有無資優小朋友今年要報小學?

jokay

[/quote]".......請相信自己的孩子, 只要他們有能力, 在任何地方也能鑽出來!....."

lamlam-mama

其實在此與大家分享我的經歷, 並不只想支持,鼓勵樓主, 還希望藉此告訴所有望子成龍的家長, 孩子的成長並不只在成就……….
我還記得那時失意於小一入學, 或許我並沒有真的怪責兒子的意思, 但我那黑面樣再加上冷淡的說話, 就夠兒子受了!
很多小孩都比較敏感, 尤是對父母的舉動……….對我的兒子來說, 他很直接的覺得自已很不爭氣, 愈來愈緊張, 對自巳的成績和表現非常在意, 處於一個”每天都不開心”的情況。
這樣的惡性循環, 不但苦了孩子, 孩子還可能散發光芒嗎?

Jokay,
我們是經過家庭醫介紹的, 實在我覺得自己還能解決問題時, 不希望知會校方! 有甚麼能幫到你, 可以pm我!

eileenycm

請問當你們知道你的小朋友是資優, 你們有沒有話比小朋友和其他人知道(如老師/家長/朋友)? 如沒有的話, 如有朋友對你說你的小朋友可能是資優兒童, 你會否直接告訴他們?

BBR

我無同人講,無必要,因為個女又唔係叻到飛天,如果有人同我講個女可能係資優我會笑一笑算

原帖由 eileenycm 於 08-11-18 22:26 發表
請問當你們知道你的小朋友是資優, 你們有沒有話比小朋友和其他人知道(如老師/家長/朋友)? 如沒有的話, 如有朋友對你說你的小朋友可能是資優兒童, 你會否直接告訴他們? ...

幼兒媽媽

I do not tell others and my son that he is gifted. I let him to do the test because I want to know his good points and weak points so that I know how to selecting primary school for him and improve his weak side. Normally, the teachers in school have received the training on 特殊教育 would have experience to handle the gifted students because some of them would be too clever or weak in social skill (my personal opinion). There are nearly 30% teachers in SPCC and SFA have possessed the qualification of 特殊教肓 so I think they might consider the assessment. However I did not submit the assessment when applying schools. I did not give any pressure to my son whatever going to interview or the result was failed. When he asked me why he need to interview a lot of schools. I said that I wanted to get more information from school through his interview so that I could choose the best school to suit him.

eileenycm

BBR, 幼兒媽媽

我都係同你們一樣, 沒有比自己小朋友和朋友知, 佢地講我都係一笑回應.  但係後來有些朋友同我說話時會用一些試探和單打的字眼間接表示比我知, 佢地已經知道我嘅小朋友係gifted.  我覺得唔好受.  我相信佢地心裏一定係覺得我以為我個小朋友好了不起, 好巴閉.  其實我唔講出嚟嘅原因只有你們才會明白, right ? 我地係有苦衷, 都係為咗小朋友好.  其實做資優小朋友的家長是一件不容易的事.  自從我d朋友知道後我同佢地嘅聯絡就好少啦. 希望其他家長看到呢個topic 後會明白我們啦.
     quote]原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-18 22:31 發表
我無同人講,無必要,因為個女又唔係叻到飛天,如果有人同我講個女可能係資優我會笑一笑算

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jokay

After I learnt my child is gifted, I and my hubby did compromise not to tell the others except school teachers... during this period, teachers do bring out very valuable suggestions on how to co-operate and guide my kid between schools and home... I can see my kid is improving-- about the bad-temper and discipline...

"Jokay, 我們是經過家庭醫介紹的, 實在我覺得自己還能解決問題時, 不希望知會校方! 有甚麼能幫到你, 可以pm我!"... Thanks, you're so nice.

Hope all the gifted kids and parents can enjoy their school lives!

eileenycm

jokay,

We are same to you, keep slient except the school teacher.  But the other parents did not understand my situation once they know the fact.

原帖由 jokay 於 08-11-19 23:43 發表
After I learnt my child is gifted, I and my hubby did compromise not to tell the others except school teachers... during this period, teachers do bring out very valuable suggestions on how to co-opera ...

Era

lamlam-mama
知道我囝囝冇得2nd in果一刻,都係同你一樣咁down,不過我都好快接受左事實.本來覺得個面試形式係對佢地呢類小朋友應該係有利既,但係咁都入唔到2nd,惟有講係天意啦.
如果有間唔錯既收佢,我諗都唔會諗p2插班既啦.而家我都仍然好相信囝囝既能力.

雖然係唔可以俾太多壓力佢地,不過佢地既求知慾,的確會令到我覺得唔可能唔比多d既培訓佢囉.佢想學既時候唔俾佢,驚佢過左就冇興趣啦.

原帖由 lamlam-mama 於 08-11-18 02:14 發表
我囝囝小一時係有考dbspd, 不過連2nd interview 都無份, 當時真係好似世界末日! 我無遞交韋氏的 report, 因為我心知唔係太多學校可以真真正正接受或欣賞這些小孩! 想當年我真係一個非常失敗的母親, 不但無幫助囝囝去 ...

BBR

其實宜家身邊D小朋友10個有3,4個係資優,我有時會諗究竟係社會進步有好多資源令現今小朋友變叻左定真係資優,宜家D小朋友好聰明,咩都會問,咩都會學,父母比好多野小朋友學,但D資優test好多時已經過時,所以就算我個女個test 指數好高但我又唔覺係咩,我都係當佢普通人,只會在佢強項同有興趣方面培育佢,其他一切正常,唔會比任何壓力佢,我當初比佢做test唔係想知佢係米資優,而係想知點解佢成日唔駛 但D精力好似用唔完,佢宜家都係日日6點幾起床(但佢返下午班),晚上响床到玩到11,12點 ,我以為佢有過度活躍.
所以大家對資優兒抱平常心去面對,宜家D test好多都係for10幾年前的,我只會覺得宜家D小朋友月黎月叻,但係米真正資優就好值得深究(包括我個女 )

Era

BBR
囝囝做果個話係要做adjustment既,佢話出來果個分要adjust左,咁就變左另一個分.
本來我做,都係想睇下佢優到乜野程度,同埋真正係邊方面優.點知話係要做兩至三次先準確.我地見貴,做左一次,出來既有d同我地認為既都有出入,分析就話有時都會有開唔開正果瓣既情況.負責分析既都話貴,唔好再做啦.等佢再大d,而新既比較準則出左先再做喎.

原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-20 16:45 發表
其實宜家身邊D小朋友10個有3,4個係資優,我有時會諗究竟係社會進步有好多資源令現今小朋友變叻左定真係資優,宜家D小朋友好聰明,咩都會問,咩都會學,父母比好多野小朋友學,但D資優test好多時已經過時,所以就算我個女個t ...

BBR

相信自己小朋友能力是對的,但千萬不要過份比壓力,我個女去見學校時我諗住間間都唔收,但想不到現時為止有4間收左,我從來唔比個女自大,佢要學咩都好,事前我會同佢講清楚個樣係咩黎,我唔想佢樣樣都3分鍾熱度,認為樣樣野只要佢想要就一定有,係天經地義,從小養成認真態度,玩時玩,學習時學習,唔可以一句係資優就做咩都得(因為我响佢小時做得唔好,佢要咩買咩,淨係鞋都過百對,玩具更加唔駛講,但有一日放學老師同我講佢成日唔同人玩,於是老師問佢點解,佢答因為D同學好蠢所以唔想同佢地玩 ,跟住屋企所有野佢都唔珍惜,因為太易得到,好彩我醒覺得怏),就係因為係資優所以更加要認真處理佢地思想性格上的問題,因為佢地D思想好複雜,處理得唔好,好容易走錯路.

原帖由 Era 於 08-11-20 15:59 發表
lamlam-mama
知道我囝囝冇得2nd in果一刻,都係同你一樣咁down,不過我都好快接受左事實.本來覺得個面試形式係對佢地呢類小朋友應該係有利既,但係咁都入唔到2nd,惟有講係天意啦.
如果有間唔錯既收佢,我諗都唔會諗p2插 ...

[ 本帖最後由 BBR 於 08-11-20 17:08 編輯 ]

BBR

其實我又真係覺得做唔做test都唔緊要,除非你覺得佢好有問題,我地做父母日對夜對個小朋友一定知佢強响邊,弱响邊,我成日覺得D test好呃$,其實細個做真係唔係太準,真係要做的話等佢地12,3歲做會準D

原帖由 Era 於 08-11-20 16:55 發表
BBR
囝囝做果個話係要做adjustment既,佢話出來果個分要adjust左,咁就變左另一個分.
本來我做,都係想睇下佢優到乜野程度,同埋真正係邊方面優.點知話係要做兩至三次先準確.我地見貴,做左一次,出來既有d同我地認為既都 ...

Era

bbr
<更加要認真處理佢地思想性格上的問題,因為佢地D思想好複雜,處理得唔好,好容易走錯路.>==非常同意呀!

仲有個原因俾佢去做test既,就係政府對資優既資源,淨會俾做左test既.

原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-20 17:07 發表
其實我又真係覺得做唔做test都唔緊要,除非你覺得佢好有問題,我地做父母日對夜對個小朋友一定知佢強响邊,弱响邊,我成日覺得D test好呃$,其實細個做真係唔係太準,真係要做的話等佢地12,3歲做會準D

...

BBR

我自己就覺得所謂政府資源究竟實質係咩?你都應該記得之前有幾單新聞都話緊政府幫唔到資優小朋友,我寧願自去搵方法好過靠政府 希望你入到心儀學校

原帖由 Era 於 08-11-20 17:10 發表
bbr
==非常同意呀!

仲有個原因俾佢去做test既,就係政府對資優既資源,淨會俾做左test既.

eileenycm

Hi, BBR

mug 你個囡囡又係唔多鍾意瞓覺, 我個小朋友都係一樣, 所以佢有對熊貓眼, 食極都唔肥果隻.  我仲要比其他小朋友d家長話我'弱'待我個小朋友,真係慘

原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-20 16:45 發表
其實宜家身邊D小朋友10個有3,4個係資優,我有時會諗究竟係社會進步有好多資源令現今小朋友變叻左定真係資優,宜家D小朋友好聰明,咩都會問,咩都會學,父母比好多野小朋友學,但D資優test好多時已經過時,所以就算我個女個t ...

BBR

我個女好細個已經唔駛午睡,日日6點幾起身 ,食好多野,不過食極唔肥

原帖由 eileenycm 於 08-11-20 22:05 發表
Hi, BBR

mug 你個囡囡又係唔多鍾意瞓覺, 我個小朋友都係一樣, 所以佢有對熊貓眼, 食極都唔肥果隻.  我仲要比其他小朋友d家長話我'弱'待我個小朋友,真係慘

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eileenycm

唔知係唔係資優嘅小朋友大部份都係比較瘦?

原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-20 22:24 發表
我個女好細個已經唔駛午睡,日日6點幾起身mouth:" /> ,食好多野,不過食極唔肥

Era

BBR
我憧憬緊間乜鬼學院架,二億喎...

多謝你,都係報左兩間直資,一間2nd左都係24號有result.希望24號可以知道入到邊間啦.

原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-20 17:19 發表
我自己就覺得所謂政府資源究竟實質係咩?你都應該記得之前有幾單新聞都話緊政府幫唔到資優小朋友,我寧願自去搵方法好過靠政府 希望你入到心儀學校

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