對唔對功課?

Eva

Hi, Gordon_No_4

To my standard, the sleeping time of your daughter is sufficient enough!

I aim to let her sleeping at 9:30pm, but ends up always about 10:00pm or 10:30pm.  She gets up at 6:30am every morning.

Fortunately, she does not like sleeping. She prefers to read books (not school ones) even she is sleepy.  She will request for sleeping only when I ask her to do extra exercise

Valerie媽媽

我大囡讀小一, 晚上10:30上床, 早上6:30起床.

我都有幫囡囡對功課, 如有錯, 要佢找出錯處改正, 我唔會直接講出答案.  我囡囡舊年8月開始學公文數, 我都覺得有用.  可減低花係數學科的功課和溫習時間.  各位媽媽您既小朋友有沒有學公文數, 有何意見?  大家交流吓.

yuyueyu

我個女8歲, 佢話通常在校車上都唔訓覺, 除咗有時會特別眼訓, 因為在校車上可以同其他小朋友傾計.

今日我又忍唔住睇吓個女d功課啦!

conniedodo

好似話１０歲前最好ｓｌｅｅｐ１０個鐘，不過我兩個仔女都做唔到．最多都是９個半鐘．     

Eva

我有在教育工作的親友說,小一至小三是重要的學習態度期,就像三歲定八十的原理, 如果由得她馬虎,得過扯過的話,日後便很難改變, 所以叫我看見不對的地方,例如字寫得不好, 一定要擦掉重寫, 又例如有默書或考試,一定要她特別去多溫習, 要跟得貼些,因為她主要看家長的態度,如果家長重視的事,她也會重視的. 直至她養成/習慣了良好的學習模式之後才慢慢放手. 通常三年班中期至四年班,已經可以完全放手了. 當然也因人而異.

雖然他們是教書的,但也不代表一定對,只是給大家參考一下!

Gordon_No_4

Dear Conniedodo,

Wow, sleeping for 10 hours daily!? That means, my girl has to go to bed by 8:15pm and get up by 6:15am. It may be a bit harsh for working parents like us. You can imagine. We finish our work at 6:00 and reach home at 7:00. Then 1 hour or so meeting our kids and sent them to bed. So, there should not be much time chatting with them and probably no time left to check their homework. Moreover, my girl does not like to sleep, in particular, when we are back home.


Dear Eva,

Same as your case. If my girl can choose, she does not choose sleeping. She likes to read non-school books. She would prefer reading till she is really exhausted. So, we have to set rules for her, like reading for at most 10 or 15 min and she must go to bed. Otherwise, she cannot get up in the morning.

Gordon_No_4

由 yuyueyu 於 2005-04-27 21:58:04

今日我又忍唔住睇吓個女d功課啦!

Yes,  it is hard to do so. But I try to remind myself to  be more hands-off and not be so keen on her marks. Yeah, it is really really really hard to do.   

yw

仔仔讀小一下午班，通常我返到屋企佢都是做緊功課，做完都會忍唔住手對家課冊同書包，功課多數都有d錯漏，有時錯左唔肯改，就留番俾老師改law。
講開訓覺，佢完全是睡眠充足，晚上11點幾訓，早上10點幾起身。隔周6返長周要佢早上6 , 7點起身就好辛苦啦! 不過相信Summer會早d起身，因為他喜歡早上跟公公去游水。
  

Mimi_Ma

囡囡小二,  學校甚少功課, 不過我都會對功課,  如果功課有錯, 我會話比佢聽有做錯題目,  但唔會講她知是那幾條錯咗,  要她由頭至尾找出來.  現在她做功課都小心翼翼, 以防做錯須重造.

yuyueyu

我同個女講話不如唔好對功課, 等老師對, 佢話唔好, 仲好似想 . 唔知係未已經依賴咗我要同佢對功課?

Msma

對功課我讚成架 ! 唔係整做改正晒時間，等老師教 ？一對三四十，你估佢一定明架 ？

我上年一對三 ，晚黑八點起，十點完 !續條數計，都幾係架 !

但功多藝熟詐，做得多就快架啦 !肯做就得啦，

我都要返工架，做呀媽係唔可以懶，亦無得懶 !

知要做就去盡力做嘮!

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MonicaY

I check my kid's homework for 2 reasons:
1.) you know what are being taught and it will be easier for you to do revision with her before the exam.
2.) you know how your kid's strength & weaknesses.

If just let teacher do the checking, very often the kid dare not ask the teacher "Why there is such mistake? How to improve?"  But we, as their parents, can teach our kids patiently & on one-to one basic through homework checking.

My kid finishes the homework within an hour & I do the checking less than 15 mins.  It's not difficult at all.

katiema

dear all,

早前有朋友都教我唔好對功課, 等她自己check & 負責任, 本已開始 & 講明一星期有2日唔睇佢, 只偷偷check, 但我自己的控制能力真低 , 一回家就不自覺又睇手冊, 又對功課    , 我女今年小一, 希望大家再努力~~唔對功課啦   

katiema

yuyueyu

咁真係對又死, 唔對又死.

Eva

就我的女兒來說, 我為她檢查的話.D字會寫靚許多,所以如果有時間的話，我會prefer check her homeworks!

salina0817

Last year , I tried not to check my daughter's homework as I think that if teacher find the mistake and she need correction, she will know her mistake.

But I think that this will not let me know my daughter clearly. So, now, I check her homework again