升中壓力大 名校生焦慮自殘 管教嚴 功課多 港孩不快樂

daisy17772

Are your schools 小四家課時數最長?  My girl's seems to be P5 having the largest amount of hwk.  At easter last year, there were 21 pieces !!!!!!  (only few pieces were correction)

妹妹頭

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我果位小姐都係小四, 但一D都唔多功課, EASTER 13日假期, 學校都只係有6樣功課, 阿女放第一日已經一次過做晒, 剩下果D假期可以玩, 又可以溫下習, GOOD

Yanamami

我女P6都好得閒，十幾日假，—开始放已完成七成，日日懶懶閒，正好用黎睇下中学booklist入边既書~

ms.giggle

我也深明這brand 1名中學的壓力，我小學明明考開全級頭十，咁亞媽緊係為我選最好最好的，佢估唔到，我去到中學，差不多前后左右都叻過我，心情低落有誰知…可能係自己小學太渣，不是什麼程度深嘅學校，去到中學全英文實在吃不消，聽唔明，靠自學。所以我認為選校，要了解自己小朋友性格，是否遇強愈強？也要了解小學的真正能力，一定要選適合的中學，而不是最好最受歡迎那間。

daisy17772

glad to see many moms here not blindly push their kids.  Some even allow much playing time.

My girl is in P6, through the three internal exams experience for applying for S1, I've come to believe that kids have their own ways out, not everyone can copy the same mode expected from the HK system and parents.  I even told my girl, when you go to secondary school, it's more on your own way, it's not up to me to decide for you whether you wanna go to a top university, a modest one, or not even study a degree.  Having said that, I don't mean I'm a parent who don't have expectation on them, but rather I always let them know parents are only assisting them, it's their own call to their find their way out.

I've seen quite a few cases that children are being pushed harshly, then one day they fell like an angle from hell.  Self motivation is the essence of moving themselves forward in the long run.