迫害型 ?

stliu

我係在職媽媽. 上年K1時, 其實很輕鬆, 只是間中和仔仔溫習老師所教的中文字咭. 日常的功課也相應簡單. 我返工也絕對可以應付. 老師很多時在課堂都有跟小朋友溫習所學的.
學校沒有要求太多的親子習作, 所以在職家長算輕鬆.
今年我仔仔K2, 開學後不久, 功課相對比K1為多, 但都能自動自覺完成. 溫習的時間, 我個人而言, 相對比K1也多, 老實說, 我們可以不用每天和他複習的, 因為我相信老師在學校也會做, 只是, 小朋友的表現有時會不穩定(粗心大意), 如果能有時間和他在家溫習, 我相信事半功倍, 因為所學的也是他自己得益. 我家裡還有個7個月大的BB, 你可以想像, 其實分出來給大仔的時間也不會太多.
如果我選了一間很多課外習作, 又或者親子習作(其實即係父母習作)的學校, 相信一定不會像現在輕鬆.
我認識的KV mami們, 很多都是在職媽媽, 大家都應付自如. 學校確實為孩子建立了良好的學習習慣(這個真是一生受用!). 每天早上, 我們都上班了, 我仔仔自己會乖乖在楷簿(事先替他起了簿頭, 數個詞語...)練習寫字. 這個方法是老師教的, 而我們也不費吹灰之力, 仔仔就每天乖乖溫習.

原帖由 primrose_bb 於 09-12-9 09:55 發表
可以問問各位媽媽，是不是在職媽媽，還是全職媽媽？因爲聽到小朋友能自動自覺做功課，真的很感動，也很吸引，但是是因爲媽媽們是全職媽媽嗎的原因？因爲有點兒擔心自己是在職媽媽，出來的效果跟大家有所出入。 ...

TaTa83

NICHOLE123, 我正當想開個topic問一d關於kv ge問題, 點知俾你快我一步tim,你小朋友咁叻叻, 我覺得你唔需要擔心太多, 嘻嘻嘻~


見到有咁多kv家長熱心咁為我地呢班新生家長解答問題, 實在有一種很窩心ge感覺, 我發覺我已愛上了kv了,(之前係暗戀, 即係個種1516, 知d又唔知d ge感覺), 希望我地小朋友會讀得開心啦~

謝謝多位家長~

NICOLE123

原帖由 TaTa83 於 09-12-9 11:27 發表
NICHOLE123, 我正當想開個topic問一d關於kv ge問題, 點知俾你快我一步tim,你小朋友咁叻叻, 我覺得你唔需要擔心太多, 嘻嘻嘻~


見到有咁多kv家長熱心咁為我地呢班新生家長解答問題, 實在有一種很窩心ge感覺, ...

tata83,
過獎!!我仔仔一d都唔叻呢.天外有天,人外有人....
我都覺得呢度好warm. 好開心同一班有heart既家長一齊.
佢地有幾個仲私下pm我.真係好有心

primrose_bb

原帖由 stliu 於 09-12-9 10:55 發表
我係在職媽媽. 上年K1時, 其實很輕鬆, 只是間中和仔仔溫習老師所教的中文字咭. 日常的功課也相應簡單. 我返工也絕對可以應付. 老師很多時在課堂都有跟小朋友溫習所學的.
學校沒有要求太多的親子習作, 所以在職家長 ...

你的小朋友真的好乖呢！希望我女女都可以做到啦！可以問一下KV有什麽活動的？如旅行，家長日之類的。還有如果大時大節，會不會有一些不同的活動，如讓小孩穿自己衣服之類的？

謝謝呀！

stliu

哈哈, 你形容得好得意!
想當日, 我仔考倒KV時, 自己又係15,16, 因為對於KV的傳聞真係太多同有D恐怖! 但來到呢版, 真係多得好多熱心家長, 不厭其煩咁樣細心詳細解答, 實在好似苦海遇倒明燈咁!我相信你在未來日子, 都一樣會遇到熱心家長, 並且有機會響呢度識倒D好朋友! 而小朋友也會有愉快學習的日子.

原帖由 TaTa83 於 09-12-9 11:27 發表
見到有咁多kv家長熱心咁為我地呢班新生家長解答問題, 實在有一種很窩心ge感覺, 我發覺我已愛上了kv了,(之前係暗戀, 即係個種1516, 知d又唔知d ge感覺), 希望我地小朋友會讀得開心啦~

謝謝多位家長~

TaTa83

原帖由 stliu 於 09-12-9 11:54 發表
哈哈, 你形容得好得意!
想當日, 我仔考倒KV時, 自己又係15,16, 因為對於KV的傳聞真係太多同有D恐怖! 但來到呢版, 真係多得好多熱心家長, 不厭其煩咁樣細心詳細解答, 實在好似苦海遇倒明燈咁!我相信你在未來日子, 都 ...

我arm arm去完你個blog探你兩位仔仔呀, 好可愛呀~
睇得出佢地感情好好, 果然教導有方, 嘻嘻嘻~仲有你分享你仔仔ge k1生活, 真係過得好開心, 一d都無傳聞中咁恐怖呢~

Felicia726

Hi NICOLE123,
It really depends. It's hard to compare your child with others.
I feel bad to put my eldest daughter to KV because she had such stressful school life there that has negative impact on her emotions and wellness. She was unlucky that she got assigned to stern teachers in K2 and K3. She said KV teachers were not nice (she didn't tell me that time, I just knew about these recently. She is now in P1). Well, she was quiet and disciplined in KV and teachers didn't scold her or penalised her, it's just that the teachers scolded and were mean to the naughty ones that scared her. She didn't like doing homework since the 2nd term of K2. The teachers there were so strict that they were not generous enough to give 3 stars/A on homework to encourage my girl even though she had made great effort. Well, I know this is life but she was just a 4 to 5 years old kid, she wouldn't understand. She was so frightened to erase her homework because her teacher told them not to erase or else no 3 stars. So, it really depends on how your child take the words of teachers.
My younger son who is now in K2 takes things a lot easier than his sister. He does homework a lot faster than his sister. He is fine with 1 star or 2 stars. He doesn't really care as long as he finds his writing okay. He also learns faster than his sister so that he has no trouble memorising words and doing maths. He is more responsive that we know if he understands the school materials or not.
2 children from same family have different characters, capabilities and qualities, not to say children from different families.
I do admit that KV provides good training to students so that they could adapt to primary one school life easier. However, I think that the child's qualities is more important. One can excel wherever he goes if he has the potential.

原帖由 NICOLE123 於 09-12-7 16:07 發表
kv成日比人感覺係迫害型.
好多功課,小朋友做到喊......
我明白以上可能只係個別例子.

可唔可以有家長可以分享下你地小朋友每日用幾多時間做功課呢 ?
有無小朋友真係跟唔上而要退學呢？

ｔｈａｎｋｓ！！！！！ ...

MAMAMEEE

原帖由 Felicia726 於 09-12-9 14:04 發表
Hi NICOLE123,
It really depends. It's hard to compare your child with others.
I feel bad to put my eldest daughter to KV because she had such stressful school life there that has negative impact on he ...

It is regret to learn your eldest daughter's experience in KV.  However, i would like to ask why you applied for KV for your younger son despite of the experience. OR, have you tried another KG, such as SC.  Eventually, what make your final decision?

[ 本帖最後由 MAMAMEEE 於 09-12-9 14:36 編輯 ]

MAMAMEEE

原帖由 primrose_bb 於 09-12-9 11:53 發表


你的小朋友真的好乖呢！希望我女女都可以做到啦！可以問一下KV有什麽活動的？如旅行，家長日之類的。還有如果大時大節，會不會有一些不同的活動，如讓小孩穿自己衣服之類的？

謝謝呀！ ...

係呀! 有關活動呢部份我都想知多d. 可惜點解大家到呢度就停咗? 傳聞中KV無任何活動, 寧願將所有的時間集中在Academic上是否屬實呢?

其實, 我都有去SC個版去睇, 但係KV呢度真係感到團結, 分享, 有問題一起分擔的感覺. 希望得到您哋係呢方面進一步的回應啦!

Felicia726

Hi MAMAMEEE,
Because I didn't know about all these that time. My daughter didn't say a word. She is a very passive girl.
Not until recently she told me about all these.
But my son is lucky so far that his K2 homeroom teacher is very nice. I believe that he will be fine at KV because his EQ is higher than my daughter.
Now that my girl is studying in Maryknoll and she loves this school very much. I told her to forget all those bad things in kindergarten and enjoy her happy primary school life. Her P1 homeroom teacher is very nice and lovingly. My daughter loves her very much. Haha, to be frank, she considered KV teachers were all ugly. well well well, innocent talk from a child, yet, maybe true from her heart. She was just unlucky with KV, I guess. Ooops, don't get me wrong, her results with KV were quite good. She at least did her best at KV despite the fact she disliked school.

原帖由 MAMAMEEE 於 09-12-9 14:28 發表


It is regret to learn your eldest daughter's experience in KV.  However, i would like to ask why you applied for KV for your younger son despite of the experience. OR, have you tried another KG, suc ...

NICOLE123

原帖由 Felicia726 於 09-12-9 14:47 發表
Hi MAMAMEEE,
Because I didn't know about all these that time. My daughter didn't say a word. She is a very passive girl.
Not until recently she told me about all these.
But my son is lucky so far tha ...

多謝你既分享
聽完你講我會更加留意仔仔.
如果佢真係有問題..最多轉校

MAMAMEEE

Thank you for your sharing, Felicia726, may be the qualities of KV and your daughter were not totally matched at that time.  We can see you offer very good foundation to your kids and both of them can well perform on it.

jeremyphlam

原帖由 NICOLE123 於 09-12-7 16:23 發表


我其實好想比仔仔入ｋｖ
不過身邊人人都同我講小朋友好辛苦
緊係去ｓｃ啦．．．．．．．
我都係想小朋友早ｄ準備入小學所以想入ｋｖ
不過身邊人比左好多壓力我．．．好似我迫個仔入火坑咁．．． ...

"身邊人人"d細路有冇讀過KV先，咪人講你就信啦，聽我地呢d用家講。

KV最叻的地方係你個小朋友o係完全冇壓力下學會好多野，最緊要係佢地明白讀書係小朋友自己的責任，自動自覺做功課溫書。

雖然有默書、測驗、考試，但你完全唔知幾時發生，亦唔使幫小朋友溫書，學校自動波搞掂晒。我個仔K3，我一次陪讀也未做過。

功課也不算多，中英數每日每樣一版，平均半小時完成；K2開始學校鼓勵學生自己溫書，我個仔會用約十分鐘溫吓學過嘅野。我每晚返屋企只係循例檢查一吓功課。所謂的親子功課（即係掛名一齊做但其實父母做晒嗰d）一年至多一、兩樣，星期六、日從來沒有功課，所有時間也是你們的。

不過，如果你係喜歡事事參與的家長KV不是你杯茶，讀了三年老師也很少call我地。不過學校歡迎你隨時致電查詢小朋友的情況，並可隨時於星期六約見老師。

三年所見，KV老師都是很有愛心和經驗，仔仔也很喜歡她們。每年兩次的家長日她們都可以很清楚指出我個仔的强弱處並建議幫助他的方法。

結括來說，仔仔和他的同學都是活潑可愛，絕不是面無血色，從火坑上來般。

NICOLE123

原帖由 jeremyphlam 於 09-12-9 15:21 發表


"身邊人人"d細路有冇讀過KV先，咪人講你就信啦，聽我地呢d用家講。

KV最叻的地方係你個小朋友o係完全冇壓力下學會好多野，最緊要係佢地明白讀書係小朋友自己的責任，自動自覺做功課溫書。

雖然有默書、測驗、考試，但你完 ...

thanks!!
其實呢..我開左呢個topic
你地真係幫到好多15 16既家長
最初開呢個topic都好驚比人插..

jeremyphlam

原帖由 MAMAMEEE 於 09-12-9 14:35 發表


係呀! 有關活動呢部份我都想知多d. 可惜點解大家到呢度就停咗? 傳聞中KV無任何活動, 寧願將所有的時間集中在Academic上是否屬實呢?

其實, 我都有去SC個版去睇, 但係KV呢度真係感到團結, 分享, 有問題一起分擔的感 ...

學校每兩個月有一次生日會，但如果你想要親子旅行、萬聖節親子扮野大賽等KV的確沒有。要留意KV也沒有畢業禮。

我不太讚成"將所有的時間集中在Academic上"這個觀點。第一，我個仔絕對唔知乜野叫Academic，他只覺得學習是遊戲的一部份。第二，是我個人觀感，我覺得學校的責任是教好我的小朋友，呢d嘢親子活動我放假自己會和小朋友搞，要我專登請假去參加？No way !

但如果你們覺得這些親子回憶是很重要的，那麼必須三思，可能其他KGs會適合你們多點。

NICOLE123

原帖由 jeremyphlam 於 09-12-9 15:53 發表

學校每兩個月有一次生日會，但如果你想要親子旅行、萬聖節親子扮野大賽等KV的確沒有。要留意KV也沒有畢業禮。

我不太讚成"將所有的時間集中在Academic上"這個觀點。第一，我個仔絕對唔知乜野叫Academic，他只覺得學習是 ...

咁無親子旅行係唔係即係唔會有旅行呀?有無其他機會老師帶小朋友出去架 ? 無畢業禮...好似有小小遺憾

stliu

活動方面, KV每兩個月有一次生日會.其他家長話K2 & K3會有參觀, 我仔今年才K2, 所以呢方面我唔知道. 佢地每年都有運動會.
其實學校並唔係乜野活動都冇, 只係呢D活動係俾學生, 家長係冇得參與的. 我呢D在職家長, 有時都好矛盾, 又想學校多活動, 但自己又其實未必可以請假次次出現. 可能響我的回憶裡會少左佢地活動的畫面, 但在佢地幼小心靈裡, 學校絕對唔係咁DRY...

Felicia726,
我覺得你分析好中肯, 有時家長/用家講學校, 可能都會一面倒. 一間學校, 咁多個老師, 真係遇到冇咁好的老師都唔奇.
仲要睇小朋友係咩性情.
所以, 我地唔係搵一間最好的, 而係搵一間適合的學校.
希望各準K1生的家長們, 都可以揀倒合適的學校俾自己的小寶貝!

原帖由 MAMAMEEE 於 09-12-9 14:35 發表


係呀! 有關活動呢部份我都想知多d. 可惜點解大家到呢度就停咗? 傳聞中KV無任何活動, 寧願將所有的時間集中在Academic上是否屬實呢?

stliu

TaTa83,

哈哈, 多謝你光臨啊, 呢幾日點擊率會創新高!
日子真係過得好快架, K1的生活真係飛一般過去.
希望你都為小朋友揀倒間合適的學校!

原帖由 TaTa83 於 09-12-9 12:17 發表

我arm arm去完你個blog探你兩位仔仔呀, 好可愛呀~
睇得出佢地感情好好, 果然教導有方, 嘻嘻嘻~仲有你分享你仔仔ge k1生活, 真係過得好開心, 一d都無傳聞中咁恐怖呢~ ...

jeremyphlam

原帖由 NICOLE123 於 09-12-9 16:21 發表


咁無親子旅行係唔係即係唔會有旅行呀?有無其他機會老師帶小朋友出去架 ? 無畢業禮...好似有小小遺憾

只是個人意見，呢個年代旅行我地都可以帶小朋友去，唔使學校啦。

學校每星期有二堂PE，每日有小息可以玩樹屋、滑梯或喪跑。

畢業禮就真係冇辦法，要諗清楚了。

chingchingb.ma

KV有birthday parties(每2個月一次)可以casual wear or fancy dressing, Halloween時畫到大花面添。旅行K2開始有,舊年亞女去沙田文化博物館參觀,KV亦會有運動會。佢哋亦有結業/畢業表演,不過係唔受家長玩咁解姐。

KV其實有好多活動教學原素,有唔少科學/常識實驗,e.g.物件浮/沉實驗、做再造紙....,親子美勞,show & tell,往年更有奧運project、環保project（舊年有親子環保勞作及標語創作比賽）,等小朋友對d topics有更深嘅認識,絕對唔會好似外面所講嘅傳统。好多理論都以輕鬆簡易方法教小朋友,學得開心又入腦,絕對唔係填鴨式死記!!

原帖由 MAMAMEEE 於 09-12-9 14:35 發表


係呀! 有關活動呢部份我都想知多d. 可惜點解大家到呢度就停咗? 傳聞中KV無任何活動, 寧願將所有的時間集中在Academic上是否屬實呢?

其實, 我都有去SC個版去睇, 但係KV呢度真係感到團結, 分享, 有問題一起分擔的感 ...

[ 本帖最後由 chingchingb.ma 於 09-12-9 16:44 編輯 ]