請問小朋友一星期的課外活動如何刪減?

哈里波特

My daughter is now F1, I’m talking about 1-2 years ago.  I’m always struggling to cut some ECA for her even now.  She does not have so many homework, but she sleeps around 12:00 mid-night everyday.  I can stand when she was in Primary, but she also sleeps late now.  Do you know when she wakes up every morning – 6:15am.  Therefore, I had cut Mandarin & English drama every Saturday when she was P6, at least she had 1 day sleep over 8 hours.

After reading this topic, I ask my daughter to rank :
1) what are her favourite
2) what are her needs
I tell her in case I need to cut her ECA again, what does she want?  

Somehow, you have to make decision for your kid.  

Don’t worry, your kid academic result is so smart, hope you can get into your dream school.

Midagemum 寫道:
多謝mooon & 哈里波特:

其實不知係唔係我有問題，我發覺自已sort 左︿我一直以為小朋友到p5還不太緊要，仲有時間，當年仔仔因為樣樣都係自動波(天生的)，我幾乎沒去理過他，成績都ok，都派到英中，所以我唔懂得去為小朋友昇中鋪排。

後來偶然加入bk，知道甘多父母都在為小朋友擔心，我就越來越驚了，而女女又好勝，同我講想讀band 1頭至中的學校，我沒潑她冷水，諗住學其上、得其中；學其中、得其下，所以也盡量幫她補洞，差邊勿，補邊勿，結果gao到她今次考試唔係甘好，平均估計得80-85，而她地班考到90-100的大把人，我先知Bai了。雖然p5上學期成績唔使報分，不過會影響整個p5學期的成績，都差的。

以前我諗住只要她開心就得了，原來係唔得Gei，她學科方面沒有勿野Certificate可以俾人睇，因不是考頭3名，學校無獎狀俾；無劍橋Cert., 無體育Cert,無音樂Cert(得鋼琴2級咋)，無跳舞Cert(因為今年先幫她報)，淨係校際朗誦獎，風紀証書及校內繒畫比賽獎，甘樣點見人啊，她未必有哥哥甘叻及甘好運，我的心好亂，唔知點樣幫她補Wor?

係Wor, 哈利波特，你女女都係p5，她準備成點呢?

song

Too much for her la.... She is only a kid. She is fully occupied for the whole week. Where is the time to enjoy her life (playing at the park with other kids or chess)? So far, she has not said "NO" to you??  

Midagemum

Song,

She sometimes complainted about heavy workload but when I asked her to cut some items, she felt struggle because she was afraid of falling behind of others.

Midagemum

Hello Vernique2005,

唔好意思，又翻出呢個老生常談的問題出來，我想請教的是: 其實英華一直係我的心儀學校，望落去的小朋友幾斯文而且帶D藝術氣質，不過聽講響它果度讀的小朋友的家庭同一d響直資中學如DBS, St. Paul等就讀的小朋友的家庭都係幾富貴的，學校門口都係泊住d寶馬、benz汽車，一支做功課的筆都幾百元，書包、等都係名牌的，呢的傳聞係唔係事實呢?

另外一個小5, 小6的小朋友，點樣可以知道他們的英文係Very good, good, fair good, Ok 呢? 是不是Oral要流利、閱讀英文小故事大概要去到邊個Level? 作文要寫到多少字才有機會被好的學校interview呢?

TKS a lot!

Vernique2005

Midagemum﹕

就我所知﹐在英華的女孩通常都是小康之家﹐連
DBS﹐ ST PAUL 的﹐都不是全部很有錢﹐你想想看﹐校門附近有多少地方﹐泊到盡最多二十多輛好嗎﹐那到底全校有多少學生呢﹖
哈哈哈﹗

而那些數百元的逼﹐名牌書包﹐就算是普通學校都有小朋友有﹐有什麼出奇呢﹖可能是禮物﹐可能是獎品﹐不算是很出奇。

我想﹐普遍來講﹐你很難在這些學校找到貧窮學生﹐但普通的一個家庭﹐孩子不多﹐都是能負擔得起學費或課文活動費的。至於其他同學用什麼﹐坐什麼車﹐應該不是用來比較的項目﹐也不是一個學生應該想太多的。

至於英文﹐我想在那些學校讀中一﹐最基本的要求是能夠聽懂外國人以正常的速度去說的英文﹐能夠以正確又不太慢的速度去說英文﹐能夠清楚地問問題從而能夠學習﹐看懂SOUTH CHINA MORNING POST 裡非政治的﹐專有名詞較少的文章﹐寫到二百多個字﹐有條理﹐基本GRAMMAR 沒問題﹐句子結構可以會有些小問題的文章﹐應該都可以了。

哈里波特

Quote : 至於英文﹐我想在那些學校讀中一﹐最基本的要求是能夠聽懂外國人以正常的速度去說的英文﹐能夠以正確又不太慢的速度去說英文﹐能夠清楚地問問題從而能夠學習﹐看懂SOUTH CHINA MORNING POST 裡非政治的﹐專有名詞較少的文章﹐寫到二百多個字﹐有條理﹐基本GRAMMAR 沒問題﹐句子結構可以會有些小問題的文章﹐應該都可以了。
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其實Vernique2005所說的, 我想一般F1做唔到. 因大部份小學用母語教學, 在英文方面怎會有如此成績.  我呀女F1, 英文在班中叫中/中上. 但每日早會都唔能全部明白講什麼. 早會個d都係日常野, 但佢地實在唔慣全英的生活.  (My niece is studying SPCC, she was also same with my daughter when she was F1) 我想 Vernique2005 的要求, 要在F2/F3才能達到. 當然, 這只是一般學生的情況, for the top top students or studying at Private EMI Primary School, they may not have this problem.

Midagemum

唔該晒Vernique2005 & 哈里波特