冇報禮賢同德望...個心好實

siden

原帖由 Cutemom0808 於 11-11-7 18:10 發表
算啦，大家作為08年mama，GH有幾好過去2年應收左唔少料吧，入左又后悔不如唔報重好:idea:

Why do you think this school is not good?
You must have some reason to say this.
Would you mind telling us?

MC-煎

你要同你老公溝通下啵！！
女校有咩問題？？ 咁即係第時再高一班既女拔/瑪利諾收你都唔讀？？？

MC-煎

原帖由 siden 於 11-11-7 20:26 發表


Why do you think this school is not good?
You must have some reason to say this.
Would you mind telling us?

唔使咁敏感！ 我知你女女係K1！
我女女都係！

人地講乜唔使理！

凡事有兩面， 同一樣野唔一定會個個都鍾意！
德望都唔係好晒， 至少學費係間學校好大既缺點！！

elmolly

原帖由 MC-煎 於 11-11-7 23:51 發表



唔使咁敏感！ 我知你女女係K1！
我女女都係！

人地講乜唔使理！

凡事有兩面， 同一樣野唔一定會個個都鍾意！
德望都唔係好晒， 至少學費係間學校好大既缺點！！ ...

kg都仲可以, 計到上高中就真係

仲有再加其他ECA, 唔係一條人人可以afford到既"龍". 好同唔好, 個個expectation唔同, 好難一概而論.

siden

原帖由 MC-煎 於 11-11-7 23:51 發表



唔使咁敏感！ 我知你女女係K1！
我女女都係！

人地講乜唔使理！

凡事有兩面， 同一樣野唔一定會個個都鍾意！
德望都唔係好晒， 至少學費係間學校好大既缺點！！ ...

Hello MC,

Hehe, nice you notice I am one of the kinder parents ar. Up till now I find the school good. That's why I am curious why another mama think the school is so "no good" ar.

I will not be influenced by that mama. Even she says ourschool is rubbish ( I don't think cutemom is having this meaning though, cutemom don't get angry =p ), I still believe in what I feel and see myself.

There are always comparison among schools, I don't need my girl to study in the best school, just want her to study in a good school. Good hope is certainly a good school, and that's enough. If for anything I am worrying, just worry my girl encounter challenges or difficulty to enter her P1! (Touchwood and God bless).

I agree, it's so costly for so many years of school fee for attending a private school. However, it's scary to rely on the government lucky draw, simply like mini-mark six!

[ 本帖最後由 siden 於 11-11-8 01:13 編輯 ]

coeychung0406

過咗去就唔好再想了!人總會有錯漏,成日想住D唔開心嘢會影響肚裏BB甚至家人,今次當是一個經驗咁下次就會醒D!人係要向前看的,現在最重要是要開開心心迎接小寶寶的來臨呀

klm402

原帖由 MC-煎 於 11-11-7 23:42 發表
你要同你老公溝通下啵！！
女校有咩問題？？ 咁即係第時再高一班既女拔/瑪利諾收你都唔讀？？？

怪怪，
曾幾何時我都有同樣想法，社會由男女組成的，某程度上單性學校好似怪怪，但開始要著手佈局同面對呢個遊戲愈發明白過程是殘忍的，再者大多出名成功既都好似係呢種單性學校！c6甚至唔認同我報sc,KV, 只想女女考男女一條龍學校，我不是反對只是現實歸現實，龍校競爭繳烈，考到當然理想，萬一有何甩漏大家會甘心容許女女係原有村校讀嗎，定係再待出年玩插班？既然明知上小路難行，我認為佈局重要，但他到底好似唔理解，今晚再次為呢個話題有點口角，我連自己呢種膽心都不願跟他多提，反正再講他都係牛皮燈籠，只好上呢度同大家呻下

siden

原帖由 klm402 於 11-11-8 04:20 發表
怪怪，
曾幾何時我都有同樣想法，社會由男女組成的，某程度上單性學校好似怪怪，但開始要著手佈局同面對呢個遊戲愈發明白過程是殘忍的，再者大多出名成功既都好似係呢種單性學校！c6甚至唔認同我報sc,KV, 只想女女考男女一條龍學 ...

Don't worry too much. Just try your best. Take care because being pregnant is very tired!

klm402

多謝你既溫馨提示, 其實好想將心入面既膽心同c6講, 不過開口第一句同佢講.....我話你知唔知要返工又要mon住幾時交form幾時申請, 點申請又怕漏...未講完佢已插口話...得你一個辛苦咩...佢一咁講我已冇心再同佢提了....心入面既感覺到底都係放係心入面好了.
自己的事自己解決, 囡囡的事應該大家一齊解決, 但係我同佢兩個事無大小都好難有共同意見.
呢個都係覺得無奈既地方.
再加上依家已33week了....腰骨唔舒服..返到屋企真係連坐係到既能奈都冇. 但係呢種感覺只有自己一個人知道...有點覺得孤單呢....有一同事叫要relex d..其實係唔係我荷爾蒙出左問題呢....道理我明白所有野應要抱好方面想..但又確實自己控制不了呢種情緒....
好在呢個世界有互聯網, 有bk...不然真係冇地方0申.

原帖由 siden 於 11-11-8 06:50 發表


Don't worry too much. Just try your best. Take care because being pregnant is very tired!

[ 本帖最後由 klm402 於 11-11-8 09:12 編輯 ]

twllc

我老公同你老公差唔多，所以我從來報學校係"通知"佢我將會/報左邊幾間，而唔係問佢意見... 我同佢講邊間好，佢唔知又唔明，淨係識得聽同事講報邊間，然後就係咁問我點解唔報人地講果d，我都費事睬佢。自己唔做research又冇幫手，就唔好响度"阿芝阿左"。收到約見信先通知佢幾號幾點一齊去in(因為我係孖b，所以一定要佢一齊去)。通常佢見我都俾左報名費都會一齊去，加上我大緊肚(就黎36週lu)，佢唔去都唔得。

不過今年都係自在參與，我孖b係09超細b，機會渺茫，但都叫好過冇機會...

算啦。唔miss都miss左，唔好再稔番之前喇。女校咁多好選擇，而且大女成功機會都大好多，同埋有時d野係整定既，睇開d啦。只要你個女in得好就得喇。

原帖由 klm402 於 11-11-7 17:07 發表
好多謝你...真係好心甜係BK可搵到點點安慰, 同老公講..佢講極都好似唔認同我既睇法....我甚至懷疑, 佢到底明唔明白唔咁樣去佈署...兩年後又係一場硬仗...
講真..確冇辦法釋懷.
即係報左考過人家唔收你你冇辦法..但 ...

alibabah

Agree   x 2

所謂魚唔過塘唔夠大, 趁依家有機出去就考下, 唔得咪P1再考囉, 不過依家趁k1先考總好過遲左P1先出去爭, 我呢個身為C6既撐妳呀!

原帖由 klm402 於 11-11-8 04:20 發表
怪怪，
曾幾何時我都有同樣想法，社會由男女組成的，某程度上單性學校好似怪怪，但開始要著手佈局同面對呢個遊戲愈發明白過程是殘忍的，再者大多出名成功既都好似係呢種單性學校！c6甚至唔認同我報sc,KV, 只想女女考男女一條龍學 ...

klm402

咁講我c6同你c6真係好似, 又係聽同事講野多過信我, 同一件事如出於同事口佢就信到十足, 但我講就唔信. 佢當然唔承認, 但至我係咁樣感覺.
我c6同你c6唔同既地方係, 咩都要插手, 但又口講到係咩都就哂我, 但係一嘈交時就會話已咩都就哂你啦..仲想點呀..但係對我黎講呢d唔係叫就, 因佢會黑面的.
所以愈來愈覺得有野不可老實講, 放係心入面就算了.

原帖由 twllc 於 11-11-8 09:11 發表
我老公同你老公差唔多，所以我從來報學校係"通知"佢我將會/報左邊幾間，而唔係問佢意見... 我同佢講邊間好，佢唔知又唔明，淨係識得聽同事講報邊間，然後就係咁問我點解唔報人地講果d，我都費事睬佢。自己唔做research又冇幫手，就 ...

siden

原帖由 klm402 於 11-11-8 09:06 發表
多謝你既溫馨提示, 其實好想將心入面既膽心同c6講, 不過開口第一句同佢講.....我話你知唔知要返工又要mon住幾時交form幾時申請, 點申請又怕漏...未講完佢已插口話...得你一個辛苦咩...佢一咁講我已冇心再同佢提了... ...

Add oil, many men are like this. Please be prepared to have a lot of arguements with your husband in the future, particularly when the 2nd child is born. When the 2nd child is born, you and your c6 will be more busy and easily lose temper.  However, this is common among different families. Try to communicate with him more. If your second child is a son, it is good to put your girl into a co-ed school so that the brother can follow the path of the sister.

manman0808

But if you were your daughter, and your mom put you in a girl's school for the next 15 yrs, what do you think?  Do you think it is really that good for you?

You have nothing to lose even you don't apply, think in a positive way.

My coworker graduated from GH, she said if she has a kid, she will not put her back to GH, never!
Even my coworker is old school.....

原帖由 klm402 於 11-11-7 18:37 發表

真實我係中意佢一條龍呀，可分享下有咩唔好嗎

klm402

好多謝你....其實我唔係要定位我定係C6講既野先係0岩, 只係想佢明白我既苦心, 佢成日都話個女唔迫得, 生女要知女心肝, 又覺得呢種名校出名迫, 但我就覺得, 香港既教育有邊一間係唔會迫你, 況且我覺得小朋友係白紙, 你只要可幫助到同佢一齊開心快樂去學習, 唔好覺得返學讀書係一件被迫既事, 佢會同樣THINK POSITIVER呀.
可惜, 我既C6唔同意我.

原帖由 alibabah 於 11-11-8 09:14 發表
Agree   x 2

所謂魚唔過塘唔夠大, 趁依家有機出去就考下, 唔得咪P1再考囉, 不過依家趁k1先考總好過遲左P1先出去爭, 我呢個身為C6既撐妳呀!


...

klm402

呢個都係C6唔想選女校既其中一個原因, 佢話男女一條龍又可幫到細佬, 因我依家陀緊0個個係仔仔黎呀.
但係依家幼稚園既方向轉得好快, 以前TWINS大多係一收一齊收一係就一齊JECT, 依家情況係有時收一個唔收一個, 所以我對家姐係呢間學校讀係唔係等於細佬都有好大機會入返同一學校呢個講法有保留囉.
都係因為咁我先魚翁撒網式咁報名IN咋麻.
又講返轉頭, 當我今次冇報漏, 女女同時考到男女一條龍同女校一條龍, 我都會比我女女入男女龍校呀. 依家重點唔係我要囡囡必入女校龍校, 只係做多一層PROTECTION吧了.

原帖由 siden 於 11-11-8 09:15 發表


Add oil, many men are like this. Please be prepared to have a lot of arguements with your husband in the future, particularly when the 2nd child is born. When the 2nd child is born, you and your c6  ...

Tigerpooh

我老公上年都係同你老公差不多的，但後來間間都reject/waiting, 俞考俞多間，後來我直情叫佢自己跟入去面試，佢先發覺不妙。

今年就合作好多了。佢終於知道lee個年代的玩法   真係唔到我地唔担心

但你都要小心身體了，個肚咁大，好辛苦架﹗ 你都無謂再自責了，交比天主la, 佢會作出安排了。

alibabah

同班肯讀書既peers一齊讀書有咩問題, 我驚佢去到band 3中學逼住 hea 咋!

Btw, my colleague who was a graduate from GH is a tom boy, 所以 a coin has two sides, nothing is PERFECT!

原帖由 klm402 於 11-11-8 09:29 發表
好多謝你....其實我唔係要定位我定係C6講既野先係0岩, 只係想佢明白我既苦心, 佢成日都話個女唔迫得, 生女要知女心肝, 又覺得呢種名校出名迫, 但我就覺得, 香港既教育有邊一間係唔會迫你, 況且我覺得小朋友係白紙,  ...

klm402

其實我到依家一刻都唔係意思話女校比男女校好, 只係想做多一重保障咋. 考到男女龍校當然好, 但如只考到女龍校既AT LEAST 唔洗上小一時又再出去玩扣門呢個GAME.
女校有女校既膽憂, 男女校又有男女校帶來既煩惱, 重點我認為係作為父母, 我地可以做既就係同小朋友多傾多講, 希望同佢地保持良好既溝通. 情況有D好似你怕佢地用較剪會整親手指仔, 但係唔係永遠都唔比佢試下去用. 正確係要教懂佢地點樣正確運用.
呢個係我個人既小小睇法囉.

原帖由 manman0808 於 11-11-8 09:20 發表
But if you were your daughter, and your mom put you in a girl's school for the next 15 yrs, what do you think?  Do you think it is really that good for you?

You have nothing to lose even you don't ap ...

klm402

上年同今年INTERVIEW好多都由C6負責, 不過佢都唔認同我呢個睇法先頭痛囉...我直頭覺得佢今本好似唔明我想緊咩. ><....唔通真係等到上小一見到條路點行先黎再煩過, 我真係怕怕了....依家幼稚園D位都咁爭法, 小學情況會點大家都估到一二啦.

原帖由 Tigerpooh 於 11-11-8 09:35 發表
我老公上年都係同你老公差不多的，但後來間間都reject/waiting, 俞考俞多間，後來我直情叫佢自己跟入去面試，佢先發覺不妙。

今年就合作好多了。佢終於知道lee個年代的玩法   真係唔到我地唔担心

但你都要小心身體 ...