男仔到幾年級至有搭圾有條理?

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我兩位大少就同Charlotte_mom 兩位一樣 !!! 細b細心好多 (不過有其他的缺點)

Charlotte_mom 寫道:
我唸或多或少同天生性格有關
我位大小姐, 又係粗枝大葉, 事事都要三催四請, 攪到我咩儀態都無
而細佬呢, 自動自覺好有手尾, meet尾糖, 先跑去掉糖紙至放粒糖入口.......
無理由架, 我都一樣咁教姐...........

ccmeow

Teresa,

自從同阿仔返學校找失物就發現好多小朋友都係咁~ 校公話個個月都掉幾個水壺~ 有次游水漏左游水鏡, 第二朝係泳池門口一大個膠盒, 裏面衫,鞋,毛巾,游水鏡... 乜都有  

阿仔半年都己經唔見左一個水壺, 二副眼鏡, 一件背心, pencils & rubber.
唔見左又找到架有水壺,鞋&游水鏡.
有次著錯左一隻同學架sock, 有次又拎多左條Tie返黎  

pak_sang

You make me feel better because I think my son is "normal" . 天下烏鴉一樣黑。 大家努力。

Teresa

ccmeow 寫道:
Teresa,

自從同阿仔返學校找失物就發現好多小朋友都係咁~ 校公話個個月都掉幾個水壺~ 有次游水漏左游水鏡, 第二朝係泳池門口一大個膠盒, 裏面衫,鞋,毛巾,游水鏡... 乜都有  

阿仔半年都己經唔見左一個水壺, 二副眼鏡, 一件背心, pencils & rubber.
唔見左又找到架有水壺,鞋&游水鏡.
有次著錯左一隻同學架sock, 有次又拎多左條Tie返黎  

    

我仔既PE衫褲有哂名, so far未試過唔見.  不過佢試過拎左同學件衫返屋企, 工人又唔理, 洗埋摺衫既時候至發現多左件...

水壺, octopus card, umbrella, student card, lib card 都試過唔見.  我都唔知點train佢好.  日日都教佢要文具齊備至開工做野, 紙張要放哂o係folder, 書要大還大, 細還細放o係書包....  仲有, 冬天既sweater著3個月已經穿左窿 (我買貴野比佢架..), 對鞋一個學期就要換.

佢二年級喇, 我都比左年幾既allowance佢喇... 仲係咁!

ccmeow

琴日又唔見左ruler~

d野有哂名冇用架, 學校只會放校務處等小朋友去拎返... 有時去校務處都冇~

前排唔見左背心, 新的背心

sai1031

ccmeow :

半個學期已經好好,我大囝,上中學第一年著爛三對黑鞋,(不是因不合size)而買.

hjm

Wow, I believe all here are still lower Primary boys, right?  Mine is P5 and all of these still happen!!!!  Just realized he forgot his swimming pants from last Friday's lesson, only knew it now before he needs to go again!

himmamme

When you see the way his daddy doing, you will not complain anymore.   

wo3wo2wo1

我唸lee d野都係天生
我個仔好珍惜佢d野
so 唔會唔見
可能我平時成日講我冇$
一定要"閒"喔

aachan2250

各位媽媽留言,好有同感! 阿仔朝朝早"箭猪頭"返學,梳呀頭,阿仔,佢話:使咩梳啫! ,鞋帶都會唔見,我同佢說:好高難度喔!參加田徑,條長度都唔見埋,無奈!   

bigbigboy

這是家庭教育與模仿家庭成員行為, 與讀幾多年級的關係不大.

aachan2250

唔贊成bigbigboy的說法, 我家人都係愛惜物品的人,我反而覺的性格問題.

faxfax

哈哈, 原來我果個係正常既    
食飯都好恐怖架
天地各一半
好彩返半日唔駛學校食飯姐

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小一都已經開始有條理...

ALAL

if you ask the specialist, they would tell you this is result of immature brain development - in memory, attention and planning. We should continuously give reminder, praise and penalty to foster this ability of our kids. Though i am quite believe on this view, but i cannot control my self in angry with my son.

hjm

It's really "born", probably 70% and can be trained up 30%.  My no. 2 boy is K3 but he can always remembers what the teacher has said, or what to bring to school.  Totally opposite to my no. 1 boy.

大眼仔mama

我個仔都五年班, 我和老公都要時常提佢這樣那樣, 因為佢時常忘記自己既"財產". 所以我一定要買定好多後備文具. 但佢有時太離譜, 例如幾天前才比完件新擦膠, 今日又話無左, 我就要佢負責任 (即係開錢箱比錢買). 前一排佢係學校唔見左件外套, 我要佢付一半錢買回新的. 一提到要佢比錢, 佢就喊到豬頭咁 (佢平日一毛不拔ga). 阿仔平日成績好會有獎賞, 加上多年的利是錢, 佢有大把錢. 既然有獎, 當然有罰. 自從上年開始要佢在不合理情況下唔見野要自負後, 佢就小心左d, 一唔見野就立刻四圍搵, 但當然也會keep住唔見下野.

其實, 我在這兩年都不停鼓勵佢自己處理自己既事, 所以佢做到少少我已經會勁讚佢, 等佢有成功感. 因為我同阿仔講好可能佢讀中學後便不再請bun bun, 改為請鐘點. 在Christmas時因為bun bun返家鄉, 所以我就趁機train佢. 阿仔都幾抵讚, 無bun bun的兩個半星期, 佢就自己每天"汁"床舖, d dirty clothes 會放入洗衣袋 (平日隨處掉在地上), 隔天vacuum, 食完東西既餐具放入sink盆, 總之佢能力範圍做到的佢都會做, 因為我同佢講佢唔做即係叫我做, 如果想媽咪辛苦d你就唔好做la......(哈哈, 證明阿仔都好錫阿媽) 其實, 佢都五年級, 真係唔train唔得, 因為上到中學無手冊, 到時好多野想幫佢跟都無得跟.

不過, 我無諗過阿仔會好有條理, 因為佢天生係大情大性人, 同佢老豆一樣, 係Mr求其. 話說會頭, 太過有條理整潔既男人都幾得人驚. 就係d男人乜都求其我地d女人先有機會話佢, 同時顯出一頭家要有個女人既價值ma. 所以, 不是太過份的, 由佢地d大小男丁做Mr求其la.

mayc

我都唔贊成bigbigboy講,如果家庭成員都一樣,跟本唔會勞氣,因為他(家長)一定唔覺得有問題,好似我家姐,佢兩公婆同個女都一樣甘亂,佢都覺得OK!只是我這個阿姨去到佢屋企會忍唔住同佢個女整理書枱,你地話攪唔攪野!

我個仔9歲,都是好勞氣,去厠所會唔記得沖厠,唔記得洗手,唔記得刷牙,唔記得還書........ :evil:

C.Chiu

I agree with  大眼仔mama.  My son is now in P5 and he was the same as other children.  But now, he's better.  Actually, he is improving every year although it is not very obvious.  We should give them more encouragement and praise them every time for their improvement.

As we know it is very common on children especially for youngester.  Parents should with more patient on their behaviour.  We need to praise them even with very little improvement in order to stregthen their good action.  In addition, I highly agree with 大眼仔mama that we should give the responsibilities to the children, e.g. ask them to pay partly or full if they lost anything, etc.  Therefore, they may think carefully before any action, otherwise they'll suffer themselves.

Keep On!

Ivy124

如果好似bigbigboy咁講...咁我地日日放工返到屋企咪唔見晒d手袋..錢..電話...等等,有無可能呀..咁已經証明唔係有樣學樣啦~~

mayc 寫道:
我都唔贊成bigbigboy講,如果家庭成員都一樣,跟本唔會勞氣,因為他(家長)一定唔覺得有問題,好似我家姐,佢兩公婆同個女都一樣甘亂,佢都覺得OK!只是我這個阿姨去到佢屋企會忍唔住同佢個女整理書枱,你地話攪唔攪野!

我個仔9歲,都是好勞氣,去厠所會唔記得沖厠,唔記得洗手,唔記得刷牙,唔記得還書........ :evil: