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Today, I learnt a valuable lesson and want to share with all that facing adjustment problem.
My son started to cry when he got on the school bus after one-week lessons. At first I was patient to sooth him and tried my best to comfort him. But there was no improvement during these two weeks and my patience ran out when I knew that he was happy in class and he could adjusted very well in class. Why he was still crying when he got on the school-bus if he was enjoying the schoollife? I scolded him once and ordered him not to cry one day. He was suppressing his feeling the next day and burst into crying, saying " Mami, I can't help crying! I really don't want to cry and please pray for me!" On the same day, the caretaker of the school-bus called me and asked me to solve this "problem" quickly. I was a little bit angry with that caretaker and explained to her that my son, though with some adjustment problem, was obedient and behaved. He didn't refuse to get on the bus, he didn't refuse to go to school, he woke up in time and did everything good. The only thing is " He is trying to cope with his pressure by release his feeling, ie, crying. Oh! I suddenly understand what I have to do after I talked to her. Yesterday, I talked to my son, " Sorry, my son, I love you and I know you need time to cry. I'll let you cry until you don't want to!" He was very happy and gave me a hug. Today, he told me secretly that he didn't like the big-brothers in the school-bus as they were noisy and talked impolitely. He was scared by them. I showed understanding to him and pray with him together. He waved his hands with smile to me when he left with his school-bus today!
Nothing has changed today and the big-brothers continued to be noisy, my son changed because he got an understanding mother finally!
Let's accept and understand our sons as they are!
[ 本文章最後由 maxmm 於 07-9-19 00:15 編輯 ] |
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