你哋是否同小朋友戒了片才返學?

BB頭maimimi

我囝囝都係返學校先介片,平日如果疴尿都帶佢去toilet,但囝囝唔知點解唔肯坐potty奇臭臭,要企係度疴係片度,呢樣真難搞?

anhemama

數月前我已經同佢戒,開始時在家(小小)都可以定時一小時一次,大大佢就一開始好乖咁在toliet去,但現在就等佢學忍多一陣(1-2小時),但好多時都會唔聽話,因為到現在18個月都唔會同講尿尿,不過有會發神經大力拍我去toliet,真是令我無法,2yrs時都唔知可唔可以戒到?

mkmickey

我這兩天嘗試留在家中幫囝囝介片, 大家建議的我也做齊, 定時同佢去廁所尿尿, 但亞仔死忍, 急到哭且發脾氣企係廁所也唔肯痾, 到最後忍唔住"賴". 其實我唔知佢係唔識怎樣控制痾, 還是唔肯痾. 總之急到死就不停哭, 因為佢知道"賴"尿, 濕濕不好(我沒有責備過他). 我日日見到佢都好辛苦. 我不停地同佢去廁所, 身心疲累, 真係講都唔信!!
此外, 囝囝都係要企係度疴係片度, 真唔知點解? 我唸我亞仔真比較難教!!

PUKU

BB頭maimimi 寫道:
我囝囝都係返學校先介片,平日如果疴尿都帶佢去toilet,但囝囝唔知點解唔肯坐potty奇臭臭,要企係度疴係片度,呢樣真難搞?

BB頭maimimi

我囝囝歲半果陣試過戒片，但唔成功，於是我就停止，到２歲再試，用左成兩個月既時間，佢終於織講痾尿，但大便到依家都好似你囝囝一樣唔肯坐底，佢唔單止企，有時仲係半夜至黎，實在好難搞，如果你成功左既話，記得教教我點做，萬萬個唔該。

longlongmum

我想問點同男仔戒片(小便), 企定坐,

THANKS

Crystal111

I asked my boy to stand when training him to go to wee wee.

longlongmum

Crystal111,

Can your son control it properly?  Did you need to put off the trousers & then ask him to wee wee into the potty?

Thks!  

Crystal111

longlongmum,

Yes, my son can generally control it quite well.  When I was training him, I took off his pants and asked him to wee wee into the toilet bowl (I did not use the potty).

He was somehow quite scared of doing wee wee other than on the nappy in the beginning.  But I asked my husband to do his own wee wee in front of my son.  So my son knew that it is the proper way for a boy to do wee wee, standing and wee wee into the toilet bowl.

longlongmum

HI Crystal111,

Thks for yr experience.  

My son was sitting into the potty but he can't wee wee inside it (i.e made it wet outside the potty).  How come?  Should I train him as your son that stand it & wee wee into the toilet bowl?

sarahChoi

各位媽媽,

我都有大家的經歷, 有灰心, 有激氣時, 但不要太快下定論你的小朋友難教, 有時是他們的步履有快有慢.

好似我仔仔, 他兩歲多才開始戒日片, 他最初只肯坐在自己的"權權", 在街上甚或他經常到的教會也不行,仍舊在尿片去.
到他返學時, 最初是"死定", 回到家馬上去, 後來在學校可以站著去. 這個星期的變化就大了, 他在家中主動要求站著去, 不單是自己的"權權", 大人馬桶也行, 昨晚我們行街時, 他在商場裡說要 wee wee, 我老公馬上帶他去商場的厠所, 他又成功去了.

真的很奇怪(整個過程是兩個月的事), 我相信返學跟小朋友一起訓練是有幫助的. 但有時發覺自己的耐性也很重要的, 因為總怕自己小朋友落後於人, 但有時我們也要接受, 小朋友學習不同的事物, 的確會有時快時慢的.

大家努力呀 ! 重有夜片.

sarah :

Crystal111

Hi longlongmum,

I actually don't know much about toilet training ga.  I had problems taking my son to wee wee when he first started, he simply refused and cried.  As I said, I asked my husband to be a "role model" for him to make him feel comfortable and think that it is alright to wee wee into the toilet bowl.  It only took him 3 days to be 100% toilet-trained.  I guess he just somehow accepted that as a normal part of our body function gwa.

Boys need to be standing to do their wee wee sooner or later, so I just started asking him to stand on Day 1.  I don't want him to get confused later.  If I let him sit down to do wee wee, he could be asking at some point why he is sitting like the other girls when he is doing wee wee, but the other boys are standing.     

I guess you can try to tell him that he could go and wash his hands (my son likes washing his hands, playing a bit with the water, turning on and off the tap himself etc.) after he has done wee wee into the toilet bowl (rather than on the nappy).  Then he would probably associate "wee wee into the toilet bowl" with "fun", and would feel more relaxed doing it.  

You could also try to put some of his favourite cartoon stickers around the toilet bowl or near the wall there to make him feel more comfortable.  You
could point to the stickers and asked him questions about the cartoons etc so that you could distract his attention from the anxiety associated with doing wee wee into the toilet bowl.  I remember that the first time when my son resisted doing it into the toilet bowl, I pointed to the stickers and said something interesting.  It happened that he actually wanted to do wee wee but was holding it because he was scared of pissing into the toilet bowl.  But as soon as he was distracted by the stickers and my funny comments, then his bladder got relaxed and the urine just passed out naturally.  After the first time of pissing into the toilet bowl, my son has realised that there is nothing to be scared of, and it is not a big deal.  He did not resist pissing into the toilet bowl since then.

I hope it helps.