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回覆:iodine 的帖子
In EK, we can see wide spectrum of parents and kids, and our education / government officials' mandate and execution may not release us from fierce competition from day one, like hospital beds......
It's difficult for us to draw the line, we need to gather info, align with our goals and value system, then we decide how to nurture our kids. If we know our constraints, we still can stretch the limits, but not overdo, overdo will be extremely painful for the family.
Eg some parents aim for happy and easy learning, due to their previous bad experience, or a balance family life. They know the pros and cons, their decisions are sensible,
If the boy may not up to the standard of certain elite schools, but parents insist to push him into those schools...... So stress, pain....... are coming.
We need to adjust our expectation to strike a balance.....
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