放棄學位

kennischow

"我看到有一位小朋友企在課室外, 頭上頂著一本書, 當時我心想小朋友是否在玩耍, 過了一會, 我看見有一位老師跟他說話, 小朋友低下頭, 一副很不開心的樣子"

其實每個小朋友都有唔聽話的時候,做老師的可以話佢,罰佢,但一定要顧及小朋友的尊嚴,所謂"人要面,樹要皮!",攪到小朋友無晒尊嚴咪仲難教!
      

LLT

Personally, I have no objection to any form of disciplines or punishments to be used by a school.  However, I do not consider it appropriate to use such humiliating form of punishment like, in the present case, ordering a student to stand still in front of public with book on his/her head (unless s/he is attending a model training course at that time  )

If a student has done something really naughty, the school should invite the parents to have an interview and give the serious warning that his/her/their kid will be expelled if s/he does it again the next time (like my own experience in my primary school N years ago    )  If such unacceptable behaviour occurs again, then the student should be expelled as warned!   

LLT

Oh stjoboldboy,

Where is your good friend daydream , I miss 'her' so much!

2emum

唔認同!
如果係經常唔交功課, 可以罰小息人人去玩時, 補做番. 甚至同家長商量, 放學後留校補做. 如果係上堂時罰出課室外企, 佢咪仲唔知上堂做乜.
如果係上課時有攻擊性行為或嚴重影響上堂秩序, 又得一個老師, 我接受老師罰企, 但唔應該放本書係頭上.

"由 老狐狸 於 2006-10-24 14:47:42

For example, if the students didn't hand-in homework for 5 times within a week, will you accept this kind of punishment ? or the same punishment without a book on the head?"

LLT

stjoboldboy 寫道:

What are you talking about, are you nuts?

No, course I'm not

Though you deny of 'knowing' daydream, my new idol, I must admit that I fully agree with your view here     

hjm

Many parents have various views on this topic....my other son is in tradtional school and even they do not use such a way of "punishment".  That's why I said my expectation is at least something more "human" and constructive rather than humiliating.  Well of course without knowing all the facts it may still be unfair to "blame" the school.   But this is disturbing seeing the "20 marks" unobtained.  

2emum

現時好多官, 津, 直資, 私校都話自己係"活動教學", 其實係檯活動, 唔係教法活動.

Pulmma 寫道:
...不過如果以你們所說, 這樣罰小朋友就真係有點兒那過!
上年佢第一年收生, 我都陪過我的best friend 去聽過簡介會, 或者佢地冇預過咁多人來, 才會失當呢?有時都要替人想下, 不過記得簡介會校長說過, 學校會是活動教學的, 但係我看過浸小的topic時, 己經有家長提及過有默書了, 只是開學2個月就要默書?

睡覺

那些侮辱性的懲罰都是老師很生氣，用以發洩其憤怒及懲戒學生罷了。
根本不是教導。

以前讀間中學，學生的校服或髮型如果不合乎規格，例如男生校服褲闊左d，咁就會企上台在全校面前示眾。

雖然學生違規係唔arm，但我見到示眾的三個男女學生，站在台上頭dupdup咁，我在台下個心都好難受，故意唔眼定定咁望住佢地。 :cry:(事實我見佢地的打扮都唔係好離譜)

個人感受﹕
個人對於單是 當眾 罰站 係非常有保留的(當然有些臉皮厚的un皮仔無得好講)。
我覺得只係老師無空間和時間去處理那個違規的孩子，用的最快捷方面的懲罰罷了。並不是教育.....
用孩子自尊來換取他聽話，只是對自尊心的孩子"見效"而已，傷害到的亦只是那些自尊心強的孩子而已。 :-|

mothershares

//及後, 我寫了一封電子郵件給校長查詢為什麼要用一個如此令人的羞辱方法罰小朋友, 但得到的是一個很有趣的答覆, 校長說, 可能是我看錯, 又可能小朋友用一個他認為很有趣的方法去拿起他的書本//


整個過程最大問題是那校長之輕挑態度．此人是學校之領導人呀．上樑不正．

另外就是要家長面試，1st in, 2nd in...., 整色整水．煲到間學校好勁咁．辦教育是用心辦，不是用綽頭.

老狐狸

睡覺 wrote,
以前讀間中學，學生的校服或髮型如果不合乎規格，例如男生校服褲闊左d，咁就會企上台在全校面前示眾。

溫拿年代!   

LLT

daydream 寫道:
If the kid doesn't behave properly during the class, e.g. chatting with others at improper time, not following class rules or instructions, or even have a small fight with others,... etc., the kid may be requested to stand at the back/side of the classroom or even outside the classroom for a few minutes. The teacher will emphasize on the purpose of letting the kid to "time-out" and think about what the kid has done rather than as a kind of punishment.  Of course, no book on the head, no poster being hung in front of the kid or any kinds of psychological or physical punishment to humiliate the kid.

For those cases that a kid always forgets to do homework or always forgets to bring back anything.. etc., the teacher also will not punish the kid in front of others but just write down the fact at the communication book to ask the parent to handle the situation.

Oh daydream, it's good to see you again!

While serious discussion between parents is going on, we have to have short break and relaxation.  Some slight refreshment is needed

This is one of the rare occasions in which I share the same view  with you (as quoted above).  Are you happy with that? :

Oh, by the way, thank you in advance for the money that you are going to put into my pocket.  Don't worry, I won't inform the ICAC about that