不如講吓點解要入名校小學

judy

長家唔夠膽咩都唔比，但唔知點解舊生就唔使叫都比，

麟媽媽,

Good point, 阿大開學，按例校長見見家長，校長講完(未完曬)，又循例叫家長捐錢，全堂大笑，因大家都expect校長一定咁講。校長笑笑:你一定係想我捐完錢，學校之建設都未必使係我女身上啦，但你有冇諗到，你嗰女，將来都可能有女啦，全場鼓掌！

真的，教育是極其重要的事，我想，花錢於教育，起碼造福两代，首先，你的仔女，你的仔女受到良好之教育，將来，你的孫仔就有好爸爸，好妈媽。好像你一樣，太公供嫲嫲入大學，你爸爸受益，然後你，還有麟仔，麟仔的仔女...

你話啦，花錢於教育，幾值得。

phoebe-lily

Famous schools have better academic standard, enviornment, moral education, learning atmosphere. Most important is that famous schools normally have long history, they have actual result /prizes etc to prove its success. All these reputation give confidence to the parents to let their kids to study.
Especially when school life wil affect them the most since they spend most of their time in school.


**名校收了，有的要學費，有的要堂費，有的要水仙花費*

Really need to pay for the flower fee. Which school ??

navigator

能夠入讀一所名校，從長遠來看，子女的將來似乎從模糊也能看到一丁兒的清析。香港的名校，大部份並非浪得虛名，的確有一定程度上的保証；教導出來的學生很多都不錯，因此成功入讀本地大學的機會也看高一線。子女能夠得到此優勢，作為家長的當然覺得欣慰。希望自己的子女將來能夠出人頭地，對社會有所作為/貢獻，有名有利，生活幸福..... 這也是絕大部份作為家長的正常想法，此外，子女將來能夠最終成功，作為父母，不論是有意或無意的，也可分享其光彩，這也沒有甚麼不妥當。俗語一命二運三風水四讀書五積恩德之中最實在而為的也就是『讀書』。香港正不斷地轉營為知識型的社會，如要將來生活有保障，唯有『讀書』，『讀書』！入讀一所名校，這也要取決於兩大因素：第一，作為家長究竟在能力/財力上能否配合？假如要把自已搞到太委屈方可免強進行，算 了吧！第二，子女究竟在能力/喜好上能否配合？否則，最好也算 了吧！反正入讀一所名校也不是唯一使子女走向成功之道。假如有心，總有辦法的，天無絕人之路嘛！最後一提是：家長希望子女能夠入讀一所名校，態度正確；但籍此用作為一種來炫耀自已的工具就太不恰當了！因為子女距離將來的『成功』時間還尚早呢，更何況天外有天，人外有人，世事也難料.... 做人還是謙虛點好！

麟媽媽

The fact of kids being good in their studies within the famous schools could be due to the parents' extra efforts instead of the teachers'.
- 有可能

The learning atmosphere could become a competitive environment as well when students become selfish and refuse to share information. Maybe not so apparent in primary schools but maybe in secondary?
- 小學應該唔會。琴日個仔派左中文(二)，成績比之前進步了。佢好開心話兩個好朋友(都是班長>>都是勁人)，跟他說你進步了，再努力下次再好D！我個仔不知幾開心！我從中見到孩子的「真、善、美」。愛比較、沒了這美德的多是家長，不是孩子。

Hearsay - there are parents who go to the school actually take exams/test papers from kids' bags to compare marks if they couldn't get information directly.
- 有架！我叫過個仔有大人問你唔好答架，呢D都係家長問題。



總括都是家長有問題多DD囉。   

judy

navigator,

用八個字概括你段文字，是不是:<名校雖好，量力而為>。

我將量力，改為盡力，又如何呢？

KatieM1203

麟媽媽 寫道:
長家唔夠膽咩都唔比，
但唔知點解舊生就唔使叫都比，
名校總有點魔法令入讀者「生屎相隨」….

very true ...  

bk2005

CCM 寫道:
bk2005

Strictly for discussion purposes - no malice intended:

The fact of kids being good in their studies within the famous schools could be due to the parents' extra efforts instead of the teachers'.

The learning atmosphere could become a competitive environment as well when students become selfish and refuse to share information.  Maybe not so apparent in primary schools but maybe in secondary?

Hearsay - there are parents who go to the school actually take exams/test papers from kids' bags to compare marks if they couldn't get information directly.        

Two sides to a coin for every matter.

Thank you for sharing your opinions and I agree your opinions in certain extent. Most preparation of lession and revision are actually done by the parents themselves. However, there is movtivation from teachers and good influence from peers. Competition is good provided that it is fair. (Athlete always break the record only when there is keen competition.)

navigator

judy 寫道:
navigator,

用八個字概括你段文字，是不是:<名校雖好，量力而為>。

我將量力，改為盡力，又如何呢？

Judy,

果然是大師姊！改得好！佩服！

judy

wunma，

中學唔使講啦，小學都係。阿大小學時，學校有咩表演活動，啲同學仔就自己埋班(有導演、編劇等)，度一的表演項目出来，表演俾先生睇，俾老師選，由老師决定邊隊可以表演，呢啲嘢，對学生之成長真係好好。

judy

果然是大師姊！改得好！佩服！

千萬唔好咁講，呢度好多前輩，實俾   

Lovelymama2006

<名校雖好，量力而為>



佩服！佩服！

HuiTung

navigator 寫道:
最後一提是：家長希望子女能夠入讀一所名校，態度正確；但籍此用作為一種來炫耀自已的工具就太不恰當了！因為子女距離將來的『成功』時間還尚早呢，更何況天外有天，人外有人，世事也難料.... 做人還是謙虛點好！

          

bk2005

<名校雖好，量力而為> Agreed!

It is a pity that some parents are not willing to face the fact that their children are only in average standard. They force  their children to admit the famous school.

On the other hand, there are marginal famous schools which  give so much homework to their students, who are only in average standard, to train up the students in order to maintain the so-called famous school.

CCM

家長希望子女能夠入讀一所名校，態度正確；但籍此用作為一種來炫耀自已的工具就太不恰當了

Hear! Hear!       

CCM

bk2005

Agree - Fair competition is healthy but unfortunately sometimes it evolves into ugly incidents (eg. drug usage).

I just hope that my kids go and enjoy their schools to the utmost.  Famous or not famous - it doesn't matter as a man's meat is another's poison!

    

fatping1

To establish a strong foundation for further development in future... still way to go after primary...

名校小學係信心保證 ...    

fionwong2707

何為名校, 不如做個"香港十大名校選舉",其實香港啲學生, 不在名校就的都要閒閒地捱六年日做夜做功課, 三五七樣課外活動及補習班 ,根本就是現在家長, 你行前一步,我要行快你三步, 無計, 鬼叫現在家庭, 一個起, 二個止. 都是我們童年快樂些   

G-Ma

贊成, 量力而為, 如果小朋友未到果個LEVEL又何必夾硬嚟呢.  讀名校真係咁重要?

Lovelymama2006 寫道:
<名校雖好，量力而為>



佩服！佩服！

mansdom

bk2005 寫道:
<名校雖好，量力而為> Agreed!

It is a pity that some parents are not willing to face the fact that their children are only in average standard. They force  their children to admit the famous school.

On the other hand, there are marginal famous schools which  give so much homework to their students, who are only in average standard, to train up the students in order to maintain the so-called famous school.

Totally agreed
I know from my friend of DPSPD that a P.1 parent always made use of every open occasion by lodging complaints against the workload of homework and the level of teaching to Headteacher.

I doubt why didn't he think in depth about his kid’s ability, character etc. before making arrangement for getting him into this school?   

Is it useful now to just keep grumbling at the school administration?   

Is it good to the kid’s confidence if he came to know that his parent had always made use of every opportunity to request the school to lower the standard so as to suit his ability?   

Is it fair to those parents who favor the present mode of school teaching and believe his kids' ability but fail in getting into the school because the seat was occupied by him?   


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