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教育王國 討論區 小一選校 sad mum
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發表於 07-10-24 10:36 |只看該作者
Stay optimistic, remember what principal Lam said, you are the one who can influence/help your child to be successful.  My son is a "young" boy (dec/02), though he did not get into second round in Ying Wa interview, but I am more than satisfy of his performance for he enjoyed the whole process.

I have not applied any other DSS or private schools, our next target is lucky draw.  I truly believe a child success largely contribute by the love and care from the family.  Speak with him and you'd be surprise what's makes him/her happy.  For me I change to part time recently with full acknowledgement from my son, he has no hesistation to accept I would buy less things for him, as he realize I will be able to send him to school and pick him up afterwards to go library :)

Be happy, enjoy every moment with your love ones :)

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-24 09:13 硐表
Dear all

Thanks for your suggestion.

I did not join the 1st round 自行.  Because I decide to join the "Big Lucky Draw" next year if no private or 直資 school
make an offer to my son.

You know, it i ...

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原文章由 Stockinette 於 07-10-24 10:36 硐表
Stay optimistic, remember what principal Lam said, you are the one who can influence/help your child to be successful.  My son is a "young" boy (dec/02), though he did not get into second round in Yin ...



說得真好,我地做媽咪既大家要努力,照顧仔女真係一生一世既事業

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原文章由 Stockinette 於 07-10-24 10:36 硐表
Stay optimistic, remember what principal Lam said, you are the one who can influence/help your child to be successful.  My son is a "young" boy (dec/02), though he did not get into second round in Yin ...



I usually just read the threads .... but I was really moved by what you said, and can't help writing here that I wish I could be like you....  as a working mum, it's always hard to decide to work less, or quit and spend more time with kids, having to consider the issue of "resources", though every mum knows that what kids need most are love, care and accompaniment.

And I recently discovered that what my son wanted most after interview everytime is not any kind of gift, but is my big hug and encouragement!

Add oil, to all parents!

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唔好意思我有1個間題想請教一下:
我本身是某教會中文女小學校友,所以阿女於第一楷段有20分,相信好大機會入到該小學,但我本身又多心想阿女入其他較出名的英文直資小學,以我所知DGS及很多直資小學會在第1round計分後才confirm收生,請問是否真確?因為阿女不是下年度入小學,所以我並未完全掌握小一收生程序,請問有沒有高人指点吓?
如果我於1st round register咗, 請問可否轉入直資及取消
1st round 派位?

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發表於 07-10-24 17:05 |只看該作者
Hi, wing1904

I am not trying to stop you for letting your son repeat K3 but please have thoughtful consideration.

My son also failed in Ying Wa and most likely failed in St Margaret but I will never let him repeat K3 because you will never know ........
1. whether your son is school's cup of tea. It depends on a lot of factors, only Ms Lam knows what is happening as the insider. Of course, she will never let you know the truth as her marketing skill is excellent as seen in the school talk. The encouragement programme (i.e. request the student to study hard for the sake of saving her son )actually happened 3 to 4 years ago as told by student there and no similar programme has been launched in recently years. (in fact, after that school talk, i become her fan as she made me believe that she is a real educationist. I already gained so much from that talk as I know the way to increase the impetus of my son).

2. whether you can help your son overcome himeself to be confident in expressing well in front of people. My case is actually very similar to yours but I think that different kids will have different character and personality. My son is shy and, I believe, is inborn as I have tried very bid of my best to change him but in vain. If you are really sure he can change 180 degree, then you may let him repeat but by that time, he might lose confidence as he might think he is inferior to his fellows as he is the only one who needs to repeat.

I believe that kid's development all depends on how you nurture him instead of entering a good school. As read from newspaper, it is quite crystal clear that most of the real genius are come from infamous school. They have one commonality that their family support them and nurture them.

I will let my son join the lucky draw if no private or direct sidized school accept him as he and his parents (ie. me and my beloved wife) have endeavoured to do our best.

Let's believe in fate. Let's work hard and never step back.


原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-24 09:13 硐表
Dear all

Thanks for your suggestion.

I did not join the 1st round 自行.  Because I decide to join the "Big Lucky Draw" next year if no private or 直資 school
make an offer to my son.

You know, it i ...

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Chingyumm

原文章由 Chingyumm 於 07-10-24 13:56 硐表
唔好意思我有1個間題想請教一下:
我本身是某教會中文女小學校友,所以阿女於第一楷段有20分,相信好大機會入到該小學,但我本身又多心想阿女入其他較出名的英文直資小學,以我所知DGS及很多直資小學會在第1round計分後才 ...


once you accept the govn't school, I think you cannot
accept the 直資小學.  but if you have 20 marks, I suggest you can choose anyother good govn't school.  But at that
time, you must think which school you like 直資小學 or the
govn't school.

I suggest you must phone to ask the staff of govn't
education dept.  You can tell them your case, they will
answer you.  Tel: 2832-7700 or 2832-7740

Good Luck!

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發表於 07-10-24 17:54 |只看該作者
I can't help to share my experience again.....

Just like most parents, when my son was born, i made plan for his future kinder/schools, lots of one way knowledge feeding (flash cards, english time....)  At age of 3 he was diagnose as borderline development delay and austistic feature, it was a bomb into the family.  Though I doubted the diagnosis but I must admit my son was not the same as his mates.  I also realize I don't realize 'know' him as well as I should.  I trashed my old approach, simply play and laugh with him, lots of hugs and kisses, it really streghten our relationship he started listen to me.  I was then able to guide him to learn, read and express himself.  Also this neighborhood kinder after knowing my son's challenge love and cares for him even more (honestly is rare in HK, schools tend to turn kids away after if they don't  perform), I never heard complaints from the school, instead just endless encouragement and praises on his progress, his teacher even done extra research/reading on how to assist him.  After two years, my son has become quite a different boy, happy, love reading, perform well at school and not afraid to try new things.  Educational physcologist recently diagnose him as having high IQ (hence not development delay) and not autistic.   Of course there are tonnes of things we need to improve on, but I have his full cooperation to work thru these.  Also my boy used to be very shy, avoid talking to ppl he does not know and scare if I asked him to buy things in a store.  He is a lot better now that I spend more time with him after school, I take him to eat in different restaurants and encourage to order food by himself and pay for the bill, takes him to park to play with different kids, etc, throughout these tiny successes, he has build up his confidence and can initiate conversations with ppl he does not quite know :)

Cheers to all parents, you are the guiding angels for your kids.

原文章由 ChiFungMom 於 07-10-24 17:05 硐表
Hi, wing1904

I am not trying to stop you for letting your son repeat K3 but please have thoughtful consideration.

My son also failed in Ying Wa and most likely failed in St Margaret but I will never ...

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發表於 07-10-24 18:10 |只看該作者
唔好意思我有1個間題想請教一下:
我本身是某教會中文女小學校友,所以阿女於第一楷段有20分,相信好大機會入到該小學,但我本身又多心想阿女入其他較出名的英文直資小學,以我所知DGS及很多直資小學會在第1round計分後才confirm收生,請問是否真確?因為阿女不是下年度入小學,所以我並未完全掌握小一收生程序,請問有沒有高人指点吓?
如果我於1st round register咗, 請問可否轉入直資及取消
1st round 派位?

為了搶收生, 很多直資小學會在第1 round 派位前公布錄取結果, 並要求簽署放棄第一round 的派位. SPCC 的收生結果則約與官津自行差不多時間公布, 可到時才取捨.
DGJS 是私校, 不需放棄官津自行派位.
最後, 即使簽了直資, 如後悔, 都可於統一派位截止前向教局取消註冊, 重新參加派位.

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I was also moved by all you touching words here. TOday when i read the eductional pages of Sing Tao, I intentionally read the topic for "how to pick up a good kinder". To choose one that can offer your child the most important thing at the pre-school age and not choose  those deemed as "elite school" or "english kinder". I recalled why I have chosen the existing kinder for my girl and I assure myself for more importantly, I should choose one primary school that fits her, not those so-called elite school. Child needs encouragment. We can see, the ppl around us, they all have different background. coming from different primary and secondary school. And we may end up meeting in the same university, local or oversea, and in the same company. So as long as we parent are undoubtfly willing to make our life time contribution to them, there makes not much difference if they could not enter into a reputable primary school. Parents, don;t give up.

[ 本文章最後由 lui 於 07-10-24 23:01 編輯 ]

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原文章由 Stockinette 於 07-10-24 17:54 硐表
I can't help to share my experience again.....

Just like most parents, when my son was born, i made plan for his future kinder/schools, lots of one way knowledge feeding (flash cards, english time... ...



Thanks for your share!  I must remember that.
We are the guiding angels for our kids.

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原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-25 00:04 硐表



Thanks for your share!  I must remember that.
We are the guiding angels for our kids.


Yeah... We are the guiding angels, try our best and let God do the rest la... Be happy to face with all kinds of
difficulties. We are by your sides.


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Agree. Repeat is not an option to me. My kid's born in 12/02, no school admits him so far, not Ying Wa, HKUGA, EC, ...

But if it turns out only a disaappointing school admit him, I would still let him study there and accept the reality. And I'll pay more effort to educate my kid myself at home (or by tutors), like Stockinette. Many well performed kids, including the recent talent girl in HK, are not educated by famous schools. Moreover, kids still have chances at F1, university to enter good schools. My ex-colleague once studied in a unknown school, but performed well, and hence could enter SPCC (a dream school for many parents) at F3.

And to me, time is too valuable, losing a year repeating is a pity for the kid.

This is just my personal immature view, not necessarily correct, or fitting wing1904's situation.

原文章由 曲曲 於 07-10-25 10:47 硐表
誰人保證下一年必能入到心儀學校?
重讀一年k3,就必定可以入到?

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Dear all

Thanks for all.  and I know I make a wrong decision.
I plan let my son study P1, I will let him try to apply P2 of
the good school if he can get the good result in P1.
But if he told me feel very tough and may be discuss with
his teacher and let him repeat P1.

But I also will ask his willing, if he don't want have any
change later.  I must repect him.  I hope he can grow up
with my love.  :

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Children are very sensative. I do agree with others that it is discourging to let the child repeat K3. Why not try the "lucky draw" and may be you have some luck.  Let him study there for 1 year. Who knows if there is any surprise there waiting for you. If your child doesn't fit in that school, try in mid-term or at the end of P1 to apply for others. There are always some vacancy, you never know now.

Like all mothers, I did think about letting my son repeat last year in order to get it the school I want. After deep thinking, I ask myself several questions. Is that the school my son wants to go? Can he catch up with the others there? Does it mean that he will have a bright future after admitting to that school? All these questions made me puzzle. My answer was either no or I don't know. See this is only the adult's mind. What if failed?  god knows.

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我看了你的first post後, 心裡說, 咦, 你跟我一模一樣啊, 我仔也是02年11月生, 也是在40區住, 也是讀很貴的幼稚園, 不過沒有上小一面試班, 不過也是在私校和直資面試中全軍覆沒的人! 初初覺得好慘, 但我都跟自己說, 人生很漫長, 只是小學而已, 沒必要讓它打跨自己啊! 你還有中學呢!!! 大學又點算呢??? 到亞仔結婚娶老婆, 若他選了一個很兇, 沒錢又貪錢,只是樣靚的, 跟你對抗到死的又點呢??? 再返來想一想, 人生是他自己的, 雖然在很無奈的要適應香港的奇怪教育制度, 但沒有事情是十全十美的, 樂觀地面對世界, 是我們可以做到的!! 不過, 我也是一個跟你一樣的sad mum, but, I ask myself to be stronger and happier,  I need to walk along with my son far far away long!!! I need to teach him to enjoy his life!!

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發表於 07-10-29 16:16 |只看該作者
囝囝也是生在11/2002,但現在我不覺他比大仔差.
我有朋友的兒子是生在11月,現在己讀小四,不覺他有問題,所以不用擔心,船到橋頭自然直.

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原文章由 jeremyma 於 07-10-27 14:07 硐表
我看了你的first post後, 心裡說, 咦, 你跟我一模一樣啊, 我仔也是02年11月生, 也是在40區住, 也是讀很貴的幼稚園, 不過沒有上小一面試班, 不過也是在私校和直資面試中全軍覆沒的人! 初初覺得好慘, 但我都跟自己說,  ...


"I need to teach him to enjoy his life!!" 說得好, 讀再好的學校, 做再好的工, 有再多的錢~ 不能 enjoy 等同行C走肉, 枉然 !

martse

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我個仔係01年12月出生.
你而家既經歷係我上一年既路.
我個仔怕醜, 又內向, 又怕事, 又細細粒, 功課又唔係太好.
上年帶佢面試三間學校, 有二次喊咗出嚟, 最後無一間取錄.
最後同老公商量, 如果比佢上小學, 只會比人蝦, 成績又可能係中下, 同人地d學生比, 點都爭d. 所以我比個仔repeat k3, 初時佢都有問點解唔係升小一, 我話因為小一d功課好多, 所以遲一年先讀.
今年又報考小一, 我報考咗8間, 又帶佢返小一面試班, 過咗一年, 仔仔大個咗又成熟咗, 同上一年好唔同, 面試巳經無喊, 好過上一年好多.
不過可能係性格問題, 面試班上堂表現好好, 到真正面試時只得兩成表現, 我真係覺得好無奈, 想發火鬧佢, 又好似唔忍心, 5歲小朋友可以做d mud, 我地見工都會緊張啦, 所以唔怪得佢地既.
我到而家為止, 浸會係waitlist, 英華reject咗, 其他, 隨緣啦 !
不過我上年揾咗間可以直升小一既幼稚園, 所以如果8間小學全軍覆沒, 都有後著.
如果你真係要repeat k3, 最好揾d課程深過而家讀緊果間, 千祈唔好repeat同一間學校, 否則佢會失去學習興趣.


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