懷疑自閉 學校留難拒收

ClaudeeMa

cheungmanwai 寫道:
個天交個特別兒比你, 係因為你担得起。大家努力!

好感動!      

catcatchong

bandband 寫道:
咁唔讀都讀咗咯,人地又擺到明嫌棄我地啲仔,就算我地迫佢地道歉,又有咩作用呢?佢地都唔會改變態度同作風...無計,香港啲風氣係咁,唔似得外國會咁多支援,唯有認同我媽咪講嗰句,教仔唔好旨意老師,都係自己俾心機去教番仲好... [quote]
HoHoMom 寫道:
sorry, 忍唔住搭咀。可否去平機會要求道歉呢?

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我都忍唔住,d老師點可以咁架,枉為人師,不知所謂.我覺得應該去平機會要求道歉,起碼比佢知佢咁做係唔啱,可能就係無媽咪投訴.佢就會覺得無問題,如果要佢道歉多幾次,你話佢上到平機會都比人笑啦,或者會改变作風,唔知可唔可以去教統局投訴

bandband

其實我都好勞氣好嬲佢地架~!只係,投訴都無用囉!啲老師同學校啲質素咁差!還掂都唔再入去讀咯,無謂搞咁多事出嚟令到自己煩~!寧願花多啲時間响教仔度,叫個仔大個咗千祈唔好學似佢地咁無品...可能我見得呢啲人多,乜都化,佢地根本唔值得我地咁煩,佢地真係唔配囉!

catcatchong 寫道:
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bandband 寫道:
咁唔讀都讀咗咯,人地又擺到明嫌棄我地啲仔,就算我地迫佢地道歉,又有咩作用呢?佢地都唔會改變態度同作風...無計,香港啲風氣係咁,唔似得外國會咁多支援,唯有認同我媽咪講嗰句,教仔唔好旨意老師,都係自己俾心機去教番仲好... [quote]
HoHoMom 寫道:
sorry, 忍唔住搭咀。可否去平機會要求道歉呢?

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我都忍唔住,d老師點可以咁架,枉為人師,不知所謂.我覺得應該去平機會要求道歉,起碼比佢知佢咁做係唔啱,可能就係無媽咪投訴.佢就會覺得無問題,如果要佢道歉多幾次,你話佢上到平機會都比人笑啦,或者會改变作風,唔知可唔可以去教統局投訴[/quote]

毅媽咪

多謝你地回應!

我自己唔會強迫人家去取錄我兒,就算佢地取錄左會有心機教我仔仔咩?咪一様放他在一邊,白白浪費大家時間同金錢,倒不如花多少少時間去找過另一間,好可惜荃灣區好鬼爆,我只找到半日制班給他玩. 我自己都唔知半日班成效有幾大,但為了剌激他都會一試.

間學校好鬼差,仲叫我地去暫托,直到我問到醫生攞到份報告返為止,好老實我唔會俾,亦唔會問醫生,呢d是病人資料有需要咩,收就收,不收也罷

Leonare

My son was suspected case when he was 2. I sent him to study nursery and only told the teacher he did not speak. Since he was only 2, the teacher accepted him. Later, the teacher talked to me and I told the truth. Since he did not have so much behaviour problem, he did not create troubles to the teachers. Besides, one of the teacher who was experience and skillfull, so she could handle my son. One year later, this teacher tranferred to another class and the new one could not do so much for my son. I knew he will be ignored and let him play by himself. I felt upset one time when I knew my son was bited by one classmate but the teacher told me my son did not response. I was angry and I did not beleive my son would not cry as I fund there were deep holes on his hands. I thought there was bias over my son and I knew the teacher could not have so much ability to take care my son. I did not change to another kindergarden as I afraid he could accept the new environmment easily, besides, you could not make sure you can find a good teacher.

Now he is studying in K1 and I am happy to know that his new teacher is a good and experience teacher, so that I can alwasys comunicate with her.
Besides, I have communicated closely with head teacher, so that it seems that my son enjoy his school life. I still not beleive the teacher can teach so much for my son but at least I want to make sure my son has a happy school life. Now I am teaching and training my son everyday as I have been a full time mum over one and half year. I can see the progress and I am satisfied.

gigi2

毅媽咪,

If you are living in TW, do not go to the nursery St. Mxxxxx as I have very bad experience there and the school management is also very poor.  The turnover rate of teachers and principal are high.  Words of mouths in the district is very poor as well.

HayBMum

Justin2002,
My son studies in Creative Kinder too.  The Principal and teachers of the kinder know my son's problem and sincerely want to help him.  His class teacher calls me around twice a week to update me about my son's performance and behaviour in the school and what they did in order to draw his attention (my son's social skill and concentration are weak).  So even though there is no standard timetable for everyday's activities, my son still accommodate well with his new school life with the help of the teachers.  Besides this, as Creative kinder use songs and puppets for story telling, which are very effective teaching mode for visual learners, my son starts to enjoy story time. He sometimes uses the toys at home to pretend telling us a story. He will also sing the ending song when he "finish" the story.  Very cutie.

BBHim

BandBand,

Thank you!
我都因揀學校而煩惱...

justjust

也試過在找學校時有煩惱﹐我地冇同學校講小朋友有問題﹐因我地都唔知﹐係校長面試時提出黎既﹐仲叫我地快D同小朋友檢查﹐自己係屋企訓練多D。

初時都好嬲架﹐點解一齊面試又係唔講野既又收﹐我地就俾佢數到一文不值﹐點解學校唔係有教無類﹐只係話唔夠資源同人手照顧少數特別學生。

回頭諗﹐唔係多得校長當頭棒喝﹐我地仲蒙查查唔識得及早找各樣檢查同訓練。幾個月後囡囡經過月訓練已大有進步﹐讀過唔同學校但行政混亂﹐老師游雲﹐結果都係返番原先我地發誓話點都唔返去果間。發覺冇揀錯﹐因為老師好﹐家校溝通足﹐囡囡好開心。

希望你早日找到間好學校。

justjust

bandband,

你發言好到題﹐絕對唔會嫌你長篇大論﹐反而唔係個個都咁有心機打咁多字。

AGNESNG

bandband,

你好後生o乍, 咁快就可以睇得咁化

你講得o岩, 留番D時間放o向小朋友度, 做多D訓綀好過!
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bandband 寫道:
...可能我見得呢啲人多,乜都化,佢地根本唔值得我地咁煩,佢地真係唔配囉![quote]


  

HelenMrs.Lau

毅媽咪
    
Hi 你好嗎∼∼∼阿仔近況如何呀！有無進步呢！
荃灣區既幼稚園好FULL咩     
你可以考慮下大窩口同葵青區果D丫

VV2

啟思的老師同園長都好好人，好有愛心。我個大仔兩歲入學，三歲時証實為自閉症，但特殊學校及 training class 都要排很久。我照實的告訴老師們，他們不但沒有嫌棄仔仔，還見意我的仔仔可以留班，這樣不會令他受挫節，她們還不時報告我仔仔的情況，問我有什麼可以幫到手。現在兩年後我個細仔也入讀啟思，仔仔的老師們還很掛念仔仔。真的很難得 !

lynx

Hi 各位,

本來我個小朋友9月份讀N1,因為老師覺得他有問題,(好像言語,理解,活躍等等,現在只可以暫托1.5小時老師話人手不足,唔可以專人照顧,(其實school有i位)但是我們未做評估(at least wating for 3months)我們的心情只有
今天問老師的時候一發不可收拾

cheungmanwai

去教統局係投訴唔到幼稚園, 因為佢地話幼稚園係學前教育, 佢地o架理論係6 aga 之前唔係一定要讀書, 所以幼稚園有自由收唔收你, 你冇say, ok! 重話你唔洗憂, 如果冇幼稚園收, 一等到你d 仔女6 age 就一定要派小學比你!!! 你諗下, 如果我地 囝囝囡囡真係等到6 age先入小學會係勿o野景象!!!???

針唔吉到肉唔知痛, 比教統局吹脹.  

我反而覺得去平機會投訴會得 (要寫信, 電話投訴唔接受), 如果真係有人証, 証明你入紙先唔收你收你憐居先, 重告佢歧視潻呀! 唔係要d勿, 道歉信都好, 有時會野起公論, 比社會大眾知有d o甘架學校都好呀.

有教無類? 要孔子番生先得.

引文 : "可能就係無媽咪投訴.佢就會覺得無問題,如果要佢道歉多幾次,你話佢上到平機會都比人笑啦,或者會改变作風,唔知可唔可以去教統局投訴"   

cheungmanwai

有好多人都話啟思ok, 有朋友知道啟思有一個自己有讀寫困難的主任, 所以很明白特別兒的心理及有耐性教佢地, 對佢地要求唔會好高, 不過學費當然係貴, 唸下幼稚園已經幾千, 如果小學讀埋就等如屋企養多個工人差唔多! 唉!努力啦, 各位爸媽媽!包括我自己!!

"啟思的老師同園長都好好人，好有愛心。"

HoHoMom

教統局有用的話，當年羅范招芬就唔會一邊推母語教學一邊送晒D仔女入國際學校啦! 我們做家長的，除自求多福外，也應自強，為仔女立下榜樣，他們在未來日子裡遇到的問題及不平事會很多，我覺得教懂他們不平則鳴也頗重要。如可找一點時間出來寫封信去電台或平机會，讓社會上更多人知道這些不公平事，可能一時三刻對自己的小孩好像無補於事，但對其他將要面對同樣困難的家庭會有一定的幫助。其實多得大家在此討論，我才知有此等不平事，thank you !

毅媽咪

HelenMrs.Lau,

仔仔情況都是沒有改善,始終他都不肯開口說話,令我好焦急.

聽從醫生吩咐後,我找了一間半日制幼兒園給他,不過時有意外發生,兼且溝通有問題,於是咪一心求去.

眼見大窩口社區會堂"聖尼xx"幼兒園全日制位咪去試,點知佢地D所謂福利團體咁差-"會強人所難",要報告先收生,又查問宜家阿仔讀緊果間幼兒園,是否有咩野大問題,老實講我好反感. 話無報告讀多幾日暫托給校方了解吓仔仔的行為,我聽了之後毫不猶豫否決了.

荃灣區好爆-邊耀良/仁濟/救世軍/雅麗珊間間都無位呀?
於是就試大窩口果間聖公會聖尼XX幼兒園囉,青衣區我就唔試,因為太遠喇!

cheungmanwai

我都係經過好多汗水, 淚水, 失眠, 自責架日子, 以前我日問點解, 自已冇做錯事, 兩公婆好錫細路, 清清白白, 點解係我個女, 個天點解要罰我地?

有一日我睇書睇到每一千個細路就有幾個, 我諗到個天交個自閉囡比我, 係因為我担得起, 如果派比其他冇愛心冇耐性o架父母就會出事, 係我個女條命生得好, 有自閉症個天都派個好父母比佢。 我一o甘想就即時提起勁, 有d o野明知搵唔到答案就要想想法子為自己開脫出來。 而且每一天我都看見個女比昨天進步, 証實我o架心機冇白費, 訓練係會有改進, 我深信有一天我會為我的女兒而感自豪, 熱切地盼望這一天的降臨。I am sure.

ClaudeeMa 寫道:
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cheungmanwai 寫道:
個天交個特別兒比你, 係因為你担得起。大家努力!

好感動!       [/quote]

HelenMrs.Lau

毅媽咪:
我早排打去哩兩間問都話有位，你試試丫！

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