反叛期？

onon23

不是嘛，影貼紙相使不使瞒啊？亞女好多時與同學一起影哦，我或其他同學家長都會陪她們一起去，最常去的的沙田新城市廣場樓下新幹線最角落一間，有時我在門口等她們，不過有一個問題擔心，如果火警不知那間店舖該如何走火警哦，呵呵！暫時亞女都不算反叛，只是有時比較固執而矣！

丸媽媽

ABCD媽咪 寫道:
我成日覺得...講大話係最唔要得
岩岩早幾日亞b女去做project..
路途中同d同學影左貼紙相
唉...點解要瞞呢?
我又唔會反對的...我也了解小六last year
同學間想影相呀
坦白咪好囉
洗乜講十個大話去瞞一個無聊的大話

發現仔女講大話有時真係好滾,但亦需要反思'大話'背後既因果關係
仔女o既大話其實反映與父母之間響某方面仍未達到開放局面。
事實上,人與人之間相處,相信都幾難完全冇大話

stellalee

HPChingchingma 及各位媽咪>>

我從2個女的經驗嘩比我知，六年班是他們最唔瀉得大家的時候，大家有可能唔會同一間中學，所以心裡有嘜就講出來。因起碼大家同班都有2年，有d甚至仲唔至2年。
前排有報紙報道，現在細老早熟，拍拖年齡降到小學4年級開始。我大女六年級果年，都講有同學拍拖，我細女就無聽佢講，但佢地d記念冊裹面就有寫嘜嘜......咁，其實大家都知道佢地係荳芽夢........亦是正常。但就要我地灌輸d正確思想比佢地。仲有我大女嘩，依家d學生興暗戀，因佢地知道父母唔會比佢地拍拖。我都有看過不同中學的學生網上日記
都略知他們的內心世界，所以依家d父母若想知道仔女多d內心世界真係要同佢地多溝通和向他們學習佢地d野。
好似我就係一個例子，我大女以前係用email來傳送文件的，後來我大女要求我比佢開MSN，我唔知嘜野黎，我叫佢等我了解係嘜野黎先，後來我發現在傳送方面係快好多，同埋都係識的同學黎的，唔似ICQ咁公開的，後來又問我比佢開網上日記，我了解之後又覺得幾好，佢地可以將佢地唔開心、開心的事寫出來，我女比我睇佢d野(包括MSN或網上日記等等)我女嘩網上日記係預左公開比人睇，如好多明星都有寫網上日記，都係比人睇啦！唔想比人睇就Private佢就得啦。我就係咁樣知道佢d同學係點，現時d學生係點囉。甚至連中五、中七會考生、大學生的情況。其實依家有好多老師都用MSN和網上日記同同學聯系感情的。因網上日記可以比意見，比鼓勵寫日記的人。

ABCD媽咪

onon23
咪係囉...我也帶她們去影啦...
所以真係激水

丸媽咪
囡囡係話怕唔比...就唔講

stella
岩岩考完第3次呢個報分試
亞女就開始有電腦用..也係成日msn呀
寫網上日記呀...((成日迫人睇))

CCM

Hi Mummies

Same stuff as my girl - stubborn, with own opinions; arguments, insisting on her "rights"; on the phone all the time; MSN/Web surfing.

I have to learn about 183club, Janice, Soler etc in order to talk at level with her!    It's like reliving my teenage years now !

And then, I have to switch to football/swimming etc -World Cup now, so that I can be on par with my son!

Gee!  Sometimes, I wonder if I should be a girl or a boy!?!?!  

    

WYmom

CCM,

Yes, it is really interesting as mom when we have to "grow up" together with our kids, especially in their teenages, it reminds me of my teen years.  In fact, I remembered that I was very rebellious in my secondary school years and had very bad relationship with my mom!

So now I will try to be more tolerant and relax with the behaviour of my girl, read those teens books together with her for discussion, and even tell her my own experiences at teenages.  It is quite enjoyable and I also feel much younger mentally! :

CindyQQ

我個仔超反判,唔只駁我咀,仲駁老師咀,態度又差,我勸又勸過,駡又駡過,整天比老師罰,但有時你又會看見佢已努力去改,但轉頭又嚟過.
請問有冇家長可教教我呢?
真係好煩.

HPChingchingma

ABCD媽咪 寫道:
程媽
男仔就o甘影下相就ok
女仔要影果d瘦瘦美白功能果d貼紙相

ABCDMA>>

吓 !!
有瘦瘦美白功能果d貼紙相 , 真係唔知  


丸媽媽 >>
是否跟亞仔有很多野講 ??
我由佢小一己很多 , 單關於球場上已很多呀 ,
所以真係一個親子的運動.
你要慢慢受用.

HPChingchingma

CCM 寫道:
Hi Mummies

Same stuff as my girl - stubborn, with own opinions; arguments, insisting on her "rights"; on the phone all the time; MSN/Web surfing.

I have to learn about 183club, Janice, Soler etc in order to talk at level with her!    It's like reliving my teenage years now !

And then, I have to switch to football/swimming etc -World Cup now, so that I can be on par with my son!

Gee!  Sometimes, I wonder if I should be a girl or a boy!?!?!  

    

我都係咁上下好好努力學習呀 !
但係, 現在的歌手的歌, 唔知點解聽極都唔入腦 ,

高鈴

我個女又係六年級.

但她又未有反叛的現象,我反而覺得佢有D低B.
好似佢最喜歡教佢英文和中文的兩位老師. 見到佢兩個, 好似小FANS 見到偶像一樣,尤是在小息,放學,上學途中時,開心到不得了.  但見到又只是打完招呼後,便很shy不敢傾談.
放學後又用sketch book 畫下老師當天穿的服裝.
放假時又超勁想返學校見到老師.

我告訴她將來暗戀人時, 也是同樣feel 的
  

ABCD媽咪

程媽
哈哈..下次帶你囡囡去試下
又打燈...鏡頭點擺也有得選呀
我有次入去...差d連錢也唔識入..

各daddy,媽咪
有無覺得
佢地會認為同學的說話才是對的

HPChingchingma

ABCD媽咪 寫道:
程媽
哈哈..下次帶你囡囡去試下
又打燈...鏡頭點擺也有得選呀
我有次入去...差d連錢也唔識入..

各daddy,媽咪
有無覺得
佢地會認為同學的說話才是對的

喂.......喂 ............

我個件係亞仔呀      

佢地會認為同學的說話才是對的------直情係      

第一志願都要跟人一樣 ............


高鈴 >>
亞仔都對一位 miss 都好 ( 特別 ). 係呢位 miss 負責的課外活動都會參加.

ABCD媽咪

程媽
你忘了你也有一個女架??
哈哈...唔好只掛住個仔啦

CCM

WYmom

While I listen to Soler/Janice etc, I also try the "golden oldies" on the kids!   Frankly, those old songs are so much better-soudning.....  

I was also a "trouble teenager" in my years and shared those experiences with my kids.  But I think my girl feels that I am TOO naggy.   

HPChingchingma

abcdma>>

係喎    
我真抵打    

多謝當頭棒喝, 要早部署 <與女並進 >   

咪咁傻啦

Floppy

呢個Topic真系好, 我女須然只系小四，早D入 o黎學下野, 到呀女第日真係"反"起上o黎, 我都唔會措手不及

cmancman

我個女又無去影貼紙相呀...淨係勁聽日文歌...我想參與下都唔得,我一聽到就覺好煩,又唔覺好聽... 佢既最太興趣係整網頁,整圖...我又唔識,都唔知點先可以同佢一齊活動,佢又唔肯同我去街...

yammyma

我囡囡都係小六,開始都有博咀既時候,而家晚晚陪完仔仔瞓,就要陪囡,會同佢傾下學校d野,有時傾傾下會鬧起交,都好火滾,但都要keep住同佢傾,想多d知佢既學校生活,有時佢講d同學仔邊個暗戀邊個好好笑架.

ABCD媽咪

Floppy
其實我覺得呢到係我地訴苦專區
哈哈哈