細女應否repeat k1?

TaTa83

原帖由 澄曜媽媽 於 09-4-3 16:36 發表
咁如果我真的要repeat k1 的話, 我是否應該俾佢在原校repeat呢? 因如果要重讀同一堆書, 我又怕佢厭. 但要轉校, 又不知邊間好過kv. 因kv出名課程深, 我怕轉了第二間, 佢又唔慣. 另外, 如果現在才決定轉第二間, 係唔係 ...

不過你個case又有d唔同wor, 我覺得你女女真係超班馬, kv讀得上又怕咩? 咁你女女班主任有無俾d意見你呀?

foggyao

原帖由 TaTa83 於 09-4-3 16:50 發表



其實我自已當初都無諗過n1有咁多野學, 都係諗俾佢學下群體生活, 好過係屋企咁, 因為我仔仔係插班, 所以有d人地學左佢都未識, 所以就算repeat n1都係學返之前miss左d野, 呢點係我自已咁諗jar, 佢讀緊LH, 你小朋友 ...

我仔仔係0812呀，但我都要諗定喇，因為如要佢做細，今年要報名嘛。

不過，因平日得一個姐姐湊，所以我想佢早一年返學，唔洗屋企到hea，我係預佢要repeat，不過就係心大心細，唔知n1定k1好，聽完你講，會n1，因我就係忘記佢要足兩歲先入學，即係會miss人上學期。

但其實我都好怕無學校收佢，因聽好多人講呢兩年好多bb出世，有好多學校，根本一見係細b已reject唔收，or 只擺waiting! 我仔呢類12月一定被 '歧視'，重要加埋係12月底，一定係 '歧歧視'啦! 不過，我都好明年頭同年尾出世真係爭好遠!

TaTa83

原帖由 foggyao 於 09-4-6 00:23 發表


我仔仔係0812呀，但我都要諗定喇，因為如要佢做細，今年要報名嘛。

不過，因平日得一個姐姐湊，所以我想佢早一年返學，唔洗屋企到hea，我係預佢要repeat，不過就係心大心細，唔知n1定k1好，聽完你講，會n1，因我就係忘記佢要足兩歲 ...

你好有心呀, 想當年我仲傻更更, miss哂d報n1既日子呀,好彩依家有得讀jar~
我都同意俾佢地讀n1, 除非自已好有時間教就另計la, 其實邊間都好, 我地呢細細仔無計, 無得拺, 出唔出名都報左先, 到時有得插班再考慮, 我06年已經係俾人歧視, 諗返舊年以細仔身份考根德園, 朋友親戚知我考完特登走去幫我問下個老師我個仔考成點, 個老師仲話其實我呀仔ok, 不過話學校唔收咁細, 輸月份wor, 你話呢d係咪歧視丫?不過我地呢d細細仔都有好處, if舊年有心儀學校唔收都可以this year 多個chance再考過lor~

LITTLESPICY

Hi foggyao, i have the same problem as you. my son is a super small boy and will study pre-N1 in the Jan 2010.  I am still thinking to repeat Pre-N1 or K1.

But I will let him to interview, if target school accept him, i may let him to repeat K1, otherwise, may repeart pre-N1.... what do u think?

原帖由 foggyao 於 09-4-3 15:29 發表


咁係咪即係你仔仔會讀兩年n1?
我仔仔又係12月底超細仔, 我一定會比佢repeat一年做大仔, 但我稔緊佢應repeat n1好, 定k1好呢?

因n1凈係玩, 而k1好似會有多d嘢學咁. ...

莎莎莉莉

我個仔係十一月底出世的
我的經驗係:
repeat K1, 但轉另一間學校
我由佢兩歲已俾佢返n1
跟住試升k1
原先間學校程度係比較高果種
我都問過老師, 究竟讀番n1定試升k1好
因為佢n1只係插班, 由四月開始讀
但學英文字母人地已學到n了
學d中文字又深
搞到我個仔學到唔湯唔水咁....
但老師都話, 試升啦
跟住升左K1
但係開頭真係跟得唔好
個仔返學遊魂
俾老師成日要坐係佢旁邊做功課
(雖然我都唔明點解k1要做咁多功課)
個仔唔多投入學校生活
要幾個月先開始適應
但我覺得佢都係相比d同學, 無跟得咁好
所以, 同佢轉番另一間學校
讀番n1, 然後在八月repeat K1
希望佢跟得好d, 個根基打得好d
仲有係轉全日班
so far返左幾日, 我覺得幾好
佢雖然係新返呢間學校, 但係, 幾投入
同埋, 佢依家都只係三歲, 我都係想佢學番多d規距先, 例如要坐定定吃飯...
我唔介意佢三歲九個月先讀番k1
或者係男仔啦, 睇得出佢地係坐唔定的~~起碼我個仔係咁....

莎莎莉莉

仲有係, 我始終係唔擔心幼稚園
幼稚園難極有限
最擔心係去到小三小四
因為課程係會突然變深的
有些細仔就會係呢個時候追唔上
所以, 我寧願保險D
等佢做好晒準備先上小學

莎莎莉莉

至於年齡, 更加唔駛擔心吧
我自己都係十二月出世的
做大女讀書
其實都不過係大我D同屆同學幾個月
咁多年都托賴一帆風順
後尾仲用會考成績早一年入左中大, 唔駛考A LEVEL添....
當然我阿媽無大女細女的概念
只係咁啱我遲一年讀幼稚園啫

mickfan

Never repeat, it is not good for small kid.

foggyao

原帖由 TaTa83 於 09-4-6 11:16 發表



你好有心呀, 想當年我仲傻更更, miss哂d報n1既日子呀,好彩依家有得讀jar~
我都同意俾佢地讀n1, 除非自已好有時間教就另計la, 其實邊間都好, 我地呢細細仔無計, 無得拺, 出唔出名都報左先, 到時有得插班再考慮, 我 ...

哈哈! 唔係我有心呀, 係有左阿女經驗咋! 嗰時我都係過晒d報名時間㗎! 我女係11月細女, 09年9月會做細入k1, 舊年11月開始去interview, 有好多老師都會先睇佢出生月份, 同講句, 話佢in時未夠兩歲!

而女女而家讀緊pn, 一路都比老師話佢好bb, 唔係d野佢唔識, 不過係佢唔聽教, 要下下督住先做小小, 而佢講嘢亦唔叻.  但相反有d 12月細b, 就好成熟, 講嘢已嘴jei jei, 所以真係好睇細路本身!

我女女就唔會讀番而家呢間pn, 但因呢間pn係女女1歲8個月時已開始讀, 唔係插班.  所以當初我稔, 如佢入唔到心水k1, 我會比佢做細先升k1, 然後再做大女考多年心水k1.  但女女而家已考到間都係我心水之一嘅k1, 可惜佢被pn老師比d咁嘅評語, 我稔住到時k1都係咁, 我就會要佢repeat k1.

但仔仔情況又有d唔同, 佢真係12月底超超細, 我心打數都要repeat, 因第一年真係得好細成數會有心水學校收, 預左都係插班讀住間先.  所以我聽完大家意見, 可能, 仔仔會repeat n班, 因佢會miss左上學期d內容, 然後做大去考k1.

[ 本帖最後由 foggyao 於 09-4-7 09:06 編輯 ]

TaTa83

原帖由 foggyao 於 09-4-7 09:04 發表


哈哈! 唔係我有心呀, 係有左阿女經驗咋! 嗰時我都係過晒d報名時間㗎! 我女係11月細女, 09年9月會做細入k1, 舊年11月開始去interview, 有好多老師都會先睇佢出生月份, 同講句, 話佢in時未夠兩歲!

而女女而家讀緊pn ...

icic, 預祝你仔仔都考到你心儀ge學校啦~

foggyao

原帖由 TaTa83 於 09-4-7 10:31 發表



icic, 預祝你仔仔都考到你心儀ge學校啦~

多謝你先 , 不過你好叻, pn都已咁用心同溫習! 我真係從來都無咁做, 次次都係等report出話佢邊樣唔得, 我先同佢去操練! 平時, 我真係唔係好識要教佢d乜!

LITTLESPICY,

如你比我揀, 如間pn好似TaTa83嗰間咁, 學到咁多嘢, repeat pn都真係無妨, 因上學期d嘢佢都無學過. 又或者你覺得你仔仔係咪雖然係細仔, 但屬叻叻型, 如係, 比佢升k1再考心水k1做大b都ok.

因我女女係中等嗰隻, 真係樣樣都要踏正歲數先做到嗰款, 所以同年頭b比真係爭好遠, 我好大機會比佢做大b.

carfoon

大仔細仔呢個問題之前都困擾左我一排....

之前聽過趙鈞鴻博士的講座,亦當面問過佢意見, 佢都贊成repeat做大仔呢個理論, 但佢都叫我照俾阿女上K1,再觀察下至決定;

不過令我最困擾的是自己阿女唔算大仔又唔算超細仔, 佢係9月中生日, 返N1時剛剛足2歲, 係"適齡"的;
如果佢係10月或之後生日, 我一定會毫不考慮讓佢repeat做大女!

gigiic

同意, 我個仔今年九月都會轉校repeat K1 做大仔. (雖然班主任話佢某方面知識已有低班程度.) 但我個仔執筆能力依然好唔掂, 先打好基礎最重要.

原帖由 莎莎莉莉 於 09-4-6 22:49 發表
仲有係, 我始終係唔擔心幼稚園
幼稚園難極有限
最擔心係去到小三小四
因為課程係會突然變深的
有些細仔就會係呢個時候追唔上
所以, 我寧願保險D
等佢做好晒準備先上小學 ...

LMCK

我都係, 大仔細仔呢個問題之前都困擾左我一排....

我仔仔係0612細仔, 我本身係諗住比佢做大仔的, 不過始終初為人母, 咩都唔識, 好驚自己做錯決定, 於是不斷問人意見, 但係真係問得太多(例如bk媽咪, 教會的媽咪, 朋友), 搞到自己都係搖擺不定, 支持做大仔或細仔的意見都有, 最後都係決定比仔仔做大仔, 支持我呢個決定正正就如之前helenli所提出的points.

仲有以下幾位 :
趙榮德 - 之前參加過佢的talk, 親自問過佢, 佢話一定係做大仔, 其中一個point係, 好d的小學係喜歡收大仔=足6歲的小朋友.

趙鴻均校長 - 足歲入學較好, 小朋友成熟d.

一個做兒童教材出版社的社長, 是我的朋友.  因為佢的教路, keen mind收左我仔仔今年9月讀pn.

學之園的校長 - 佢話做大仔好d, 不過佢都見過一d好叻的細仔.

因為係呢幾個較有份量的人的意見, 所以我決定比佢做大仔.

另外, 我參加的團契入面, 有好多教師, 問d教幼稚園的, 佢地覺得大仔, 細仔差不多, 所以做細無所謂, 但當問到一d教小學的弟兄姊妹, 佢地差不多一面倒的話做大仔, 因為太細的小朋友係睇唔到個分別, 但當上到小四小五, 細仔好明顯係差d, 例如理解能力方面.

不過, 今年2月尾時我去一間幼兒園interview, 臨走時同校長傾過呢個問題, 佢覺得我仔仔都幾專注, 幾成熟, 唔需要比佢做大仔, 佢仲可以比我仔仔即刻插班讀pn添, 經佢一講, 我又有d動搖喇, 因為我始終未知我仔仔的能力去到邊度, 以上除左我做社長的朋友及教會的人之外, 其他人都未見過我仔仔, 亦因為我當時心儀的HKPS唔收我個仔, 另一方面又等緊Keen Mind的result, 所以我最終比佢在3月插班讀pn, 比佢適應下幼稚園的生活.  而家剛剛讀左1個月.

我係諗住, 萬一Keen Mind唔收, 我會繼續比仔仔今年原校上K1, 但會繼續要佢去考心儀的幼稚園出年repeat K1做大仔, 例如keen mind, kentville, st. cat之類, 因我本身住九龍塘區.

但好彩, 最近收到keen mind 的 result, 佢收左我仔今年9月讀pn, 所以我毫不猶疑就一定比仔仔今年轉校再讀pn, 但係都會再去st. cat同kentville報考K1, 因為就算係keen mind讀pn, 佢都唔係guarantee一定比你上K1的.

莎莎莉莉

原帖由 LMCK 於 09-4-7 18:21 發表
我都係, 大仔細仔呢個問題之前都困擾左我一排....

我仔仔係0612細仔, 我本身係諗住比佢做大仔的, 不過始終初為人母, 咩都唔識, 好驚自己做錯決定, 於是不斷問人意見, 但係真係問得太多(例如bk媽咪, 教會的媽咪, 朋 ...

我都睇左好多趙榮德的專欄同網上講座
我都好buy佢講既野
同埋我唔記得有無記錯係咪佢講
佢做校長時, 話見過通常中五升唔到的學生, 都係細仔細女居多....但真係唔記得係咪咁....係聽過.....

莎莎莉莉

我個仔依家轉番去讀n1, 八月再升番做K1大仔
我問佢依家返學開唔開心, 佢每天都同我講開心, 我已覺得好足夠了......
有時, 做阿媽的, 真係見到佢開心上學去就好了, 畢竟佢只得三歲多d

bakusensei

原帖由 LMCK 於 09-4-7 18:21 發表
我都係, 大仔細仔呢個問題之前都困擾左我一排....

我仔仔係0612細仔, 我本身係諗住比佢做大仔的, 不過始終初為人母, 咩都唔識, 好驚自己做錯決定, 於是不斷問人意見, 但係真係問得太多(例如bk媽咪, 教會的媽咪, 朋 ...

LMCK, thank you for your valuable advice. You really ve done a lot of researches :)

My husband who is teaching in one of the traditional elite schools strongly advised kids being big boy. the path for learning is so long, really don't need to rush.

glad that your son is admitted by KM which you love very much. I ve fds' kids going/gone there and they all commented that school very good, particularly for adapting local curriculum.

Hope your son enjoy the study there :)

serinac

Hi TaTa and others,

My daughter is also an almost the smallest (Dec 29). Now she's studying 3 days in YMCA. One promiment thing is she become more controvert than before. We planned to let her to go to K1 this year, but whether we will allow her to repeat depends on if she can catch up and perhaps admitted by another school (we missed the admission time last year).
Which KG your son is studying?

Tung Tung's mama

原帖由 TaTa83 於 09-4-3 15:59 發表



Btw, 我唔知n1同k1 ge課程係咪好大分別, 但我仔仔返呢兩個月學已經學識認1x個中文字,詞語, letterland phonics都教到去R, 1x個vocabulary,又PTH, colour, shape, number,大小肌肉訓練......所以講真又唔覺佢返學' ...

ttpp

I agree with what you are doing.  Small kids may have some disadvantages, and parents have to pay a little more attention to their kid's progress.

Repeating a year should only be done if there is a real need.  If your kid is already in a good KG and doing well (like 澄曜媽媽), then why bother?  Especially when there is really not much being taught in N1 or K1.  

I will look at this option to repeat as an "extra chance" for small kids. But once you use this quota, your kid will become a Big Kid (a year older) and maybe expected to be better than other kids.

So unless the kid is struggling in some ways, I will not repeat.  You can save this for getting into your favorite primary school.  At my son's school, some kids even studied P1 at another school, then apply for P1 again at his school.

This is just my opinion, and you maybe wise to think carefully before using this "chance".  Every kid is different and what works for others may not work for you.  The final decision is still up to you as a parent.

原帖由 serinac 於 09-4-13 12:14 發表
Hi TaTa and others,

My daughter is also an almost the smallest (Dec 29). Now she's studying 3 days in YMCA. One promiment thing is she become more controvert than before. We planned to let her  ...

[ 本帖最後由 ttpp 於 09-4-13 16:42 編輯 ]

Winnietao

跟唔上就話repeat姐,跟得上仲咩要repeat ? 年紀細唔代表能力唔得