RC校園盗竊案，請給意見

birdbird

My boy experienced sth similar when he was in year 1 and 2. His friend borrowed his cap to go out to the playground to play. after that, the boy didn't return the cap and he kept saying he didn't know its whereabout. I was really furious about the abt boy's behaviour and also my own son's decision of lending his friend the cap. I didn't complain to the teachers as it is a matter of friendship and belongings management which the kids should learn by themselves. To give my son a lesson to learn, I didn't buy him the cap until there was an outing. It worked!

可愛小肥媽

無錯籃球係team sport，大家可以share嚟玩，但並唔係搶嚟玩，仲要搶完之後諗住收埋據為己有，我真係覺得同賊無分別
其實我唔係緊張個波，而係我天真地以為家長同學校會正視紀律問題
老實講，我到依家都未見過個小朋友亦都無接觸過個家長，所以我都好擔心係樓上啲樓主所講係欺凌事件

birdbird

樓主,
即使在校園的環境, 真係有d細路係會洽另外一d純品的細路. 所以我地ge責任, 係要教曉我地的小朋友帶眼對人. 明知某個細路拎o左自己d野去係唔會物歸原主, 就要第一時間搶番果樣野番黎. 對住呢d麻煩細路, 冇可能仲咁天真以為佢地係上等人有借有還. 自己唔曉保衛自己的物品, 邊個都幫唔到自己. 老師幫到一時, 幫唔到一世的.

hhy2007

You are contradicting yourself by saying “…之後雖然我們找到嗰個搶波小朋友…”in your first post, and then saying “…我到依家都未見過個小朋友亦都無接觸過個家長…”in your last post.
Is it a typo?

Mighty

好明顕、看THREAD TITLE、就知這位楼主実在将事件誇張左。

可愛小肥媽

係老師話俾我知揾到個小朋友，但我唔識佢，所以唔知個細路係咩人！

可愛小肥媽

對我嚟講，好大件事呀！

hhy2007

I don’t want to argue with you. But it really doesn’t sound logical to me.  If it was the school teacher who found the concerned boy, and as you mentioned earlier, that the boy admitted to the teacher that he did snatch the ball from your son, then how come the Vice Principal is still asking for the evidence of snatching? A lot of things are missing here.  I guess I should stop discussing on this.

可愛小肥媽

Thats the point I myself dont inderstand too. The teacher told me that the offending student admitted his fault but then the Vice Proncipal said that the evidence is not enough.

Radiomama

樓主，如果一如你所説，老師已知道是那位頑皮仔幹的好事，我相信那頑皮仔已被老師教導過的了，你可以放心。
不要再執著了。
老實說，playground上什麼事也會發生~扮騎馬、扮放狗、搶帽、踢鞋....好精彩，當值老師看見有人橫衝直撞得太離譜也會出聲，不過其餘時間都讓他們玩。
好好與兒子反思今次事件吧！保護自己和自己的物件是首要學會的！
我仔Y1時與一男同學齊教訓另一曵仔，最後被老師捉到受罰。當時老師沒有告訴我，只教訓這兩個動手（其實受了傷）的小男生。今天已是Y4的他們，仍記得那件事，並認為自己為幫女同學而出頭是英勇行為！

bbdmami

樓主一直都無講自己個小朋友幾大，理論上應該細過個搶波個小朋友。咁細個就要自己帶籃球返學校？

scheong

如照字面推斷，其實老師及副校都知道呢件事，亦都有同Y3學生傾，咁我相信事情已經處理咗，校方無必要再向你交待佢哋點教導嗰位小朋友。呢d都係正常國際學校做法。相反樓主死心不息，要將本身是惡作劇的事情小事化大，在網上寫＂校園盜竊案＂又話校方話籃球係私人物品唔處理，你話可以點？作引子再廣傳，在這點我覺得好嚴重，盜竊是刑事罪行，要有証人有藏物，要有証據支持話疑犯據為己有，先可以成立，作為家長要緊慎自己的言行，沈重的字眼不能亂說，網上欺凌正在fb中熱烈討論，不知道樓主的題目算嗎？

TINGMUM

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我覺得樓主小朋友細,可能不能講返太多老師如何處理此事. 有唔明之處(老師話小朋友認左, 但副校又話證據不足),其實為何不直接再問副校或班主任,  溝通好重要, 估估下盞自己激氣.

如果係我, 我會叫仔仔唔好再帶私人物品回校, 免生事端, 另一方面, 我又會要求班主任通知該搶波男孩的家長有關孩子的行為.  件事就咁close左算!   

oooray

VP點理?有冇人証(成人)?就算幾個Year1同學出黎指証個Year3，咁都係一面之詞；叫學校可以點?個Year3一樣可以話你幾個Year1屈佢....
如果你知邊個咪去個Year3個課室搵個老師；老師都唔理就直接搵個家長；
最後唔得去馬鞍山警署報案(阿SIR未必同你開File)再番學校同VP嘈過....

但最簡單就唔好帶不必要既私人野番學；叫個小朋友小心d個人物品。講完。

beibie

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去過大陸同星加坡的學校，好大好大。其實根本無可能確保學生在操場上一定有老師在附近。
外國學校都係一樣。點解香港的家長成日都期望有老師在學生身邊主持公道？
唔怪得香港咁多港孩，沒有應對問題的能力，沒有自立能力，乜都要大人幫。

manfatcentre

原帖由 beibie 於 12-10-24 發表
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去過大陸同星加坡的學校，好大好大。其實根本無可能確保學生在操場上一定有老師在附近。 ...

Haha. . agree