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mcheung,

You really can tell what my mind is .......

Any good suggestion in helping my poor boy?

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 09:51 硐表
唔幫亞囝，我係要亞囝唔好依賴，要清楚知道自己要take自己責任.............不過，老實說，不是個個小朋友可以，我知囝囝緊張學校事及我地從小train佢唔依賴 ga，所以，妳地又不可一下子樣樣唔幫佢地，要佢地自己黎，係要時間train up及看性格

RoyceMa

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 09:51 硐表
唔幫亞囝，我係要亞囝唔好依賴，要清楚知道自己要take自己責任.............不過，老實說，不是個個小朋友可以，我知囝囝緊張學校事及我地從小train佢唔依賴 ga，所以，妳地又不可一下子樣樣唔幫佢地，要佢地自己黎，係要時間train up ...

Totally agree , 有時真係要睇自已囝囝的性格, 因才施教, 我相信你都用左好多心機同時間去train up你兩個囝囝. 佢地今日先可以自動波, 希望我囝囝在不久將來都可以自動波, 唔駛我勞氣.

大眼仔_媽咪

mcheung,

It's really marvelous! :D   How come your son could have such a big jump.  Please teach me!!

Last night, I told him to practice piano himself why I'm on the way to help him to take the WS.  Actually, he doesn't do anything and say that he could not do it (without me!).  He even threathened me that he would not learn any more (I puzzled if it's really true meaning from the bottom of his heart , I say 'yes' if it's really his decision and he cry for 'no').  The day before last night, he even cry on the bed for not being able to 'do good' on his piano.

I doesn't got time and energy (just like a 'ball' in leaking!) .......... Struggling with my boy is really too tired .............

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 09:41 硐表
自上小一，亞囝練琴自覺性高左 (so佢肯練over 1 hr)，甚至自我要求要高左，佢練琴練得唔理想，仲自己係度哭，叫佢take a break都唔肯...........之前，叫佢練琴簡直激c！

大眼仔_媽咪

mcheung,

Would you let me know the names of the books?

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 09:31 硐表
that's why亞囝的鋼琴老師要keep住比樂理"功課佢做，試過比得少亞囝做，佢個輪睇譜好慢！

RoyceMa

原文章由 大眼仔_媽咪 於 07-11-15 10:03 硐表
mcheung,

You really can tell what my mind is .......

Any good suggestion in helping my poor boy?

Don't , 小學才剛剛開始, 以後還有漫漫長路, 放心有我陪你, 因我囝囝都是這樣子. 我覺得最緊要我們的目標要清晰, 才可以幫到佢.
平時, 每晚我都會同佢講吓佢的責任, 希望慢慢佢會明白我地的苦心:D , 慢慢學習管理好自己的事.

大眼仔_媽咪

010,

010憂心的眼睛．．．．  我咪重慘 ......... 大眼仔_媽咪失落的眼睛........:cry:

講開朗誦 - 真抱歉仔仔未盡全力(可謂"沒出力"而巳!  )，愧對用心教他的老師 ！我其實只希望兒子凡事認真去面對，盡了全力，便不用想太多其它的........ 但...........

原文章由 010 於 07-11-15 09:08 硐表
今朝見到大眼仔媽
仔仔．mattew_ma & www 仔仔朗誦．．．
重有其他P1小朋友嫁，個個都好型仔啊！

大眼仔媽
唔好客氣，英華精神嘛
我只係諗若下學期無左網上手冊．．．
我地點算就真．．．．．
唔係唔知帶／做齊功課是小朋友的責任．．．．
但始終要記缺點．．．是一個遺憾．
好担心到時唔處理唔小心會傷及親子感情．．．．
010憂心的眼睛．．．．

[ 本文章最後由 大眼仔_媽咪 於 07-11-15 10:39 編輯 ]

mcheung

妳可考慮事件的嚴重性，如小事(後果不太嚴重)，咪唔好幫佢，等佢要負責承担後果，由承担後果方面train佢的責任感................事件大(後果嚴重)，of course會幫解决，但一定要佢知不是每件事父母可幫，就算可幫亦無義務要幫及要知後果如何！

另一suggestion，妳可set up獎賞scheme，如每天抄手冊or自己做齊功課，抄齊手冊or做齊功課有sticker，如有集齊某數量sticker，有野換！

我試過要train囝囝自我驗查功課及test，我係kindergarten功課，發現佢錯都任佢交(亞囝好緊張功課成績)，so依家佢知要自我驗查功課 or test的重要性！

原文章由 大眼仔_媽咪 於 07-11-15 10:03 硐表
mcheung,

You really can tell what my mind is .......

Any good suggestion in helping my poor boy?

大眼仔_媽咪

RoyceMa,

You case is better than me.  Coz, my son cannot sit down on the chair (just like there is 'pin'!)  Also, he only admire his piano teacher and act like expressing that 'Mother is not professional and hence he has no reason to 'hear'!)

The difference for your boy could 坐定定 at least .......

原文章由 RoyceMa 於 07-11-15 08:55 硐表
我囝囝都係咁樣, 如果我不在家, 叫佢練琴, 佢只會每首歌練二至三次就算啦, 一定要我在佢身邊先肯坐定定, 佢今個星期的新歌都係唔熟, 叫佢練多幾次就開始發脾氣

大眼仔_媽咪

mcheung,

其實你講的都全試過了........

就是他對所有他唔認為"合佢心水"的事情"當成絕緣體"，所以我才不知如何是好

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 10:30 硐表
妳可考慮事件的嚴重性，如小事(後果不太嚴重)，咪唔好幫佢，等佢要負責承担後果，由承担後果方面train佢的責任感................事件大(後果嚴重)，of course會幫解决，但一定要佢知不是每件事父母可幫，就算可幫亦無義務要幫及要知後果如何！

另一suggestion，妳可set up獎賞scheme，如每天抄手冊or自己做齊功課，抄齊手冊or做齊功課有sticker，如有集齊某數量sticker，有野換！

我試過要train囝囝自我驗查功課及test，我係kindergarten功課，發現佢錯都任佢交(亞囝好緊張功課成績)，so依家佢知要自我驗查功課 or test的重要性！

mcheung

之前亞囝用(made easy series)"幼兒樂理練習"($40/本)，現做緊"我愛樂理1"(pls visit the following web-site)，但就做完本1，再開係"我愛樂理2"，係雙語中英對照(Tom Lee有售)，另老師再加worksheet、or琴書內抽首歌要佢寫音符(但一定唔係彈緊的曲，費事佢唔睇譜)

http://www.loklam.com/mbooklb/mfstheoryb.htm

原文章由 大眼仔_媽咪 於 07-11-15 10:13 硐表
mcheung,

Would you let me know the names of the books?

[ 本文章最後由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 10:52 編輯 ]

mcheung

我都不知佢自己如何"開僥".........

原文章由 大眼仔_媽咪 於 07-11-15 10:12 硐表
mcheung,

It's really marvelous! :D   How come your son could have such a big jump.  Please teach me!!

Last night, I told him to practice piano himself why I'm on the way to help him  ...

sneezy

010,

pls check email:-|

大眼仔_媽咪

mcheung,

Yes, exactly the wording "開僥" both myself and her piano teacher looking for ........

Please help to interview your son and tell me the secrets at the angle of a small boy .......  I guess it might be of great help to me ........ And, interesting, of course!!

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 10:50 硐表
我都不知佢自己如何"開僥".........

mcheung

我都想知佢點"開僥"，自上小一，頭一月我同hb好勞氣同佢爭鬥，但佢自10月開始變................昨晚，佢私人PTH老師，都讚佢呢個月pick的課程好快，連帶小弟的PTH都進步不少，因此，我獎佢食mango，佢開心到不得了

等我Fri ngiht同佢慢談一下先........

原文章由 大眼仔_媽咪 於 07-11-15 11:11 硐表
mcheung,

Yes, exactly the wording "開僥" both myself and her piano teacher looking for ........

Please help to interview your son and tell me the secrets at the angle of a small boy .......  I guess ...

RoyceMa

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 11:36 硐表
我都想知佢點"開僥"，自上小一，頭一月我同hb好勞氣同佢爭鬥，但佢自10月開始變................昨晚，佢私人PTH老師，都讚佢呢個月pick的課程好快，連帶小弟的PTH都進步不少，因此，我獎佢食mango，佢開心到不得了

等我Fri ngiht ...

咁你同你ｈｂ　 得杯落啦 ！

mcheung

唉！有第2樣煩呢.............比新黎maid快激c la

原文章由 RoyceMa 於 07-11-15 11:45 硐表


咁你同你ｈｂ　 得杯落啦 ！

mcheung

咁靜ga，去曬陪囝温書呀？？.............我亞囝做緊ws，我就take a break

大眼仔_媽咪

Please update me then ........

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 11:36 硐表
我都想知佢點"開僥"，自上小一，頭一月我同hb好勞氣同佢爭鬥，但佢自10月開始變................昨晚，佢私人PTH老師，都讚佢呢個月pick的課程好快，連帶小弟的PTH都進步不少，因此，我獎佢食mango，佢開心到不得了

等我Fri ngiht同佢慢談一下先........

大眼仔_媽咪

Still in the office to struggle ........

原文章由 mcheung 於 07-11-15 15:48 硐表
咁靜ga，去曬陪囝温書呀？？.............我亞囝做緊ws，我就take a break

mcheung

仲唔快d放工，回家同囝温書 la.........

原文章由 大眼仔_媽咪 於 07-11-15 18:22 硐表
Still in the office to struggle ........