one who know the case thoroughly.  I believe that your son will adapt very soon and with your deepest love, he will start his engine as soon as possible. :  :  

kmwun

kimbear

I agreed with justjust.  My boy so far has contacted three different st, all of them start to trian the eye contact first.  And this is always an on-going task.  So you may have to find out if there's any other concern by the st ...

wowoma

kakab105,

仔仔的導師--陳姑娘
妳是否認識?

kimbear

kmwun & just just :

我住係屯門,但好像大部份st都在ＨＫside，係咪有上門的，
但在家會吳會太free，我個仔除

hinhinmummy

kimbear

軒軒初初上st的時侯, 都係坐不定, 周圍走, 個st就遷就佢, 周圍陪佢玩, 再引導佢坐返埋位.

個姑娘講得岩, 佢地試多幾次, 就會知道, 原來上堂要坐定定.  佢上次果堂st, 成堂都坐定定, 不走開過.

eye contact- 可以訓練架, 軒軒初初的eye contact都被評為小, 依家已經進步好多, 佢受訓之不過兩個月時間.

本身st的費用已經不平, 如再上門, 好貴, 要有心理準備.

陸美爸

kimbear & all mama~

雖然仔仔都算係乖/易湊，但正正因為咁就令我忽略咗佢嘅發展進度，以及佢對任何事都係會"冷眼旁觀"的，完全無學習/模仿嘅衝動，經常都我有我地著急，佢有佢嘅冷靜......哈~不過佢返咗學兩個月，都學咗啲曳嘢喎~~

好開心聽到有咁多小朋友嘅進步

另外想問問大家意見...我好唔好自己搵ST俾仔仔，還是再等下"青
蔥"呢？(政府我估一年半載都未必有...)

hinhinmummy~

其實你有無考慮過掉番轉，俾軒軒試下返全日先呢？我個仔都係初初食好少嘢，但都照返全日，之後就越食越多喇...

陸美媽

mickeyma

Gigi2 wrote:
From a lot of previous messages or PM, I find that my daugther’s problem in speech development is similar to justjust, hinhinmummy and mickey. A special note I want to share with all of you for mutual encouragement and support.

Dear Gigi2, justjust,

Very happy to see your sharing of your girl's programme in the language and overal development.  It did give me more hope and strength to train up my son. Yes, like justjust said, the child's  progress is more like the staircase rather than the strightlline.

Long time not going back to here as I have been very busy in the fair last weeks and will be busy for following weeks. So less training to my son..

Hinhinmummy, Wish you get a suitable maid for your son.

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

多謝你, 希望新的好過舊的.

陸美媽

不係我不比軒軒返全日, 而係學校不比wor.  我話帶奶比軒軒飲, 學校都不比.  其實我又無mug所謂, 因為佢好多training都係下午, 甘都要請半日假, 同返半日差不多?

justjust

kimbear,

I live in Kowloon East.  One of the STs that we used previously also has an office in Yuen Long, Castle Peak Road.  (I went to their Yaumatei office.)  But the ST has changed already and we had stopped going to the new ST.  Probably we were not used to her style (and honestly we didn't try long enough to adjust to each other).

The other one that we're still using has an office in Central, but she comes near our home for the sessions, each time 2 or 3 cases, one after the other one.  This is arranged by our girl's ex-playgroup teacher, also a social worker of HK Christian Service.

I believe many of the kids 容易發ｍｕｇ”憎”，又走來走去.  Don't you worry.  A good ST knows how to calm them down, bring them back to the table, knows when to let them have a little break and when to be firm.  We as parents also benefit a lot from these techniques.[quote]
kimbear 寫道:
kmwun & just just :

我住係屯門,但好像大部份st都在ＨＫside，係咪有上門的，
但在家會吳會太free，我個仔除

kmwun

kimbear

don't worry, st got experience in our kids and they are very creative in calming them down and getting their attention.  I used to bring my son to Heep Hong's st before the  早期訓練 start, Heep Hong got centre in Tuen Mun as well.  However, it cost HK$500 per hour.

mckittylam

Hi Everyone,

我個仔都剛剛去完兒童體能智力測驗中心做評估.
結果會在６個月後有.
他現在２１個月多少少,只懂講爸爸媽媽.
其餘講既都係ＢＢ話.
我都唔知佢係唔係講話有問題,
可否分享一下你地既意見！
          

hinhinmummy

mckittylam

有無問醫生點解甘耐先有結果? 不係即場計到咩?

mckittylam

Hi Hinhinmummy,

我哋係去政府既兒童體能智力測驗中心做評估.
首先亞B係俾D姑娘睇,未見醫生住.
D姑娘話會在６個月內有評估結果.
請問係唔係咁嫁！

  :arrow:  :arrow:    

hinhinmummy

mckittylam

我聽其他媽咪講就好似係, 佢地都係見左姑娘先, 半年內見醫生, 但我係搵私家醫生寫紙去大口環, 所以只係等左4個月到就見埋醫生&姑娘.

kmwun

mckittylam

見姑娘只係作初步篩選，有需要至約見醫生做正式評估．至於要等幾耐至見到醫生視乎有幾多人排隊，我去年在下葵涌只需等個零月．

wowoma

mckittylam,

姑娘同我講話會攞住我們提供的資料,跟有關內部專業人士開會後,通知約見評估,大概要等6 個月

four44

mckittylam & wowoma

如果係藍田麗港城就2個月左右會打比你地架喇!! 等下啦!!再去排左協康既青蔥做初步評估，睇下有咩可以幫助小朋友先呀嘛!!

kmwun

要小心的是如果小朋友在太短時間之內做太多評估會影響結果，因為唔同機構都可能夠用差不多的評估方法。