讀local 出身的父母，如何幫助讀國際學校的小朋友

Pandakuma

964000 發表於 21-10-30 07:48
如何在Local school就可以打好個底？做功課和做券技巧？呢D高小/初中先學未遲，反正IS是一條龍升中。
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你講得好好(emoji)
借樓主呢個話題再請教一下你哋的見解：我成日聽到一船人話外向小朋友性格適合讀國際學校，內向文靜小朋友性格適合讀本地傳統學校⋯其實咩小朋友性格先適合讀國際學校，是否要好外向善於交際先啱呢？

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只有不適合讀國際學校的家長，沒有不適合讀國際學校的小孩。

Nanacats

poonseelai 發表於 21-10-30 09:07
你要個什麼"底"?

識文法同串字嗰啲
中文我就知唔會高，都預咗

Nanacats

钧熹 發表於 21-10-30 10:41
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只有不適合讀國際學校的家長，沒有不適合讀國際學校的小孩。 ...

所以我努力學習中

Nanacats

木子兔媽媽 發表於 21-10-30 10:14
From your previous post, I know the local KG you mentioned. The KG is very good in Chinese learning  ...

老師話佢唔係講開英文，屋企係講廣東話，所以唔好太心急，都只係上咗一個term, 要比時間佢慢慢適應。話佢好shy, 好少講嘢，我諗係因為佢冇信心講英文。
老師話會主力想幫佢攻善shy, 引佢多啲講野同問問題係佢想做先的task

poonseelai

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 15:56
識文法同串字嗰啲
中文我就知唔會高，都預咗

你意思係讀LS 小學英文底子會好過 IS 小學？咁每人對底子要求好唔同。

poonseelai

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 15:56
識文法同串字嗰啲
中文我就知唔會高，都預咗

Duplicate

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poonseelai 發表於 21-10-30 16:03
本帖最後由 poonseelai 於 21-10-30 16:20 編輯

你意思係讀LS 小學英文底子會好過 IS 小學？咁每人對底 ...

差啲嚇到噴飯

ycycwing

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 15:56
識文法同串字嗰啲
中文我就知唔會高，都預咗

What if I tell you even a high school student never gets the "perfect grammar" or "spellings" as you expected?
They learn words and grammar through daily reading and writing vs local school learn reading and writing AFTER they learn spellings and grammar.

That's one of the common issues with local school parents for 量化 everything the child did... If the school/child cannot provide "evidence", then they will think they are not learning or the school is not teaching...


By the way, if you think its no good for your child to look at the pictures only, you can guide him to tell you what did he see in the pictures. You could ask him to point to the words that he saw in the pictures.

Reading habit is a long term thing. My nephew once hate reading so much until his dad gave him his very first harry potter. He used to only have video games with him. Now every time I saw him, he has a book in his hand. I think your son just need to find his "harry potter".

木子兔媽媽

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 15:56
識文法同串字嗰啲
中文我就知唔會高，都預咗

Grammar: if you want to learn it in the Singapore way, you can buy their grammar books (my kids’ granny prefers such)

Spelling: learn phonics eg Jolly phonics, allows trial and error, then they can learn by themselves

木子兔媽媽

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 16:02
老師話佢唔係講開英文，屋企係講廣東話，所以唔好太心急，都只係上咗一個term, 要比時間佢慢慢適應。話佢 ...

If he can have good friends in his school, have a lot of play dates with them.

Nanacats

poonseelai 發表於 21-10-30 16:03
本帖最後由 poonseelai 於 21-10-30 16:20 編輯

你意思係讀LS 小學英文底子會好過 IS 小學？咁每人對底 ...

我意思係因為大多數讀國際學校，可能本身英文都算母語，所以直接講咩就寫咩已經好自然。但如果母語係第二個語言，就怕會跟唔上

都係舊local 思想, 所以我先開post 等大家教下我

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钧熹 發表於 21-10-30 10:41
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只有不適合讀國際學校的家長，沒有不適合讀國際學校的小孩。 ...

同意
我見讀得不好都係家長問題，以為唔洗監督功課就唔洗理小朋友，小朋友卻自己個個都好開心。
有D冇功課冇測考唔安樂傳統上腦
唔培養子女閲讀，任由日日打機睇電視，從不看書，之後又賴學校冇野教
唔培養小朋友好奇心，問你野又話無聊
唔識appreciate 小朋友的effort冇鼓勵
冇free time 塞滿補習塞到呆哂
家庭冇set boundaries又話學校太自由，學校係比空間你唔係叫你亂來，例如冇規定用咩頭飾但你唔會set哂頭番學吧。
家長仲用「威權式教養」小朋友唔受就賴學校太free, 其實冇主見冇膽色的小朋友才會受呢套，不過LS理念係配合的。
唔幫小朋友arrange play dates ，自己自閉，外國人視學校係一個community, 初小幼稚園參予率高，中國人傾向癮形，其實也影響小朋友社交。

暫時稔到咁多

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Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 22:32
我意思係因為大多數讀國際學校，可能本身英文都算母語，所以直接講咩就寫咩已經好自然。但如果母語係第二 ...

LS 初入當然係要追下，有語境睇多D書不難追，信心亦是問題，比D時間。
約多啲朋友玩可能比做練習英文進步更快。

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Pandakuma 發表於 21-10-30 10:16
你講得好好(emoji)
借樓主呢個話題再請教一下你哋的見解：我成日聽到一船人話外向小朋友性格適合讀國際學 ...

我小朋友本身個底都內向怕醜，我先更要比佢自細在IS, 佢playgroup 已在IS再上nursery, 初初in nursery時都唔肯出聲，讀了之後個人改變許多，相對大膽咗又forthcoming ,之後interview都好順利。
不過性格不會大改變，相對D外國人佢都比較內斂。

另外我見IS 就算係文靜的小朋友都會參予運動，對於IS來説運動是生活一部分，唔一定要叻到拿獎才可以參加，所以小朋友就唔抗拒，當係遊戲咁。

交際方面，係一定要學的技能，IS好注重。不過IS都有分IB/非IB, so far我見一兩個上到中學IB有問題都係autistic，主要自細冇社交intervention, 轉了A level冇問題。

poonseelai

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 22:32
我意思係因為大多數讀國際學校，可能本身英文都算母語，所以直接講咩就寫咩已經好自然。但如果母語係第二 ...

講同寫係兩回事，我地日日講中文，係唔係個個都寫得一手好文章？每個孩子有自己步伐，多D同老師溝通，千萬不要同人比較

木子兔媽媽

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 22:32
我意思係因為大多數讀國際學校，可能本身英文都算母語，所以直接講咩就寫咩已經好自然。但如果母語係第二 ...

When kids are in non-local schools, parents need to change own’s culture too.

If kids are in a culture 100% Cantonese, the change can be very dramatic.

It is an advantage if parents use English as workplace language and communication with domestic helpers are wholly English.

If none of that exists, may I pray for you and your kids’ adaptation. You can try to learn English with your kid.

When your kids have play visit, chat with their parents too by yourself would be helpful too.

ycycwing

Nanacats 發表於 21-10-30 22:32
我意思係因為大多數讀國際學校，可能本身英文都算母語，所以直接講咩就寫咩已經好自然。但如果母語係第二 ...

語言係要時間build up. Using one as a first language does not mean he/she can write without problem. 以中文為例，識幾百個詞彙就可以作日常溝通。但係要寫出文章，可能要幾千個以上。學習語言係long run, 再配以唔同方式。同大人唔同，小朋友對語言吸收能力係好高，其實你小朋友都只係初小階段，再加上長期處於英語環境，真係唔需要擔心佢跟唔到。
雖然例子有啲極端，但係有朋友英文本身平平，大學時期搵到個鬼仔男朋友，基本上只能用英文溝通，到同年暑假，佢啲英文已經好native 😂

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我手寫我口只係方便初初易上手，想寫得好始終要經過認真地學習literacy skills，因為口語English 始終和written English唔同，local school一般只教written English.
即係你識講中文初初造句寫文當然比人地逐個字學的易上手，但學上去總不能繼續寫到口語咁。

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