Very sad, my daughter always fails!

honeybbb

大部份父母都會覺得自己子女係醒既, 即使知道仔女未必係最聰明個批, 但都會比機會佢去試考學校, 難道連一個機會都唔比就認定仔女係唔得既 [quote]
st.bintai 寫道:
有一次係一間食館聽到一個 k3 (度) 既小朋友同父母既對話 :

父 : 好耐冇同你去 mcdon.. 食野, 今期換 9 9
女 : 唔食喇
父 : (奇怪 !?) 點解呀 ?
女 : 我 xxxxxxx   (好直接, 冇停係到諗)
父 : (係咁笑) 咁就乖

Boris

elegant,

Don't be sad.

We should already know that smart guys/gals will be accepted by most good schools and occupy a place in each school whereas those guys/gals who are less smart will get no place in all schools.  Smart kids will have many offers to choose from and those less smart will have to wait for the smarter kids to give up their places to even have a chance.  That's life.

MayFair

ELEGANT:
我絕對唔會話一個考唔到比較出名學校的小朋友 LESS SMART. 因緣際會罷了. 最緊要係你對女兒的信心, 她現在說話只是無咁OUTSPOKEN, 唔好多心啦.   

jeffreymom

agree agree agree...... cheer up, parents of children who cannot get a seat of the 'famous' schools.

LV77

          

LV77

為未能在" 名校 " 取的一個位之辛勞家長飲杯 !!!
(我係其中既一個) !


明天會更好 !!!!!         

mamamolly

Don't be sad and don't put pressure on your kid.  It's not her who fail and it's definitely not the case that she is not smart enough.

As I know, most of these "famous" schools are not choosing the kids but are choosing the kids' FAMILY.  I've got a friend whose kid is very smart and has got many awards who is rejected by these "famous" schools and another friend whose kid is not so smart (I hate to use the word dumb) got accepted.

Leolonglongma

奉勸各位家長唔好再回應此人(st.bintai)任何留言, 他在不同留言處都在攪亂檔, 根本非家長, 小朋友深知大人想要的答案, 如果背大人想要的答案就叫醒的話, 拔萃校長就不會勸家長不要參加面試班啦!

家長盡了力, 無愧於心已足夠! 害羞的小朋友面試時可能會較吃虧, 但同樣太活躍, 不怕醜的小朋友亦不見得有優勢, 小兒正是那一種, 完全不怕陌生人, 隨時天南地北與大人胡扯的一類, 小一面試, 全軍覆沒, 但我沒有責備他, 因為我們已盡了力, 塞翁失馬, 焉知非福! 平常心好了!

Beeruma

I just walk by but agreed both points of Leolonglongma.

(1)  I don't know who's st. bintai.  But what kind of people would choose such a name..........?

(2) In many times, "luck" plays a key role.  But in any case, just don't give up!

Cheers!

Leolonglongma 寫道:
(1) 奉勸各位家長唔好再回應此人(st.bintai)任何留言, 他在不同留言處都在攪亂檔, 根本非家長, 小朋友深知大人想要的答案, 如果背大人想要的答案就叫醒的話, 拔萃校長就不會勸家長不要參加面試班啦!

(2) 家長盡了力, 無愧於心已足夠! 害羞的小朋友面試時可能會較吃虧, 但同樣太活躍, 不怕醜的小朋友亦不見得有優勢, 小兒正是那一種, 完全不怕陌生人, 隨時天南地北與大人胡扯的一類, 小一面試, 全軍覆沒, 但我沒有責備他, 因為我們已盡了力, 塞翁失馬, 焉知非福! 平常心好了!

yoyo-mother

You can phone to GHS to see if there are some places released after the registration. I know that the GHS asked the 2006 P1 students to registrate today 2-5Pm . You can also send a profile to the school to ask for a chance to have an interview again. GHS will accept those parents with more誠意.
Try GHS again . Don't give up yet.

elegant 寫道:
We tried several famous school for P1 admission, but the outcomes is always failed.

My daughter is performing well at her school but she just can not show herself at the interviews.  She is slow in warming up and reluctant answering questions to stranger.  I feel very sad and pity because she has excellent school results but her character has detered her in gaing admission to famous schools.

MsSleepy

Elegant,

Don't give up!  I believe there are seats released to waiting list candidate after Jan 06 because by then, most famour school finished registration.  You may also try after June next year.  I have a friend who offered a seat from Good Hope after the lucky draw announcement.  

Like YoYo-mother said, Good Hope like parents with sincerety, so, you can try to send your kid's profile to the school again.

Your kid need your support, if you feel upset, she will know it and she will feel very guilty.  Tomorrow will be better, pls take it easy.

Good luck.

saipi

Don't feel upset.  Some smart kids' potentials are revealed not until they reach age of 8 or 9 years old.  Please don't judge your girl with the interview results.

According to those specialists, very smart kids are tend to be introvert.

Your child in not outspoken, maybe she is introvert and likes observing. Every kid is different. As long as your child is happy and healthy, we should thank god!

st.bintai

Leolonglongma 寫道:
奉勸各位家長唔好再回應此人(st.bintai)任何留言, 他在不同留言處都在攪亂檔, 根本非家長, 小朋友深知大人想要的答案, 如果背大人想要的答案就叫醒的話, 拔萃校長就不會勸家長不要參加面試班啦!

家長盡了力, 無愧於心已足夠! 害羞的小朋友面試時可能會較吃虧, 但同樣太活躍, 不怕醜的小朋友亦不見得有優勢, 小兒正是那一種, 完全不怕陌生人, 隨時天南地北與大人胡扯的一類, 小一面試, 全軍覆沒, 但我沒有責備他, 因為我們已盡了力, 塞翁失馬, 焉知非福! 平常心好了!

你地講完一大論費話有冇叫人面對現實

有冇叫個家長認清小朋友既優點同弱點 個小朋友適合邊類型既學校 有冇了解到個小朋友係唔係唔想面試

如果你認為個小朋友直接對話就認為佢係背大人想要的答案...咁你唔洗教小朋友做功課啦   去面試就亂答 (童真嘛) 你唔比個面試既校長(miss) 話晒時間倗你出門口都幾難     係到留言就用下個腦, 唔係日日係到 埋 d 無聊野

無啦啦又同拔萃扯上關係 ??   係到無限上綱   9 唔搭 8   

相信你都未必係適教小朋友既家長就係到亂吠    梗係小一面試 全軍覆沒 你根本就唔知貴子弟既強項

elegant

Dear all mums and dads,

Thanks very much for your warm supports and constructive suggestions.   I did not expect so many feedbacks on this topic.  

I will take your advises and try to encourage my daughter to speak in public environement so that she can build more confidence in dealing with strangers.

I am also aware that there will be places available after June and I will write to those target schools again and hopefully they will reconsider my child.

Just have to keep my finger crossed and thanks all for your kind supports.

st.bintai

elegant 寫道:
Dear all mums and dads,

Thanks very much for your warm supports and constructive suggestions.   I did not expect so many feedbacks on this topic.  

I will take your advises and try to encourage my daughter to speak in public environement so that she can build more confidence in dealing with strangers.

I am also aware that there will be places available after June and I will write to those target schools again and hopefully they will reconsider my child.

Just have to keep my finger crossed and thanks all for your kind supports.

細心 d 睇下其他家長既經驗啦 了解自己個小朋友


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  Re: 入名校=讀得辛苦  
我就覺得要睇個小朋友本身性格, 好似我個女咁, 佢有好強o既好勝心, 俾一般o既學校佢, 未必能夠滿足到佢, 同埋無可否認所謂名校係有佢自己o既一套教學方法, 而家我個女日日放學都會好自覺咁温書, 備課, 真係有街都唔會去. 反觀我個仔o既性格, 你俾佢入名校佢都唔會讀得開心, 因為佢係樣樣都唔在意o既人, 更加唔會有好勝心. 總之, 一句講晒~汝非魚, 焉知魚之樂?

HuiTung

Beeruma 寫道:
I just walk by but agreed both points of Leolonglongma.

(1)  I don't know who's st. bintai.  But what kind of people would choose such a name..........?

係幾架!  當笑料睇

works

Hi elegant

除了在家及公眾場所引導囡囡多表達外,我建議你可以要求囡囡班主任多些在班中問囡囡問題/俾機會她表達自己意見.有表演項目既,不論大型或小型,係主角定過路人,都俾機會佢上下台.平日多和活潑的小朋友一齊,我相信你囡囡"怕羞"的性格一定會有改善. 加油!  

我的小朋友以前都好似你囡囡咁,但現在上台獨唱表演都好大聲,好勇敢!   好唔好聽就見仁見智啦!

HuiTung

elegant,

除了平日出街, 或者比小朋友上口材訓練班或話劇之類, 又點睇?