被同学仔咬伤，个老师竟然話唔知道没看到，被同学仔推倒

tvmojoedu

I think you should stop focusing on the issue about the school since you have already changed to another one.  You should now think about how to convince your girl to overcome her fears.. Telling her everything will be ok... School is fun etc.  Seriously, your daughter probably isn't the only one encountering this. Sooner or later our kids will face these issues in school. We as parents have to teach them how to overcome, and defend themselves , eg teaching them how to report to teacher if they are bullied.

师奶

今朝個女又唔肯换衫唔肯岀门口，抱住個门喊…

师奶

佢一食完早餐自己就講，唔返学，怕，惊…，我都没提，都唔够胆提，岀门口只係講去街街先，然后佢一路都話惊，怕…问佢點解，佢只係講怕，惊…

bennyeva

多d同佢去公園同其他小朋友玩，或者會忘記呢d唔開心嘅回憶，你唔好再用番學嚇佢食飯，咁即係你都認同番學可怕，佢見你迫佢番仲唔中意，你真係改變唔到就揾兒童心理學家嗰d幫手啦

Chirley

bennyeva 發表於 13-9-17 08:16
多d同佢去公園同其他小朋友玩，或者會忘記呢d唔開心嘅回憶，你唔好再用番學嚇佢食飯，咁即係你都認同番學可 ...

樓主, 我講既野可能對你來說有D『針吉唔到肉唔知痛既感覺』,
但希望你唔好介意, 因為有D都係我既經驗黎。
事件發生左都差不多一個星期, 小朋友未有有改善你都要諗多D計...
或者唔好用到『返學』呢句話先, 話去同其他小朋友GATHERING等慢慢試...
bennyeva 講得好岩, 因乜你仲要嚇小朋友呢?! 於事無補之餘仲加深小朋友對『返學』呢樣野既反感,
你應該係積極咁想辦法令佢慢慢減少恐懼..忘記件事, 而唔係搞到佢更驚,
學校方面你要投訴/轉校等等, 或你自己都驚/擔心到癲左都好, 都係大人間要處理既事,
唔需要係小朋友面前表現得太緊張/驚既反應...
佢已經係驚/喊, 家長係小朋友心中已係一個大靠背,
如果家長都表現到不安咁會令小朋友更難安心...
我囝都係好百厭既人, 出去同其他小朋友玩碰撞都難免,
試過俾個小朋友推到成個頭撞落地下好大聲, 佢堅瘺我地都擔心佢有無撞親,
最嚴重果次試過撞到個頭流晒血, 我地大人見到佢成臉血都驚,
我媽仲驚青到發癲咁, 但俾我趕走左佢, 因為佢令件事更難搞,
我係先安撫囝囝, 一邊睇佢有損傷, 睇下係咪要送佢去醫院CHECK /醫治等, 責任我會之後再追討
我既方法未必係最好, 或者合適係每次用,
不過都希望可以俾到個參考你

abby0624

我覺得樓主既態度對女兒既影響都好大，樓主對件事仲係咁緊緊於懷，放唔開，小朋友係會感應到架。其實小朋友呢啲受傷都好平常，你試下放開心情，唔好再諗件事，你個女會唔再諗架。