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Contrary to what you think.....to be successful in getting accepted by good IS schools .....I have learned (this is my opinion).... it has to do with the personality and attitude and mentality of the child, as oppose to the "academic" training most "local" parents think is the key to success.
After my kids have switched from local school, to now IS... I am NOW also learning how to be a supportive IS parent.
It's very hard to explain. The whole concept of education in IS school is different from local system.
One easy to understand example, and this has taken more than 2 years for me to understand and accept and now I finally took the step.
My daughter started Kumon at first, and then after 8 months, I quit her Kumon, and switched to Enopi and it's been over 2 years at Enopi.
It has NOT helped much, in fact, it's kept my daughter fixed in a "frame". She can't get out of the "fixed frame" when doing math.
And her teacher at her present IS is DEAD on about her weakness in just teaching her one term. I have to QUIT her Enopi now.
Instead, the way to help my daughter is to play more board games, to play more dice games, to play more snakes and ladders to she can learn to bond two numbers quickly. I am advised to "cook" with my 3 year old.... to ask him to measure spoons of sugar, or flour, to mix in certain direction, to make shapes of cookies..... etc.
I can't explain further, but I get it. Hope this example gives you an idea what I am getting at.
I am trying VERY hard to undo the "frame of mind" and methods that have been planted in my kids' minds, and my own. It takes time, but it's starting to work.
This is the most exciting, and happy times in my household. My kids learned ALOT more than before, and they keep saying they LOVE school.
Each day they come home, they want to show us what they learned, and they will talk about things from nature, to weather, to manners, to numbers, to spelling games, to reading maps, to learning shapes and what you can do with them, and where you can find them in daily life....
It's great.
So, don't focus your child on academics like sit down exercises and memorizing how to speak and answer.... it's all about being a "well rounded" person, knowledge, thinking, curiosity, imagination, creativity, and being observing what's around us.....
It's alot more work, and alot more time is required than dictation, drilling spelling, and doing math exercises.....
Just my two cents.
BUT schools like GSIS..... once you get to the grades beyond Kindergarten, you DO need to traing your child academics as well, like reading, writing stories, math...... AS well as what I mentioned above.
Successful IS applicants also tend to be quite verbal, and assertive, and not shy. Just my observations.
[ 本帖最後由 Pianokc 於 10-2-1 02:42 編輯 ] |
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