小學生成績怎樣才要補習?

lojo11

有d補習社只集中小朋友功課, 有d就加埋操paper. 操paper係對小朋友有即時好處, 好碼熟個format, 可能又會小心d... 所謂熟能生巧... 係會攞到好d成績, 對家長黎講, 的確吸引..

我都唔會比呀仔join呢d班... 除非成績真係唔好... 如果ok的, 唔洗咁谷法... 同埋我都想知道個仔本身能力去到邊... 暫時第一次排名都ok... 我已經非常安慰... 如果去左補習, 我就唔知有幾多成績係我個仔自己定係補習谷出黎..

ilovematthew

我仔現小一，我已給他補習，因為我倆要上班，對補習社不太多期望，最重要完成當天所有功課

candytsy

tws2010 發表於 12-2-8 22:09
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Most of my kid's classmates go to the tutorial school.  They all train to do a ...

你另我又想起曾經有人講過讀書不是求分數,但當見到成續表差時心理即時就忘記了,在考虑分數之時都要睇下佢點解會錯.好羡慕你的小朋友可以自已咁勸力仲可以考到前10名,小朋友的性格都好緊要,我囡由出世食奶就非常慢,所以現在做事都比較散慢,但我細仔食奶好快,唔知第日會否做事都快手快腳呢?真係每個小朋友都有她的性格,家長真係要不斷學習因材施教.

snwm

其實本人反對小學生去補習社, 除非父母未能教到他們或時間配不合到. 因為補習社只會令孩子出現更多的陋習, 或學了一些不好的行為. 如果你小朋友已學了自己做功課應繼續她自學, 免她誤會你們不理她了; 反而出現反效果. 如果你認為她還可以有上升的空間, 唯有用自己休息時間跟她每星期尾溫習.  

candytsy

snwm 發表於 12-2-9 16:44
其實本人反對小學生去補習社, 除非父母未能教到他們或時間配不合到. 因為補習社只會令孩子出現更多的陋習,  ...

我都好想听多一些你這種聲音等我心理好過啲

tws2010

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Thanks for your accomplishment.  In fact, my kid is very disciplined and he is very hardworking.  Sometimes, I feel sorry to push him too hard, so I decided to give him some private and play time.  I watched the DVD the other night.  He was 3 at that time and he's really happy and it seems that there would be no worries for him at all.  Since he went to primary school, I became very nervous and push him to study this and that.  He was not happy and in fact, this also affect our relationship.  I decided to take it easy.  As long as his academic result is ok, I don't really request him to be the top one.  In fact, there will be no difference at all if you are top 1 or top 10 in future.  It's rather he is interested to learn and take initiative, this is very good enough already...

Hey, you donnn't have to worry too much.  My brother was also very slow in learning before he was P.4.  Guess what, he really improved signifcantly when he was in P.4...It's really amazing.  He did not have good result before P.4.  But since P.4, he suddenly opened his mind.  Eventually, he got A in his Mathes at school cert and A Level.  Have faith and confidence in your kid.  You never know and it's never too late to start.  

Add oil.

囝囝mama

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非常同意!!!

lojo11

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你個仔真係好生性... 好難得...

大傻蛋

我囝係K3開始接觸公文數及英..一直KEEP住到而家小四,但發現開始作用唔大,好彩學校俾左澳數培訓他,公文英就轉為ENOPI(事緣一來他停留同一個LEVEL成半年,二來他跟我說上英文堂時外籍老師講的野他只識一半),唔知算唔算補習..但係真係可以幫補他數學及英文科..他平時成績中間..數學同英文90幾..但中文就好差(試過唔合格)..所以拉分後KEEP住平均分80分左右..中文我買左好多作業給他做..但他又懶唔想寫(特別係重組句子,改寫句子等),成日只係用口將個答案講一次俾我聽..唔知係唔係因為咁沒什麼進步..唔通真係要出去俾人補中文??

tws2010

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Many thanks lojo11.  I was once a very strict parent.  I was really mad when I know he got 80 mark for his maths, I scolded him.  But he was very nervous whenever I talk to him.  I really gave it a second thought.  I could not let this situation continue and became even worse, I decided to take it easy and not to push him too much.  This really worked.  Just would like to share with you guys, it maybe better if you learn to relax, your kids maybe more motivated to learn and willing to learn...Learning is a long road.  One or two failures are really nothing.  You never know one day, they will have drastic change that you don't expect. Add oil all parents...

lojo11

tws2010 發表於 12-2-11 21:31
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Many thanks lojo11.  I was once a very strict parent.  I was really mad when I k ...

你係一個好SMART的家長... 我個仔小一, 一直唔會為成績話佢, 怕佢會對考試, 分數有壓力感... 上左小學已經半年, 好彩佢好喜歡上學, 每日都會係佢自己特定時間內完成功課,  我好感恩..

Hoho8

现在好多家长把孩子的读书都推到外面的补习社。小1是孩子一个新的学习阶段, 家长应该陪同孩子建立自我学习的习惯。家长应该尽量自己来教, 除非像英文口语可以到外面。自己教可以知道自己孩子的能力和缺点, 及时矫正。小1课程不算难, 大部分家长都可以应付。

孩子的成绩不要看的太重, 每个孩子有自己的特点, 多鼓励和陪同他一起面对并解决问题, 要有耐心和毅力

Heima04

樓主,你想找的補習社目的是甚麼? 有的只是做功課, 有的是補專科。
小兒在過去一年到補習班做功課, 但發覺作用不大, 功課未能完成, 壞嘢學足一籮筐。
由於小兒P2, 中文差, 亦曾到補習社每星期二次專科補中、英(1對2), 補了3個月,發現成效不太大, 但私人時間無哂, $又無埋, 仲經常頻頻撲撲去上堂, 彼此都很疲倦。
故現在所有補習都CUT哂, 現正訓練他自已做, 其他的教得幾多得幾多, 不過都好勞氣架, 努力中。

candytsy

Heima04 發表於 12-2-17 11:15
樓主,你想找的補習社目的是甚麼? 有的只是做功課, 有的是補專科。
小兒在過去一年到補習班做功課, 但發覺作 ...

你的經驗正是我問這問題的原因,因為我就係擔心補習幫不了她太多,而時間金錢都花去了,正如你所講大家都很疲倦.我相信我囡囡到外面補習較果都會係咁,試過找補習老師上門一對一,但見到老師哭了很耐唔肯要老師幫,十問九唔應老師,結果補不成,取消了.

candytsy

Hoho8 發表於 12-2-17 00:34
现在好多家长把孩子的读书都推到外面的补习社。小1是孩子一个新的学习阶段, 家长应该陪同孩子建立自我学习 ...

看來我都係自已跟好啲,但每晚收工八九點先來同佢對功課,改得來都成十點幾,已經冇時間揾習.

lojo11

candytsy 發表於 12-2-17 17:09
看來我都係自已跟好啲,但每晚收工八九點先來同佢對功課,改得來都成十點幾,已經冇時間揾習.
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唯有星期六, 日溫多D... 我閒日都同唔到呀仔溫太多... 仲要練樂器.. 九點就要瞓..

fanwong29

睇家長想孩子在學業上進展快定慢,(補)字可=補充,/補救,(習)=學習/練習/習慣。

kwan1981

candytsy 發表於 12-2-17 17:09
看來我都係自已跟好啲,但每晚收工八九點先來同佢對功課,改得來都成十點幾,已經冇時間揾習.
...

我從來都唔會幫阿仔改功課，錯我都由佢交，我會抄低佢做錯既題，有時間就教返佢，教到佢明，再出差唔多既例子俾佢做。