好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

hinhinmummy

kakab105

我初初都係甘諗, 但係在論盡家傭果度, 有d媽咪話, 個僱主肯由underpaid加到正價比佢, 不一定代表佢好, 可能因為驚教過, 教到嘔血.

同埋穿耳窿 = 花'fit'
有手提電話 = 卦住講電話

好煩.

你係不係都換左工人? 交流下呀!

mamee

kakab105

好可能陸美媽已經答左你. 佢仔仔同我仔仔係同一間幼兒中心, 地點係灣仔.

mamee

kakab105

hinhinmummy

平心論 唔太好都一定唔差 比著你都唔會對住個好衰既 工人嘛!! 手提佢都應承比你都ok嘛 有冇得試工呀？ 睇下佢有冇心機同hinhin玩囉!!

mamee

icic 仔仔番得開心嘛？有冇校車呢？

mamee

kakab105

我個仔成日都咁開心架喎 所以佢返學都好開心架.
可能舊年仔仔開學時, 我留係學校既時間都好耐下. 所以都叫認識左啲老師, 嬸嬸(有一個形容為我仔仔個契媽), office個文職小姐. 主任都可以閒談兩句.

況且我好怪. 雖然我仔仔是讀緊兼收位, 但我從無希望學校裡面既training可以令我仔仔脫胎換骨, 因為每日大概得20-30min. 加上我唔駛返工, 上親私人training又係自己帶仔仔去上, 仔仔既情度去到邊, 其實我好清楚.
反而我最期望仔仔可以係學校裡面, 學到同小朋友相處(呢個先係現實世界), 改善耐性(因為學校做乜都要等/排隊). 至於學術上的事, 我自己會力谷=盡力教.

有校車
1) 學校辦. 好似在8:30同8:45, 會有一架旅遊巴從灣仔地鐵站出發, 直駛返學校.
2) 私人保母車. 應該會去到東區, 因為仔仔班中有一個兼收位同學住係太古城, 佢都係搭保母車返學.

ps 不過兩種我都未搭過. 我一直都係自已接送仔仔.

mamee

kakab105

mamee

我仲考慮梗係未排到服務前比亞仔番全日定半日!!  

hinhinmummy

kakab105

醫生同個st都suggested軒軒返全日, 因為可以學習自理, 同埋更多時間係學校學習群體生活, 如果遇著要上私人training, 咪早小小走law.

我都諗住搵佢試工.

mamee

kakab105

我仔仔間學校, N1好似都有半日返, 學費半日$1,300幾.
好似賣緊廣告咁

不過你唔係打算俾仔仔返SCC道暫托咩, 諗住兩面返?

mamee

wowoma

kakab105,

我仔仔 2year4個月,
不用4周,上堂時導師跟仔仔 玩玩具會留意到,&會即時叫妳留意,
  

kakab105

mamee  hinhinmummy
好亂呀我   知道全日好 但又怕有其他訓練 又有playgroup 又怕佢辛苦

scc 我搵到家陣都去得既 開始去托下先喇!!

wowoma
你個導師姓咩架 ？

陸美爸

kakab105~

剛才去咗湊仔...依家至覆你~

學校服務時間：
mon - fri (07:30 - 18:00)，延長時間 (18:00 - 20:00)
sat (07:30 - 13:00)，延長時間 (13:00 - 20:00)
sun & public holiday 休息

服務時間係咁寫，但通常九點前返都可以，因九點食早餐，而食完茶點玩多陣約四點就湊放學。
同mamee仔仔一樣，我仔仔返學都係好開心，依家佢響學校食嘢食得多過喺屋企添...初時我都驚仔仔好難適應，但老師好快就摸清佢性格喇......

你可以抽時間親自去參觀吓吖，我果陣同老公忽然講起，跟住就"中"咗上去睇，佢地一啲都唔介意，仲好詳細向我地講解及帶我地參觀......

陸美媽

kimbear

前兩日部腦short咗,要今晚才可留言

hinhinmummy,

我係今年3月初見社工的,9月初收到通知有位(早期訓練),地區是屯門,屯門人口老化,算是舊區,可能快d,協康”青蔥”就即刻有位,不用排,但混合位方面,我仔仔讀緊個間學校聽講2005年9月都無位,但我只選了這一間混合位,因為怕我個仔好難再適應第二間學校,現在讀了兩個月情緒叫做好d,之前真的覺得很辛苦,但”來”緊2,3月就會派位,吳知應吳應該選多兩間,好頭痛

妳話妳仔仔以前都吳望人,但都可以上ST堂,因我之前問過協康的幼兒導師,我仔可不可以做語言治療,佢話我仔仔不太肯望人,做不到,會’SIDE”錢咁話,叫我等仔仔肯望多D先至做,但聽妳咁講,或者 我係咪都可以試下呢?

陸美媽,

我就好羨慕妳個仔咁易揍,沒有脾氣,我個仔脾氣好差,我好多時都覺得好辛苦, 也曾出現過JOANNA 的念頭,希望明天會更好LA
  

hinhinmummy

kimbear

我個仔不嬲都肯望人, 不過小d, 同埋熟人law. 你試下將佢最心愛的玩具/食物, 放係你口唇邊, 一路講野, 要慢wor, 等佢知道你講mug野law.

同埋我見個st比d 面諳軒軒玩, 好似眼鏡甘架, 轉個制, 條眉會郁架, 我老公係太源街買左一個, 6元.  可以吸引佢望你對眼.

不過我個st不單些教佢講野, 教埋佢d專注力, 望人等, 所以我覺得佢又返左學之後, 佢的專注力同陌生人的眼神接觸好左好多, 我叫佢同樓下賣生果的姨姨bye bye, 佢都同人飛吻.

gigi2

From a lot of previous messages or PM, I find that my daugther’s problem in speech development is similar to justjust, hinhinmummy and mickey.  A special note I want to share with all of you for mutual encouragement and support.

Start with 2 recent weeks, I can see a light ahead for my girl’s speech development.  She seems to have the ‘explosion’ of her speaking Cantonese.  Every day she gives us some or little surprise about her expression.  We feel that she seems can find a suitable ‘motorbike’ for herself in order to hurry up with her delay in speech.  Those total 7 months in the past, our sweats; restless; tears and never give up spirit plus her own hard working seems to get a return recently.  

The reason of this message for sharing – I know my girl is older than all yours.  If I can see the light ahead, you all can be the same or already happened to your children!  Currently we are only in the waiting zone for their engines to start. This period for speeding their development is the most difficult time for our parents to go through.  Desperate, worry and lost direction but the most important for us to insist is Patience + Love.

Now I can only see the light but do not know when she will totally catch up to the same age or above levels.  However, at least I feel a bit relax than previously and be more confident to her future development.

Not only to the 3 parents but I would also like to encourage those who have just found or already have their children with some problems – do not give up as your children need your endless love and patience!  

p.s. This morning when my girl woke up, she smiled to us and said “Good morning, Daddy & Mummy!’  Suddenly she said ‘天主’ which made us feel excited.

Dommom

Dear Gigi2,

How old is your girl ?  My almost 3-year-old son is diagnoised as having Autistic Spectrum Disorder 4 months ago and I am wating for the day his engine starts !  He is at least one year behind in gross motor skill and speech.  Of course he is undergoing ST, but he is rather lazy to exercise.

gigi2

My girl is just 3 years + 3 months and she was firstly diagnosed by a paediatrican as autism-like but later diagnosed by a Child Psychologist after a week with speech delay.  No matter autism or speech delay, our care, love & patience will not be less to our children.

Hope that your boy will start his engine very soon but you have to prepare yourself that the period of waiting zone is not easy for your family & the child.  Also, do not put too much pressure on both of you and try to hand it over to our God.  Hard working & relaxing will be much helpful.

hinhinmummy

gigi2 and all mummy

my computer has problem need re-install.  Now I am using a notebook which is Engilish OS, Hope you can understading what I am said.

i and my husband now hesitate to change a new maid.  we worry
1. is hin hin feel unhappy with the change?
2. is a new one badly than a old one?
3. we need pay more agency fee + air ticket + tax (old one no need to pay tax)
4. she seem speak more yesterday after warning by the Agent.  At least in front of us, she speak more to hinhin.

but
1. we don't know how many days she can speak more

your comments please.

justjust

gigi2,

Very happy to hear the language explosion of your girl.  Sincerely hope she will keep it up.

Dear all,

I too would like to share with you our happiness as our girl put up a fantastic show yesterday.

Last night we were reading a book (What's the time, Mr. Wolf) together.  When we finished, she pulled up a stool and sat in the middle of the living room. She pretended that she was the teacher and called herself Becky (her teacher's name).  She announced it was time for storybook, and asked us to go upfront one by one to read a page of the book. (Papa, come here.)  She would say the time (e.g. 6 o'clock, 10 o'clock, etc.) and asked us what activity was to be done at that time.  When we were done, she asked us to go back. (Okay, go and sit down.)  Then she would call the next one, i.e. me.  When she was bored with just 2 students, she called the maid out of the kitchen, pulled up another chair for her and asked the maid to read the book too.

After that she asked us to stand up to sing a few songs together, and let us sit down when we finished.

We were really amused by this.  We believed she enjoyed her school life. And she shows more initiative to talk now.  Probably this is what Dommom says, getting the engine started.

Really the path is not always smooth.  I read a book saying that parents always have the misconception that development of children is like a straightline sloping upwards.  The more input, the more output.  Many of us don't realize that the line is more like a staircase.  It may go up very fast sometimes, it may remain flat sometimes.  Output and input aren't directly proportional.  I fully agree to this. I guess we just have to accept the facts and keep on nurturing our children with endless love, patience and care, ... hmm... as well as firm discipline.

justjust

kimbear,

I think speech therapy and training on eye contact can go in parallel.  Sometimes the activities of speech therapy can also help to improve eye contact.  You may ask more experts for second opinion.

justjust

hinhinmummy,

As you've already started looking for new helpers, why not compare the existing one with the new candidates, list out the strengths and weaknesses and prioritze them.

You may let the candidates play along with Hin Hin for an hour or so to see how they get along.  Really if your existing helper doesn't speak much, there couldn't be too much interaction between her and Hin Hin.

If the exiting one really improves and there are no new ones who are good enough, may as well observe for a couple more months to see how it goes.

Again, good luck.

hinhinmummy

justjust

congratulation! hope hinhin will doing like that in coming soon.

we have a interview with new maid on last Sunday.  She is 21 years one and during the interview, her attitude is suitable to looking after hin hin.  She always smile, and talkative.

She cannot have another appointment with me/hinhin,  she need go back home on next Monday.

Last Sunday, she try to play with hinhin, but hinhin sleepy,  he sleep after 15 minutes.

although she is talkative, but I worry she will only take with her friend but not hin hin at day time.

my hubsand said the I am so worry.

yes, being a mother, I of course so worry, worry, did he get cold, did he sleep well, did he eat enough.....so much so much.