I'm confused...

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原帖由 ngkwongtak 於 11-11-2 08:19 發表
唉...衣d班, 好睇小朋友性格, 吳枝道都有上哂果d面試班架.  仲上哂三個階段添呀.  最終而家點吖?  次次去親interview都好似去咗奈何橋飲孟婆湯咁, 咩都唔記得哂, 果d禮儀呀, 聲線呀, 答問題既反應, 全部欠奉.  一如 ...

真係笑到想喊，笑中有淚......真係充滿苦澀味。

WhiteBerry

哈哈哈! 咁可以點?

GIPW

Recently an educator share a something with me that really ease my mind

When you are a kids, fighting for a school the school will view your general ability.  But when those kids grow up, they will become a common people as they are just general and no speciality.  But usually a person that could outsand from the crowd in the society is a specialist and this will not be easily discovered at young stage.  
So just relax and stay cool.  Parents is the primary learning role model in primary stage and not the school.
Look at Steve Jobs, if he had a very smooth and planned education right from childhood, he might not be what he 'WAS'.  

The only thing we should not lost from them is confidence

GIPW

I actually have the same feeling as 樓主 once -  by the time I know he could not secure a second in in Paul Boys, this drove me crazy.  Just thinking is there anything I have missed out or have I not equipped him enough.  As time goes, I am more relax now - I should not pre-judge them just by interview or the success of getting into a school.
Life is long - he is just 5 and we have to be with him for another 10-20 years , going through the highs and lows.  
This I treat as a challenge for me and him. Just like the old days when I go for interview for jobs - fail apply for another one  東家唔打 打西家. As long as they have a good attitude and EQ, I am sure they will find ther own way (自己新天地）

That is how I always console myself

jpang0107

唔好上個D面試班, 晒$晒時間, 小朋友都上左幾個月, 暫時得一個2nd In, 甘大把, 激死.  一線個D死晒.

fatsin

極度同意

原帖由 jpang0107 於 11-11-2 17:01 發表
唔好上個D面試班, 晒$晒時間, 小朋友都上左幾個月, 暫時得一個2nd In, 甘大把, 激死.  一線個D死晒.

七點半

原帖由 ngkwongtak 於 11-11-2 16:43 發表
我睇到唔知邊一個post話反而屋村樓下飛髮鋪個仔有好多second in, 個靚仔由細係鋪頭見人多過見塵呀.  衣d咪sure win 囉.  

睇黎遲d會有d暑期班開架喇, 叫做
"幼兒生活體驗工作假期", 會有不同工種及工作環境, 為期 ...

Cookietk

I wanted to say that this system is very harsh for 5 year olds and their parents.  We are talking about 5 year olds - I don't remember when I was their age, I knew so much at that time.  I find myself wondering if I haven't taught my daughter enough vocabulary and math formulas.  But should I even do that?  They are so tiny but in this society, they are "supposed" to know so much and be so smart and mature to be recognized by these schools as "acceptable".  A 15 minute to one hour performance for a 5 year old cannot be conclusive for their future performance.  Plus, other equally important aspects are not being tested - for example, how much they love and care for their family and friends.  I therefore tell myself to not take these interviews too personally.  My child is as precious as always, her and my worthiness has not been diminished one bit from this grueling process.

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原帖由 Cookietk 於 11-11-2 09:31 發表
I wanted to say that this system is very harsh for 5 year olds and their parents.  We are talking about 5 year olds - I don't remember when I was their age, I knew so much at that time.  I find myself ...

但個痛苦位係, 而家咁即係叫未有著落, 呢份比拼同折磨就要延續申長落去，講真心話真係唔到我唔羡慕有好開始既家長。

因為，路曲折就行得更辛苦。我真係冇咩時間，或者呢個就係我個仔輸既原因。

[ 本帖最後由 無氣同你講 於 11-11-2 09:37 編輯 ]

無氣同你講

BTW, 我覺得我而家好似果D比老公拋棄既怨婦,

對著D學校講: 你仲咩唔要我同我個仔?

WAKAKAKKA

[ 本帖最後由 無氣同你講 於 11-11-2 09:45 編輯 ]

CMWmama

我都一樣, 反省反省再反省! 仔仔有咩唔好？我有冇做得唔好？但，跌低後，起身要起得快！我已疊埋心水，轉戰其他，要比仔仔知道，人生咁多挫折，最緊要係面對的態度！
做過好榜樣，積極點！大家努力！

無氣同你講

原帖由 CMWmama 於 11-11-2 11:30 發表
我都一樣, 反省反省再反省! 仔仔有咩唔好？我有冇做得唔好？但，跌低後，起身要起得快！我已疊埋心水，轉戰其他，要比仔仔知道，人生咁多挫折，最緊要係面對的態度！
做過好榜樣，積極點！大家努力！ ...

係岩架, 做個好榜樣。

無氣同你講

原帖由 ilj 於 11-11-2 12:12 發表
比拼同折磨就要延續申長落去..我唔想申到6月...

我驚唔係到6月, 驚要到8月......

lbbching

成日俾人問：你揀左學校未？我都會答：係學校揀我，唔係我揀學校。:;pppp: