報讀直資須知(New)

funnyguy

If parents have no expectation on their children, they will not pay for a place in a DSS school. Like me , I want my daughter to attain the great achievements as those in the famous schools.

If we ask for 95% from our children, does it mean they will get 95% in reality after we all have tried hard?

If we ask for 75% of our children, it does not mean we can let them learn themselves without our guidance and monitoring.

The reason is we always expect higher but the outcome is lower.

funnyguy

If parents have no expectation on their children, they will not pay for a place in a DSS school. Like me , I want my daughter to attain the great achievements as those in the famous schools.

If we ask for 95% from our children, does it mean they will get 95% in reality after we all have tried hard?

If we ask for 75% of our children, it does not mean we can let them learn themselves without our guidance and monitoring.

The reason is we always expect higher but the outcome is lower.

fongyuen

funnyguy,

其實，學校唔係靈丹妙藥，無論直資、津校定官校，家長係唔可以諗住小朋友入咗學校，家長就可以唔使操心，小朋友會自然地好似工廠嘅優質產品咁出返嚟。除非小朋友絕頂聰明/自律性強，否則家長都係要响課後幫小朋友補習/搵人幫小朋友補習。

可唔可以PM話我知係邊間直資？

maisyraymond

but the cruel reality is most parents always have high, and sometimes unreasonable, expectations on their children without fully understanding and assessing at what level their children are.

I have once heard one teacher teaching in a top band 1 primary school said whenever teachers give out test and exam papers, the next day they will receive numerous parents callings, urging for a few more marks because their little princes and princesses are unhappy about the results and they refuse to take meals.  I guess it is NOT the children who has lost the appetite just because of a few marks on the papers.  It is the parents who can't face the reality!

原帖由 fongyuen 於 09-9-8 06:46 發表
funnyguy,

其實，學校唔係靈丹妙藥，無論直資、津校定官校，家長係唔可以諗住小朋友入咗學校，家長就可以唔使操心，小朋友會自然地好似工廠嘅優質產品咁出返嚟。除非小朋友絕頂聰明/自律性強，否則家長都係要响課後幫小朋友補習 ...

TomatoCat

Does it mean that the schools will prefer those kids with mother as housewife rather than go out to work?

原帖由 smartcar 於 09-9-2 19:11 發表
agreed

我都聽過一位過氣直資校長講過,既然有大把學生比我選擇,我無理由唔選擇果d有父母(即屋企)支援既學生。呢個係好現實既...

school pick responsible parents. ...

猴子爸

Sure! I've heard that a lot of 1st tier schools prefer admitting students with a full time mom who can provide full assistance on the studies and moral education.  DBSPD is one of them.  But of course, this is not the only determining factor.  At the end of the day, it's about the child himself.  If he is super smart, no school would have any reason to reject him.

G-Ma

我相信唔係所有家長都為分數去揀直資, 直資既出現的確比家長多左選擇去揀合適既學校, 而唔係只靠抽獎.  我自己揀直資主要係因為學校提供到好好既語文環境, 愉快教學, 有中學直上壓力唔大, 至於囡囡可唔可以攞到高分數, 呢樣野真係要睇佢自己既資質同父母可以付出幾多時間, 無可能靠哂學校就可以有個出類拔萃既小朋友.

原帖由 funnyguy 於 09-9-8 00:53 發表
If parents have no expectation on their children, they will not pay for a place in a DSS school. Like me , I want my daughter to attain the great achievements as those in the famous schools.

If we as ...

myrchan

付了錢的總會覺得自己是客人，得不到心水貨品的總會覺得貨不對辦，一肚子難受。

DSS尚算新，唔似傳統學校可追溯多年公開試成績，究竟一個孩子由小一開始讀DSS至中學畢業再上大學，係會點既呢？我真係好想搵個實例睇下。既然兩者教學方向不同，若在學術上，要求DSS同學仔＝傳統學生，好似唔多公平，因為DSS可給予學生的發揮空間，又非傳統學校所能給予。

純粹就教育概念來說，我還是喜歡DSS讓孩子創意和學習興趣更高。因我見阿哥和家姐的女兒，讀傳統名校，成績ok，但全無學習興趣和動力，令父母担心。

但願大家為孩子「買」教育時，做個精明消費者，免得受人誤導，到時去消委會投訴都枉然

G-Ma

選擇學校真係應該要親身多參觀, 多了解, 信自己雙眼好過只係聽人地講.

[ 本帖最後由 G-Ma 於 09-9-8 17:18 編輯 ]

fongyuen

原帖由 myrchan 於 09-9-8 14:46 發表
付了錢的總會覺得自己是客人，得不到心水貨品的總會覺得貨不對辦，一肚子難受。

DSS尚算新，唔似傳統學校可追溯多年公開試成績，究竟一個孩子由小一開始讀DSS至中學畢業再上大學，係會點既呢？我真係好想搵個實例睇下。既然兩者 ...

我本身教傳統中學多年，猶記得上次SARS停課學生歡喜若狂的樣子，反觀活動教學的學校，學生一遇停課會非常失落，分別就在於此。前者視返學是苦差，後者視返學是樂事。孰優？敦劣？只有家長自己判斷。

sweetyboy

funnyguy

some good responses again

funnyguy

I don't mean we can shift our duty to look after our children. However, it sounds funny if we have to teach them many subjects again at home instead of learning at school themselves

fongyuen

原帖由 funnyguy 於 09-9-9 12:41 發表
I don't mean we can shift our duty to look after our children. However, it sounds funny if we have to teach them many subjects again at home instead of learning at school themselves

That's why I want to know which DSS your daugther was in.

As far as I know, not many DSSs like this. It is strange to say the DSS students experience ineffective learning at school.

Certainly, if "learning" to you means reciting, drilling and repetitively doing similar homework (in order to cope with TSA, etc.), DSS (with activity-based learning) is not the right choice for you.

[ 本帖最後由 fongyuen 於 09-9-9 15:10 編輯 ]

jamhappybobo

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 09-9-8 11:35 發表
亦有部分直資, focus不嬲都唔係以學術行先, 而係講生命教育, 講發展小朋友各方面balance, 例如team building, presentation skills, 敢 ...

would you please tell me which school it is?

ziyi

港同

原帖由 jamhappybobo 於 09-9-9 15:46 發表


would you please tell me which school it is?

funnyguy

You are lucky. I have difficulty in finding this message

shala

我想問係咪準備去外國升學先揀直資謮?
如果唔係,咁小學上中學,係咪所有直資都會有中學比所有自己嘅小學生直上
直資係咪同傳統中學都係謮咁多年?咁大學呢,如果唔出國
前景會如何?
其實我都想同阿囝報直資,但對直資和傳統學校嘅瞭解不太深,
希望大家不要見笑

G-Ma

讀直資最終唔一定要出外國讀, 好多直資課程都同官津一樣, 可以上本地中學及大學.  

直資既好處係佢地既有政府資助, 亦會向家長收取學費, 所以資源上會比官津好d, 再加上直資學校可以自由收生, 自行編制課程, 相對學生程度會較相若, 學習起上黎會事半功倍.

原帖由 shala 於 09-9-9 22:35 發表
我想問係咪準備去外國升學先揀直資謮?
如果唔係,咁小學上中學,係咪所有直資都會有中學比所有自己嘅小學生直上
直資係咪同傳統中學都係謮咁多年?咁大學呢,如果唔出國
前景會如何?
其實我都想同阿囝報直資,但對直資和 ...

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