24/08 蒙特梭利家長班

bb@wonderland

Hi every mummies,

I have also attended the parent course. I have tried the followings:

1) Take BB to the wet market

(but after the process, I really find it a bit insecure bringing to wet market, eg. when passing the fish stall, the hawker is cutting the fish and the blood of the fish just split onto me...and nearly onto my BB)

2) Going to the park more, and let BB crawl on the 滑梯 and Stairs.

(BB likes watching to other kids)

3) Teaching BB to eat by himself and hold his bottle when drinking milk, hold the cut when drinking water

(Still a bit hesitate to let BB to hold "glass" instead of plastic cup)

Thinkings:
1) Whether to take off the safety gate from the kitchen
2) To buy a set of table and chair for BB (but what to do with the highchair, it is still very new)
3) What to do with his playpen, just bought for weeks
4) To buy a shelf for his toy (should deal with the playpen first)
5) Start preparing/ gathering the teaching materials for him
6) What to do with the flash cards (learnt from Doman teaching theory)? Can I still use or I cannot use?????????

Let's share.

PS. bakusensei, I have enrolled the teaching programme, as I find the need to know more.

bakusensei

原文章由 bb@wonderland 於 07-8-28 15:11 硐表
Hi every mummies,

I have also attended the parent course. I have tried the followings:

1) Take BB to the wet market

(but after the process, I really find it a bit insecure bringing to wet market, ...

hi [email=bb@wonderland]bb@wonderland[/email],

i discussed w/ daisy last friday n she advised me taking the course when baby is 1.5-2yrs old (or i shall forget everything when he can use the tools)

baby goes to the playground downstairs everyday w/ grandpa. we also let him play the mini-slide in the baby's room in the church.

baby loves going to supermkt. i ve reservation brining him to mkt.

we will buy kids' chair and table later this wk. the highchair which is borrowed from friend, i guess will return

we still think the gate for the kitchen is important. likewise the net-bed. becoz the maid can't keep an eye on the baby every second. (she needs to go to toilet, at least)

re. flash cards, they r lying in the boxed under my bed. but we will use that later when baby grows up for matching games (as we made flash card of the same content w. both english n chinese version)

baby using the cup (a plastic cup, but not training cup) for a few days. well, same as the training cup stage, he keeps "blu"ing the water out.

i will ask my husband tonight how's the baby's performance on using the spoon today.

[ 本文章最後由 bakusensei 於 07-8-28 16:24 編輯 ]

bakusensei

原文章由 raymondcfc 於 07-8-28 13:54 硐表
Iceymama, bakusensei, gloria.glory:

Hi,我都係上左24/8家長班的。上完堂有好多啟發，發現有好多野可以教囡囡。

1.星期日同埋囡囡去左泳池玩。(其實好想去沙灘，但實在太遠。)
2.諗緊買張枱&椅同玩具櫃，等囡囡可以自己 ...

hi raymondcfc,

y. still not feeling too comfortable to let the baby enter the kitchen. working mum, i guess, must ve some limitation.

bb@wonderland

Hi bakusensei,

I just think I may have more time to prepare the teaching materials if I can take the course now.  I hope I won't forget when baby is 1.5 yrs old.

I also bring my bb to the supermarket to touch all kinds of fruit and vegetables.

I am planning to bring him to the beach.

Chat later.

原文章由 bakusensei 於 07-8-28 16:22 硐表


hi bb@wonderland,

i discussed w/ daisy last friday n she advised me taking the course when baby is 1.5-2yrs old (or i shall forget everything when he can use the tools)

baby goes to the playground ...

happysin

hi there everybody

i joined the 8-hour parental course last Friday!! In fact, after attending the course, my husband and i:

1. decide to move out our glass dining table which is dangerous to kids

2. buy a set of table and chair for my 1.5-year-old daughter where she can have meals, snacks and toys there

3. build a toy shelf and a book shelf for her (maybe from Ikea)

4. take her to parks more often than just go to shopping malls

5. insist her walking

原文章由 bb@wonderland 於 07-8-28 16:32 硐表
Hi bakusensei,

I just think I may have more time to prepare the teaching materials if I can take the course now.  I hope I won't forget when baby is 1.5 yrs old.

I also bring my bb to the supermarke ...

raymondcfc

Hi all,

I also got the glass table and high-chair, both are quite new, i still hesitate to move it or not???

For the flash card and TV, as i was lazy, flash card was stopped long time. But i think later, i would use the card as "word card", not flash so fast.

still hesitate to continuous the TV "yours baby can read" or not? It do work for my baby. and Daisy said it much better than flash card!!!!

[ 本文章最後由 raymondcfc 於 07-8-28 18:09 編輯 ]

iceymama

Raymondcfc,

I have the same problem as you. I had "Baby can read" and "Baby Einstein"  !!!

Did anyone buy the magazine of Montessori ? Is it good ?  Pls comment. I want to order.

原文章由 raymondcfc 於 07-8-28 18:03 硐表
Hi all,

I also got the glass table and high-chair, both are quite new, i still hesitate to move it or not???

For the flash card and TV, as i was lazy, flash card was stopped long time. But i think l ...

GUB

:loveliness: hihi 大家好

我24/8也參加了montessori的家長班, 我覺得so far幾好, 有些concept更清楚應該點去, 不過有D就仲係未知點:

一定會做:
1. 我一直都沒有給BB睇電視, 現在更大條道理同家人講唔可以比BB睇電視.
2. 遲些叫婆婆每天帶BB去街市, 不過就要小心唔好行近魚檔同肉檔, 都係少少怕D細菌.
3. 唔再帶BB去shopping mall, 要去只會去supermarket
4. 開始試下用杯飲水
5. 不再同婆婆去飲茶, 之前一星期有2次, 但daisy說不好, 就同婆婆說不去了.
6. 會做音筒比佢試玩
7. 掉了屋企張玻璃飯枱, 買過張木飯枱
8. 會去ikea買小朋友的木枱木椅, 還有木櫃放教具.

未知點好:
1. 屋企木地板, 那天daisy說不要舖地墊, 但我都係擔心木地板太硬, 所以可能都會舖地墊, 不過就一定會用單色
2. 廚房無門但有gate, 因為除了防BB仲要防貓, 仲考慮做不做open kitchen.
3. 每天要帶BB去公園, 但我家附近沒有公園, 要去就要坐車, 可能不能每天去, 只可以我放假先去
4. 不去飲茶, 但如果要見爺爺麻麻, 好難下下叫他們上來我家.
5. 屋企有high chair同網床, high chair用來食飯, 網床用來等我去洗手間或行出行入, 放BB入去無咁危險, 唔知應唔應該唔用.
5. 我個女七個月大, 好多野都仲未玩到, 唯有先train下佢自己動手食飯同飲水, 同出多D街, 但其他我未想到可以做什麼.

我應該都會join他們60小時的teaching course, 因為想有系統同正確去用教具, 我常常怕我錯用了教具. 不過可能要等出年年頭先上, 因一來我個囡仲細, 二來我今年星期六要返工.  

另外就仲游說我老公去join 8小時的course. 因為我覺得要一家人齊心去做, 先會有效果.

希望大家多D交流, 可以有更多idea去實行montessori

[ 本文章最後由 GUB 於 07-8-29 16:04 編輯 ]

iceymama

Hi GUB,

你個女同我BB一樣大wor!!

我好像 miss 左飲茶呢part, why not 飲茶 ?


我已經幫我老公報左十月班, 仲半價 tim !!

[ 本文章最後由 iceymama 於 07-8-29 17:12 編輯 ]

3dogs

Hi, bb @wonderland, how old is your baby now??

原文章由 bb@wonderland 於 07-8-28 16:32 硐表
Hi bakusensei,

I just think I may have more time to prepare the teaching materials if I can take the course now.  I hope I won't forget when baby is 1.5 yrs old.

I also bring my bb to the supermarke ...

bakusensei

原文章由 GUB 於 07-8-29 15:54 硐表
:loveliness: 另外就仲游說我老公去join 8小時的course. 因為我覺得要一家人齊心去做, 先會有效果.

v. gd! my husband after taking the 24/8 class, agreed more on the mon's theory.

yuengooluk

GUB

i joined daisy's 8-hour course in june.  would like to ask
you why you said "5. 不再同婆婆去飲茶, 之前一星期有2次, 但daisy說不好, 就同婆婆說不去了."

daisy didn't talk about yumcha last time.  would like to learn more from u.  thx!

原文章由 GUB 於 07-8-29 15:54 硐表
:loveliness: hihi 大家好

我24/8也參加了montessori的家長班, 我覺得so far幾好, 有些concept更清楚應該點去, 不過有D就仲係未知點:

一定會做:
1. 我一直都沒有給BB睇電視, 現在更大條道理同家人講唔可以比BB睇電 ...

bakusensei

原文章由 yuengooluk 於 07-8-30 01:39 硐表
GUB

i joined daisy's 8-hour course in june.  would like to ask
you why you said "5. 不再同婆婆去飲茶, 之前一星期有2次, 但daisy說不好, 就同婆婆說不去了."

daisy didn't talk about yumcha last time.  w ...

Daisy also talked about "yumcha" in march's class.
1) she said, the highchair using in most restaurant is too high. kids' legs r not supported well. thus, they don't feel the security.
2) yumcha usually takes a rather long time. for kids, after they finish their food, they would like to go and play. but if u go yumcha, the adults usually spend a lot of time to talk, which is quite boring from the kids' pt of view.
that's why kids will ask for "seeing the fish"

my husband attended 24/8 class advised that daisy has only mentioned pt 2 above in that class. but he said daisy also mentioned that once u take the kid to see the fish during a yumcha, he/she will ask to see the fish everytime u go yumcha again.

GUB

有關飲茶的問題, 其實是我落堂後問daisy時她說的.

我的囡囡現在七個月大, 很多堂上教實行montessori方法, 我暫時還未用到, 所以我就問daisy七個月大的BB應怎去實行montessori.

daisy就提出了幾點, 從日常生活著手, 例如叫我要多點帶BB去公園, 反而飲茶就不要再去了, 她還說, 如你99要探BB, 一係請她上來你家, 一係大家去野餐.

daisy說的原因是, BB的五官比我們大人靈敏好多, 茶樓的環境對我們大人來說, 都算相當嘈吵, 更何況對一個BB. 帶BB去茶樓, 來自四周的刺激太多, 只會破壞他們的senses. 另外就是BB在茶樓無所事事, 對他們也不好. 所以茶樓對BB來說不是一個好去處.

bb@wonderland

My baby is 9.5 months old. How about you?

原文章由 3dogs 於 07-8-29 18:02 硐表
Hi, bb @wonderland, how old is your baby now??

3dogs

mind is only 4.5 mths, so I just wonder is it too early for me to do this

原文章由 bb@wonderland 於 07-8-30 18:00 硐表
My baby is 9.5 months old. How about you?

modele

多口搭句咀，我無上過蒙特既堂，但自己都好鍾意響屋企既setting做教材，攪d野比仔玩/學，睇你地所講，有d野我一直都做緊，例如real cup to drink, baby desk & chair, no gate for kitchen, let him choose toys & place back, outings, ask him hold bottle when milk, i didn't bring him to wet market but the meat/fish conrner at superstore…… 或者我地可以share多d，大家分享下仲可以做d咩。

但我都幾奇怪有關飲茶一事，茶樓環境的確唔適合bb，但偶然去下我又覺得無不可，我又buy一個theory，就係唔可以所有野都就晒個bb，否則佢長大會比較自我，又會覺得人地就佢係應份。bb都要學下適應大人既世界同生活方式，比如飲茶咁，可唔可以當係一個機會train佢耐性，有時唔係下下都係佢順心既環境，咁佢都要學習去忍耐同適應，唔可以唔鍾意就唔去或者走人，咁樣既social skill唔好。我會帶d書仔or玩具比佢自己玩，大人就可以傾計，我覺得去飲茶都唔係一定唔好，我兩個小朋友都會閒時跟大人去飲茶，食完野，佢地都會坐響度做自己野，畫公仔or睇書or玩車仔，學下自處，有時又會同佢地玩tick點心紙，要佢地問auntie uncle鍾意食咩，然後幫手ｔｉｃｋ，其實都係一個好好機會學野呀，但睇魚我就唔會，但埋單走人果陣，行到門口我會向佢地介紹唔同既海鮮！

btw，我都想睇下個course，有冇人可以比d資料我﹖

Tata1668

原文章由 modele 於 07-8-31 13:37 硐表
多口搭句咀，我無上過蒙特既堂，但自己都好鍾意響屋企既setting做教材，攪d野比仔玩/學，睇你地所講，有d野我一直都做緊，例如real cup to drink, baby desk & chair, no gate for kitchen, let him choose toys & place back, o ...

modele,
我非常同意你既講法! 我覺得有時唔可以咁極端... 又唔係叫你日日去飲3個小時茶... 閒時去做下又無妨.  我都會帶d玩具、餅餅比bb食同玩 (佢得8個月大), 佢雖然只係去過3數次, 但表現都ok.  至於1個月去1、2次酒樓係咪會破壞到佢d感管, 我唔敢評論, 但我自己認為可以接受 (我都好怕嘈).
看來我應該唔會係一個合格既蒙媽...

yuengooluk

GUB and others, thx for your input on yumcha.  i also think that it's okay to take baby/kid to yumcha once a while, as long as we don't go there every day.  regarding seeing fish or wandering around the restaurant, my mom hasn't been allowing my boy to leave the table during meal in any restaurant ever since he's still cradled, so my boy is used to staying at the table.  all friends of mine are amazed at his performance.  i do agree w/ daisy that once you allow baby to see fish, s/he will ask for it every time.  that's why i support my mom's theory, and it does work well.

Babyeddie

同意

大家要諗吓呀maria個年代先.係1870年呀
係100年前寫呢個理論
係都係一個兒童院
冇好物資
係西方冇飲茶
係應用上係有要 adaptation

mont 唔係教大家盲目去跟一個理論同人去講yes or no, 去定唔去
係要去明then去應用
大家要真係明咗個再用批評去analyse
無一個觀點係冇盲點
我覺得大家太過依賴某個人個覲點
有d盲目
佢都唔係呀maria 個伐言人
我覺得下不如返回原點睇咗書的theory先
仲有daisy 都係mont加咗好多element eg 多原智能去加強個令上playgroup bb 學得更好
so let's open our eyes to perfect mont

原文章由 Tata1668 於 07-8-31 13:46 硐表

modele,
我非常同意你既講法! 我覺得有時唔可以咁極端... 又唔係叫你日日去飲3個小時茶... 閒時去做下又無妨.  我都會帶d玩具、餅餅比bb食同玩 (佢得8個月大), 佢雖然只係去過3數次, 但表現都ok.  至於1個月去1、2 ...

[ 本文章最後由 Babyeddie 於 07-9-1 11:22 編輯 ]