P1B parents

Kellyaugust2004

bbdou
yes ah . as my character is softer than my husband. so , when my husband is out, my son will behave naughtier.  ..........
i really want to change.  as if this situation keep on, i can't imagine when my 2nd bb born, how to handle . ..

any good suggestions to encourage them to do hw?

原帖由 bbdou 於 08-9-29 20:05 發表
教細路真係一門高深的學問，個個細路都唔同，宜加的細路又比我地細個時醒好多，真係要見招拆招，EQ低D都唔掂呀！

Kellyaugust2004

sumsum, kongsou
i'm full time mom.  .... most of my friends suggest me to hire a maid. .. but for my husband, he said let's us try, if not okay, will hire later one.

kongsou
i see. good to have your mom staying and help.
i'm headache as my son doesn't like to do hw and he is very difficult to handle.

原帖由 kongsou 於 08-9-29 14:53 發表
kellyaugust2004,
我是在職媽咪!我現在新請嗰個工人都從未湊過new born baby架,不過佢話佢肯學,同埋有我媽咪係樹幫手,我就放心好多!咁你是全職媽咪嗎?如果冇人幫手睇baby只得工人,我諗你請過有經驗湊過new born baby ...

charlie2002

Thanks Kelly and all parents. Just read yr reply, we all face same problem. Keep going ...............never give up. Kids just start P1 less than a month so looking forward la. Today she seems catch up quite well on hw but test on Eng may not easy tomorrow for them..........

原帖由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-9-29 20:22 發表
sumsum, kongsou
i'm full time mom.  .... most of my friends suggest me to hire a maid. .. but for my husband, he said let's us try, if not okay, will hire later one.

kongsou
i see. good to have your ...

bbdou

其實都好難講有乜野好辦法，因為個個小朋友都唔同，不過個個人都鍾意人讚佢，我覺得我個仔都幾受讚，同時用佢鍾意做的野來引佢，例如話佢早做完功課有時間淨，就可以玩佢鍾意玩的野玩耐D，咁佢為左想玩耐D就會做快D咁囉！最緊要我地大人要控制自己的情緒，唔好失控，一失控，局面就會好難控制得到啦！

原帖由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-9-29 20:20 發表
bbdou
yes ah . as my character is softer than my husband. so , when my husband is out, my son will behave naughtier.  ..........
i really want to change.  as if this situation keep on, i can't imagine ...

PaPa

原帖由 bbdou 於 08-9-29 19:34 發表
我想問下EC英文會用嗰套Scholastic & Literacy Place係需要我地另外買，還是學校會提供俾學生架呢？

我都想知。

心心

KELLYAUGUST,
怒我直言, according your description as below:
1) mom is softer than dad;
2) if my husband see this happen, he will use his "power" to force him to follow. .. which make my son really angry (keep crying and writing) which make me feel very bad.

事實發生了幾個問題
1)daddy同mami教法不一致, 小朋友無所適從
2) the kids almost follow instruction under dad's power, 不是小朋友意願之下服從命令, 只是收到即時之效, 不長久, daddy不在家, 留低善良mami, 他便可以不聽從指令了

改善方法:
1) dad & mom教法必須一致, 你2公婆自行傾好
2) 小朋友真係唔可以鬧, 唔可以迫, 要有1條道條, 你希望佢咁咁咁, 點解呢? 相反要了解佢唔做功課背後主因, 功課好深? 開學有壓力? 真係要由他內心深處出發, 關懷左先; 其次他做好了功課父母留意到嗎? 會唔會唔做功課反而見到daddy mami才緊張她呢? 有左小bb會唔會對他有令一個看法? bb出世會唔會他失去了他最愛的父母的關心, 好多好多野, 要由心出發去做, 都係果句, 你同佢關係愈係好, 講甚麼都易話為d, 親子關係先放在首位, 耐性就是親子時必需, 千萬不要鬧, 只收即時效用, 反效果多得很....唔知有冇講多左, 你有咩可以再share下啦, 唔好唔開心, take care!

Kellyaugust2004

sumsum

tks for your sharing. i see and understand what u're saying .  hope my husband will understand too. i also point out that scolding and physical punishment is not a good way and can't last long. but my husband seems can't control himself (or he may think this is working now).
anyway,  i will keep trying to control my temper.   tmr is another good new day, right.

thanks

原帖由 心心 於 08-9-29 23:35 發表
KELLYAUGUST,
怒我直言, according your description as below:
1) mom is softer than dad;
2) if my husband see this happen, he will use his "power" to force him to follow. .. which make my son really a ...

心心

kellyaugust,
你同囡囡傾下, 開解下佢, 先從關心著手, 再和她訂1個好寶寶獎勵計劃, 儲幾多個印花換她心愛的東西, 激勵她, 亦要向她解釋下爸爸比較心急, 他其實好愛你, 煲大爸爸對她的愛, 話佢知爸爸昨晚靜靜雞同我講: 留意到你響邊方面進步好大wor, 讚你呀 (可能是老作), 作用可以拉近她和爸爸距離, 亦讓她覺得爸爸內心其實多愛她, 有效果時再同爸爸解釋下, 原來個女喜歡呢個教法, 老公你睇,佢進步左好多呀... 不如....以後咁咁咁

Add oil!!

[ 本帖最後由 心心 於 08-9-30 09:33 編輯 ]

charlie2002

Great we have a group of very up to standard parents here I can't find any platform who can have such a good suggestions. We are all teacher of our kid as well so school has their difficulties but we have ours which I treat is above anything from our job or anything school teacher is facing. Anyone can pass through it but not over come it. So remember we have to resolve it but not just let it pass.
Never give up la.........Cheers

bignose

各位加油, 心心講得好好.

我都唔贊成體罰,
其實咁樣教唔到小朋友道理,
只會令自己eq盡失.

最緊要冷靜, eq要高.
當你好嬲時, 去窗邊大叫啦.

kongsou

bbdou,
亞仔咁勁,兩對腳仔傷曬都仲跑到.. 正百厭星! 佢前日話我知老師見佢小息已冇再跑,慢慢行奬左個貼紙比佢,佢好開心啊!老師咁做應該可以慢慢地鼓勵他,這樣才有愛心!開始對老師有返d信心! 佢近排返學時時同我講老師奬佢貼紙,我就時時同佢講,你吾做功課,冇貼紙架...佢就即刻話,咁我做!禽晚同佢温曬unit 1,佢識串曬d字,估吾到佢已識串咁多字!真係比我想像中進步了:)

kellyaugust2004
你同佢講要做曬功課,老師先奬貼紙,吾做要欠交,可能要留係學校做架!我有時同亞仔咁講,通常佢會即刻攞個書包出黎自己做曬d功課,佢做曬我會讚佢叻!佢會好開心架! 如你迫佢做,真係迫吾到幾多次,佢自己肯做會好好多,我禽晚都同亞仔講,如果你做曬功課打比媽咪,連續十日都咁叻,我就奬佢扭疍一次,咁我咪吾洗勞氣叫佢做功課囉!

bignose,
原來你好嬲時, 去窗邊大叫!吾怪豬得,我時時聽到人叫啦!嘰嘰! 係吖!有時佢哋好百厭,真係火都黎埋,我會入房冷靜一陣,出去再同佢講!我話你再百厭我就會罰你!(不過一定要攞埋籐條赫吓佢,佢通常都知驚!

心心,
你教仔方法又幾得喎,等我都試下先!我老公都係好火爆型黎架!男人大部份冇耐性!我有一次因為佢now同又打佢手仔,我忍吾住同佢嘈都試過啊!

心心

唉, 我有時都會失去EQ....教仔心得知易難行, 講就天下無敵, 記得EC INTERVIEW時問教仔, 哈, 開正我果飯, 我答得很完美, IN完好有信心果隻...

yinbb

好耐冇上黎同大家傾計, 見到你地講教仔問題, 自己都好想講出黎舒解下.

我都覺得教仔好難, 我成日同自己講唔好比壓力個仔, 但係有時候真係做唔到, 以前佢明明學過既野, 佢一唔記得或者做錯左, 自己就會好忟, 忟佢做乜咁冇記性, 忟佢嘥晒d時間要從新學過, 冇時間學新野. 會將佢之前應得既野, 反口唔比佢. 但係...見到個仔好傷心又唔敢反抗, 仲要話會做好d既時候, 我就會覺得自己好衰, 個心會好痛. 我都會嘗試學大家既方法, 一忟憎就行開一边或者做其它野分散心情, 我都唔想因為咁, 以影響到親子之間既感情

bbdou

各位,

如果識織頸巾的，都可以出一分力，又或者有冷但冇時間織的，可以俾我織：

http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?test=desc&tid=1740051&pid=27119587&page=1&extra=page%3D1#pid27119587

dorismama

好開心在你們的分享區見到你們分享教小朋友的心得, 聽到你地提起舊年的interview, 今年輪到我們了, 今個星期六便in, 可否分享吓校長會同大家談傾那方面的問題? 與校長會面時, 是單對單, 還是 in group呢?

原帖由 心心 於 08-9-30 11:37 發表
唉, 我有時都會失去EQ....教仔心得知易難行, 講就天下無敵, 記得EC INTERVIEW時問教仔, 哈, 開正我果飯, 我答得很完美, IN完好有信心果隻...

心心

我不是見校長, 是見老師, 無咩心得, 輕鬆面談, 問下你如果小朋友開學情緒唔好, 投訴學校不是會如何處理咁law

Kellyaugust2004

sumsum

thanks for your suggestions. i will try again . knowing God will give me strength . He will not give me sth too big that i can't candle.  just waiting the time my son gets better

原帖由 心心 於 08-9-30 09:32 發表
kellyaugust,
你同囡囡傾下, 開解下佢, 先從關心著手, 再和她訂1個好寶寶獎勵計劃, 儲幾多個印花換她心愛的東西, 激勵她, 亦要向她解釋下爸爸比較心急, 他其實好愛你, 煲大爸爸對她的愛, 話佢知爸爸昨晚靜靜雞同我講 ...

Kellyaugust2004

kongsou
heee.hope i can be stronger than my son. sometime, we've to deal with our husbands as well. really difficult.  really need more and more patient and wisdom.

原帖由 kongsou 於 08-9-30 10:59 發表
bbdou,
亞仔咁勁,兩對腳仔傷曬都仲跑到.. 正百厭星! 佢前日話我知老師見佢小息已冇再跑,慢慢行奬左個貼紙比佢,佢好開心啊!老師咁做應該可以慢慢地鼓勵他,這樣才有愛心!開始對老師有返d信心! 佢近排返學時時 ...

bbdou

求助

請問G.S. Penm.寫的五個生字：

Subject
Activities
Timetable
Pimetable (呢個應該係咩呢?)
Sports day

謝謝！

charlie2002

G.S. Penm
Subject
Activities
Timetable
Picnic
Sportsday

But my question is where to find out the G.S crossword game,etc...........??? Only an example can find on EC page??

原帖由 bbdou 於 08-10-1 10:07 發表
求助

請問G.S. Penm.寫的五個生字：

Subject
Activities
Timetable
Pimetable (呢個應該係咩呢?)
Sports day

謝謝！