資優兒童的媽媽,你們會否覺得有壓力?

kawai728

原文章由 heratang 於 07-9-11 12:39 硐表
有時我很怕教得不好, 浪費了女兒的天賦, 覺得很大壓力...

當然有壓力!!但不要太大,這樣兩方都好辛苦

supercutemummy

當我收到結果時, 只覺憂慮和好大壓力, 唔敢話俾個仔知, 佢自己IQ有幾多, 怕他驕傲, 又擔心怎樣面對和教導栽培他成材, 不致埋沒上天賦予他的優越智慧, 記得電視有個特輯講資優兒童, 標題"資優無憂?", 原來當中意味甚大.....

原文章由 heratang 於 07-9-11 12:39 硐表
有時我很怕教得不好, 浪費了女兒的天賦, 覺得很大壓力...

WaWaMom

You know, gifted kids realize that they are smarter than others no matter you tell him/her or not.

Gifted kids are good "absorbers". So, I like my daughter making mistakes which is a good learning process. Once they make mistake, they would ask you why and you can explore more to them.

Being a parent, we shouldn't give ourselves and our kids too much pressure. I believe good IQ is not the major key of success.

ottomum

What's the key of success?

原文章由 WaWaMom 於 07-10-25 13:51 硐表
You know, gifted kids realize that they are smarter than others no matter you tell him/her or not.

Gifted kids are good "absorbers". So, I like my daughter making mistakes which is a good learning  ...

Maryahwan

原帖由 heratang 於 07-9-11 12:39 發表
有時我很怕教得不好, 浪費了女兒的天賦, 覺得很大壓力...

個仔有主見,喜歡表達自已見解.任何時間任何事情都會同你討價還價.令到你筋疲力盡. 吾知黠教個仔.

HeiPoPo

因為自己的觀察, 所以有做test.  結果 gifted child 一直看到, 最後做test引證.  好驚喜but 有d 壓力.

[ 本帖最後由 HeiPoPo 於 09-3-11 00:24 編輯 ]

hin_ma

係呀,由初時估估吓,到測試完知道答案,真是又驚又喜...,依家又煩要點先可以哉培佢...毫無頭緒...

chloemami618

資優生對我來說真的很大壓力，因為自己學力唔高，唔知點樣先可以比到最好嘅嘢佢，又唔知有啲乜嘢課程啱佢，有時真喺覺得自己好冇用。

cemily

Suggest you read Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell. Some good answers to your question.

原帖由 ottomum 於 07-10-25 14:32 發表
What's the key of success?

eileenycm

我都覺得有壓力, 因為怕自己用錯方法教育和栽培呢類的小朋友.

heratang

原帖由 cemily 於 09-5-21 00:31 發表
Suggest you read Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell. Some good answers to your question.

Oh, I'm reading this book as well. Very interesting.

happyvalley

原帖由 heratang 於 09-8-27 18:17 發表


Oh, I'm reading this book as well. Very interesting.

呢本書超多人借，排長隊。

brian61950

可能唔知好過知,
人太聰明不好.

太太想帶仔女去check,我打死都唔比.
我同佢講......
人去你又去既,多餘啦.
你留意到特徵既,你信係就係架喇,駛乜check.
係唔係都冇分別.
求而求不得,煩惱自生.

cherrytsoi

HI,

I want to know how old can test, pls advise, thanks.